He isn't interested in you much but if you pay for things it tips the scale to make you worth his time. I've done this with girls before like ehhh im not into you but oh you going to pay to take me to a fancy dinner? Yes please.
@buttcrackjoe hey im all for equality. Im also rich but i dont spend money on no hos. Any girl who sleeps around id never buy anything for even just a beer.
I understand what you're saying about paying the bill. It's not a rule but it's a sign ~ at least during the first date! ~ the guy is a gentleman. He could be cheap or just you just didn't hit it off. Move on to a better date!
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You met on a dating app after a week of talking at the bar at night? This doesn’t sounds like a true date especially not from a guy almost 40 girl.
He isn't interested in you much but if you pay for things it tips the scale to make you worth his time. I've done this with girls before like ehhh im not into you but oh you going to pay to take me to a fancy dinner? Yes please.
Smh no better than a gold digger at this point
@buttcrackjoe hey im all for equality. Im also rich but i dont spend money on no hos. Any girl who sleeps around id never buy anything for even just a beer.
He's obviously a strong feminist.
Might be a test to know what your reaction will be
But I think that's unmanly
Are you sure it was a date?
He asked me out for drinks yes but this definitely was no date in my mind!
Exactly
But he asked you on a date specifically or just for friendly drinks?
He said he would like to take me out on a date and have some drinks x
I understand what you're saying about paying the bill. It's not a rule but it's a sign ~ at least during the first date! ~ the guy is a gentleman.
He could be cheap or just you just didn't hit it off. Move on to a better date!
I think the person that asks should be the person that pays. That makes sense to me
Oh my boyfriend left the tab open and said drink up on our second date lol. That’s weird
Not every guy out there is Prince Charming.
Because he’s an idiot. Walk away.
I think both should pay for the other on first dates
says that both of you are willing to commit to the other.
May be he took it as a normal casual date. Or may be he didn't have much cash or didn't want to spend. I feel sorry for you though.
Wow.. you deserve so much better.
I think he should of anyway. at least for himself.
Sounds like he's either deluded or on the spectrum
What did this guy look like? And what does he do for a living?
He wanted a drink and was a bit short...
That sounds terrible
He is just being himself 😂
he's a Spoiled Rich Kid.
Damn that’s trifling.
Why do you expect another person to buy or pay for something for you?
Clearly you didn’t read my post!
I think she means that she only wanted him to buy his OWN drink instead of being rude like that
Oh okay. I didn't get it at first.