Do you truly believe that women hit the Wall after the age of 30 no matter how pretty they are? (Page 2)
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the only reason I view a wall is because of having a family, not no damn looks like every girl thinks it's about, looks wise I don't think there is a wall. I've seen hot older women. A lot of men don't want family so they don't have to think about it and age is just a number.
having a child with a woman in their 30s+ poses a lot more risk than having a child with a woman in their 20s. Let alone 40+, it's just not reasonable to risk having a child. So any man who wants a family, this age is a limiting factor. It can be denied all you want, but I'd prefer to have kids with the woman I want to spend my life with.
It's so dumb, lol.
I'm excited to be 30! I feel like that's when I'll look my best and be stable.
People give women shit and say men age better, but all of the men I went to highschool with look like they're already in their 50's.
I think regardless of gender as long as you take care of your health you'll age great!
In the military, a lot of the older men look great. But guess what? So do the females. Because we take care or ourselves.
Aww. Thanks to the only Male who liked my post, lol.
"Miranda Kerr married a guy while she’s 7 years older than him, and he’s a billionaire"
There's no need to continue from there. This is a very common practice and we call it hypergamy. It all makes sense by now.
Middle aged women are beautiful too. Women after 30 are quite attractive and I'd gladly date one of them myself❤ they're mature and tend to not repeat after the little girls BS.
Those, who age shame display more about themselves (ageism) with their ugly character. You'll know they're not the right candidates for a relationship.
I think while it's most common for men to prefer younger women, exceptions always exists and that there's not one size fits all. Not every women and men becomes unattractive after their 30s. It all depends on the person and who they're dating. People matures differently too. Sometimes the man is older, other times the woman. Sometimes the age gap is small and other times big.
There was an 80 years old woman successfully dating 30 years old men like 60 years old men dating 20 years old. So it all goes both ways, and there's hope to most people. Just look it up if you're wondering.
Most women hit their peak after 30. They might not have as much youthful appearance as a teen, but there's a lot more to it than that. The maturity, confidence, poise, personality and overall sensuality are way better after 30 than before.
Most people (men and women both) don't even know what they are about much before 30. It takes most people into their late 20s or early 30s to even know where they are in life. Before that they are just groping around blindly trying to figure out this thing called life.
All of your examples reference money and fame that are shallow and statistically non-significant for the average. Women do change at 30. Their metabolism starts to crash so they will no longer have that natural thin look. They will have to learn how to hit the gym hard. Those naturally tight faces start to get lines and hang more on the bone more and if they banged a lot of guys that will stand out like a sore thumb. They have that used car look with the air freshener hanging on the mirror. But, the big one is their fertility drops from 25% to about 10% at 35. So, those baby rabies set in and you can just see the desperation in some of them. Life is cruel and is a bitch and then you die. So what ()…
A rich guy proposed to my mom when she was in her mid-50s. She rejected him because he said that he wouldn't be willing to live with her if my sister and I lived with her; my mom would have to kick us out first, and she wasn't willing to do that, so she rejected him. He still calls my mom to talk regularly, though.
Hard to say. Some women hit the wall before they turn 30. And let's be clear, the majority of women's looks peak in their late teens and early 20s. The only real exceptions are those who started to put effort into their bodies and how they looked later on. But if you take the majority of women in their 30s, 40, 50s, and compare them to how they looked between the ages of 18-25, you likely won't be able to say they look better now. That doesn't mean that they're not still attractive in a different way, but fewer are and in a lot of cases they've lost their youthful glow. It happens to everyone. It's called aging. Some age gracefully, while others fall off a cliff. How you age depends on whether you take care of your body and your genetics.
If that's the case then men also hit the wall once they turn 30. I've seen only bitter men say stuff like that. Its not true at all.
Women hit a wall around that age reproductively and therefore lose sexual value to most men. Men don’t have this issue until much, much later in life, if ever. Men also continue to gain more resources and success as they age, which makes them more attractive to women even if they lose some physical appeal.
@Chris4744 whatever helps u sleep at night dear🥰😭😂
I mean it’s true biologically and statistically. The info doesn’t comfort me in any way. I intend to marry, so I’d prefer if the person I married never lost her beauty and fertility.
@Chris4744 nah. I see you commenting on everyones opinions. Clearly you're a loser. Now stop boring me. U sound dumb. Bye!
Bye, enjoy the rest of your day
Both of you guys need to think about genes, body shape, location and society. In some places what Chris says could be true. While in another place the women could biologically look nicer as they age. I know a few Mexican and Black women that look crazy pretty at age 40 but that could simply be location and genes.
@Jennifer_32 already know bout all thats stuff. It applies to both men and women but im not gonna waste my time arguing lol I've got better stuff to do
@jennifer_32 even if they are still pretty at that age, it doesn’t change the fact that they are much less fertile or no longer fertile at all by that time.
Chris4744 lol. As if men truly care about having kids! guys are more likely to leave the moment when their girlfriends tell that she’s pregnant, they ask her to abort and they shake because of the fear of having to pay child support, and that’s why we find many single mothers at the age of 25! Stop acting as if men truly care about their babies health cause most men don’t! You see many guys getting a vasectomy cause they fear to be baby trapped! So saying that a woman in her 30’s isn’t attractive, just because the baby can be in danger is totally bullshit ( even this excuse stupid and as a med student I can testify that I have seen a lot of women in their 40’s giving birth to healthy babies, and even my mom had me at 38)
*at 3 8
Most men work their fucking tails off their entire lives to support their families. Just because some women have shit taste and men and get burnt because of it doesn’t mean all or most are that way. Your description of what you believe applies to most men applies to a minority. Look up family budgeting statistics and then tell me what men really care about. You’re a toxic, delusional person to say things like that. It’s the same shit that incels say about women. But i’m sure you think you’re so much better than they are.
