Would you date someone who doesn't drink, smoke, or do drugs?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[SueAnon84]

I don't do any of that. I would rather spend my time being healthy and productive and I felt that doing those things would endanger my health and or my future children's health! That said, I actually did go out with people that were doing these things. In fact, a lot of my exes were doing this stuff. But I was always getting conflicting messages from the media and health sites that say that smoking is bad for your health, that it is going to unnecessarily shorten your life , give you a stroke or heart attack, give you fertility issues and give you cancer of the lungs or other body parts! I didn't want any of that nor did I want to shorten my life so I promised myself not to get addicted to those things! I also want to mention that it can cause sudden infant death syndrome, or fetal alcohol syndrome and many more stuff that I just didn't want to risk it and I am still not planning to do that! I've already gone through a lot and I don't want to necessarily complicate my life any further... especially if I can help it! ... That's all. :)

[BluesheepOwl]

Wow that would be amazing if I found a guy who doesn't drink. Most guys don't do drugs but as soon as they tell me they like weed, I leave. I hate weed. If they ever touched hardcore drugs that would be an instant deal breaker for me.

I don't drink, I don't smoke cigarettes or smoke weed, I've never tried hardcore drugs. So I'd like to find someone similar to myself. Also both my older brothers are alcoholics so I am sensitive when it comes to drinking. I'd prefer if he never drank but it's ok to have a drink once a while, just not often. It's good to make sure they don't have a problem being sober. If they always need to be intoxicated then there are a lot of mental problems there and most people won't want to stick around and try to help them. Only they can want to change. It'll just be painful for you to try and help them.

[heartsinmyeyes]

I feel the same way

[Asker]

I don't do any of those things!😜

[BluesheepOwl]

That's really good! But when you turn 21 are you going to drink?

[Asker]

Not really, doc said it's best if I stay away from it, and it almost never got me drunk anyways😂

[BluesheepOwl]

It's ok to drink as long as you are responsible and you don't do it often. It's easy to get hooked and our generation is known to be alcoholics, strangely.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

So I can't drink and I don't do drugs and when I'm around people who are drunk or high and I'm the sober one, I have to be the voice of reason and basically babysit which I don't like when I'm also trying to have fun. I don't mind as much if they are just tipsy or if they handle themselves well when they aren't sober, but there's always at least a part of me worrying about them.
So while someone drinking or getting high once in a while on pot or mushrooms isn't a deal break for me, I do prefer being around people when they are also sober and I don't have to watch out for them so much

[HotJealousy]

Maybe, but depends. Personally I drink quite a lot and occasionally take drugs, but have never smoked. If she had a problem with me doing those things then I wouldn't date her as that could cause problems. But if she was fine with it then I don't see why not providing she'd still want to come to raves/parties with me :)

[sejla]

I don't either so it would be nice. I mean I used to have a drink once a year but since I guess since they found some stomach erosion during my last scope I can't even do that. The first thing the nurse asked when they called after the scope was do you drink which I don't. I guess that's the common way that happens.

[SydneySentinel]

Yes. As long as he didn't mind me having a few drinks once in a while.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Considering I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, I would love a partner that doesn't do any of that!

[MrOracle]

Absolutely. I do none of those either.

[MrOracle]

I don't mind if she occasionally drinks, but smoking, drugs, or heavy drinking would be a deal breaker.

[Inbox]

@MrOracle Yup

[tiffany_g]

I'd prefer if my partner didn't smoke. It makes me a hypocrite since I'm a chimney myself, but I'm trying to quit and having a partner who smokes will make that more difficult. I don't mind if they drink in moderation or have an occasional drink on weekends, but I won't put up with someone who gets drunk every night.

Drugs are an absolute deal breaker. Doesn't matter if it's the "harmless" stuff like pot or the potentially fatal stuff. Stoners keep coming into the store where I work, make a general nuisance of themselves, and I'd ban them all if I had the authority to do so.

[yoshi_wanna_ask]

Yes! That's my ideal partner. I definitely don't want the smoke/drugs part but alcohol is just so smelly and expensive and there's so many other options if it's just about drinking something. If not, hopefully he'd be happy enough within himself and those around him that he wouldn't need to get wasted either. I mean, of course there's exceptions and special days and certainly wouldn't expect him to be 'perfect' but just to want to aim for having a satisfying lifestyle without them, you know? If I can find someone who *already* wants that, that'd be amazing.

[Chikky]

That's a total package honey

[Asker]

☺️☺️☺️

[Anonymous]

I don't drink, smoke or take drugs. And I'd only ever date a guy who didn't drink, smoke or take drugs.

I used to go out to bars and clubbing when I was at college. I drank, but not a lot. But I've never drank for years. I don't like the taste of alcohol now , and I don't see the point of drinking it lol

[xBec14x]

Cigarettes actually make me sick and throws me into coughing fits that I can’t breathe so absolutely no. But vapes are fine cause it’s pretty much just flavored and scented vapor water.
Drugs. Meh it depends. I’ve had a few college friends that tried something heavy once or twice but never injected.
Alcohol hate to say it but they kinda have to with me. I don’t want them never giving themselves a treat once in awhile. Go out for a nice dinner? Just get 1 beer or have champagne at a wedding enjoy yourself you deserve it :)

[Hacienda94nature]

Sounds like me i never tried any drugs tobacco makes my stomach sick. But i got to have beer

[Asker]

There's way better things than alcohol that don't have lots of bad side effects.

[xBec14x]

If you only drink one maybe two drinks then you won’t hve any bad side effects from alcohol unless you’re legitimately allergic to it

[Flamdring]

Well, as I am someone who does not smoke and barely drinks - a beer or wine once a month at best, I would have no problem dating someone who does not drink, smoke or use other drugs (tobacco and alcohol are already classified as drugs).

[Price511]

I'll date somebody who drinks, but I think I'll stay away from those who do drugs or smoke. Do you have any idea what that can do to your oral hygiene? I find it appalling to say the least.

I mean maybe if they experiment with it a little, sure, but if they full on just do that and get an addiction then I'm out.

Unless they have weed, because I want to try it out. Might calm my nerves a bit from my anxiety over everything.

[MissChasityL]

I would because I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs myself. I don't know how alcohol tastes lol.

[Asker]

You're not missing out, it tastes like crap and doesn't make you feel differently unless you've had a ton of it😂

[Hurlyburly]

Sounds quite perfect tbh. I do not have anything against drinking (as long as it's moderate and only happens on certain occasions) but I most definetely wouldn't want a relationship with someone who's smoking or doing any kind of drugs.

[MusicMayhem]

I wouldn't date someone that does drugs and prefer they don't smoke. Just today I was walking down the street minding my own business and some drugged up lady just started abusing the shit out of me throwing f bombs left, right, and centre, even after I had walked well past her.

As for alcohol I prefer they do drink because those that don't often flat out refuse to even go to places where others do drink and I want to still go out for a few beers with a mate.

[mistixs]

Yes! I'm the same way, except the psych meds I need to take

[Asker]

Those don't count, lol

[Wolframium]

I am someone who doesn't drink, smoke, or do drugs. Or hazard. And I'm not willing to change it. Obviously, for obvious reasons.
If this is your idea of fun, then sorry, but nope.
You think doing this is so cool? No. What's cool is having sharp mind and fast reflexes, for example. That's hard. Drinking? That is easy.
It's about the ability to catch suddenly falling object in mid-air, not get wasted.

[humanearth]

I prefer dope free people. You do any kind of dope that includes pot or weed if thats what you want to call it

I beer here and there i dont give a shit about. But if your a drunk all the time your gone

I won't stand for a cigarette smoker them are gross

[jmzero]

I have nothing against people who dont. And I don't do drugs but I do like to drink on occasion and for me it feels just weird to be out with a partner trying to enjoy a couple drinks and they're completely sober. I feel like were not on equal footing and I can't enjoy being loose.

[Anonymous]

I didn't drink until I was like 21 but now I drink wine at home on the weekend. I don't get wasted but I enjoy a few glasses to relax. As long as my partner lets me to do that i'm good. The one i'm currently dating hates alcohol because he can't stand the taste and because he has an alcoholic father so he wants to avoid it, but he doesn't mind others drinking.

[Anonymous]

I don't drink, smoke or do drugs either. Tbh I wouldn't mind at all if he drank once in a while, smoking may be a bit of a turnoff but I can look past it, drugs would be a deal breaker cuz they're illegal here. A man who does none of those seems pretty reasonable. I think it'd be pretty great