I for one have devoted a ton of time and effort to preparing myself to be a good father and husband since I was 17 and I know a lot of other guys who are the same way, though most are only just beginning to change their ways a bit around 22.
@Chris4744 its kinda funny cause thats how i view men much older than me. I check out and find men in their 30s or 40s attractive but would never enter a serious relationship with them. I prefer men to be closer to my age if im going to start a family. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Also, times have changed. People aren't too focused on having any kids now or only have 1-2 children.
Yeah i’m the same way really. Except i don’t usually find women over 40 attractive anyways.
And yeah people have fewer kids, but ideally they would at least still have them younger if finances aren’t a problem.
It's not bullshit. It's over after 30.
"she married her husband who was 6 years younger than her, " Your aunt knew that she couldn't lock down any guy with her looks anymore so she chose to get married at 38. Where was she and her marriage during her 20's? That's right. The word marriage doesn't exist during those years. It's all about riding one cock after another and a competition on who has the highest body count.
The reason why she chose the younger man to get married is because she knows that this guy is easier to fall in love with her. Today there are too many desperate lonely who are willing to settle down even with the absolute worst. Now your aunt has legal power over the head of this guy. She can nag the hell out of him and if he dares to say anything back she can file for a divorce and the have this rich guy pay for a lavish lifestyle that she would definitely enjoy. She would have never agreed to marry him if he wasn't rich.
She sounds like a boss, I’d high-five her if I could.
Aside from my wife, the most amazing, beautiful, wonderful in every way, sexually astounding woman I ever had the pleasure of knowing was in her mid 30s. I lived with her for over a year but there were reasons I won't go into why we couldn't be life-long partners.
I married my wife when I as 40 and she was 38 and I couldn't be happier.
So, no, I don't think women "hit a wall", whatever that means. Sometimes experience makes people better.
I don't know about 30, but its usually not long after that for most of us. I see a lot of women in their mid and late 30s strutting around like they're hot shit and I honestly feel bad for them. They should have graduated to wife and motherhood by that point. But they're out still tryin to be little hotties. Maybe from certain angles with enough make up and photoshop you can look kind of like you used to but those days are gone for you. We're not meant to be young and beautiful forever. Sorry ladies. That's the truth.
Diet, lifestyle, genetics, personality and a sense of style will help any person of any gender appear more attractive no matter their age. Age is just one variable.
Like all toxic ideas, "the wall" is a myth with a kernal of truth - as we age, we change. We lose our youthful appearance and vigour, bit by bit, and hopefully become wiser and more mature. If you seek knowlege and wisdom and keep trying to develop yourself, learning day by day, your time will not be wasted.
That's bull. It's just made up by bitter and angry men to make women feel bad about themselves at 30.
Hahaha lol that’s true
Those same bitter males would oppress the women rather than protect the women.
They think women will get into the bed with them because they would think, that after 30 nobody would. Ha! Jokes on them.
Biologically the do. if a man doesn’t want kids or doesn’t care about the risks of a woman having children after 30, then he can go right ahead.
Note that you gave mostly celebrity examples not only exceptionally attractive, but also exceptionally intelligent women.
If you want to gamble on your life for no good reason, then good luck to you! I don’t get why you’d want to wait so long anyways. Or why this is anonymous?
It’s slim pickens when it comes to dating in your 30s. You most likely don’t live in an environment with lots of single people. They people who are single often have emotional baggage from bad past relationships.
With that said I saw an uptick in my luck in my 30s. I’m still in good shape, have (almost most) of my hair, got a good paying job (six figures) etc.
I got dates with several very attractive women in their 20s. I dated a gorgeous 21yr old pre med college student for 9 months. I got some other pretty girls too. These girls were untouchable when I was their age. I see it as divine retribution for getting screwed over for being a nice guy in my youth.
Ironically the worst dating experiences I had was with women around my age. There is an old saying “good looks will fade but a shitty personality won’t”. These women are often bitter and think that acting bitchy will someone make them more attractive. But they have NO ROOM to be bitchy, not anymore.
Women under 30 are in their prime years for having babies. So nature designed women in this age bracket to be the most attractive to men. It's not choice, it's nature, it's about maximizing procreation of the species. So if it angers you, be angry at nature not at men.
What? ugh no dont listen to these boyz on gag. They can barely get a woman themselves. Men in the "real world" dont think like that.
:) I truly hope so! This is one of the shallowest reasons to dump someone in my opinion! But oh well...
Dont let these boys dictate your happiness and your beauty. They are nobodies
Bingo ladies!
Yeah the guys on here well obviously not u will give these women a complex in real life when it comes to men. Men aren't bad people but the ones on here give men a bad rep when they say things like this
We used to be uplifting our women (and men), not beat them down.🤔
I dont think all men are like that I just think majority of the guys on gag are either inexperienced, closet gay, can't get a woman in real life so they're angry, virgins or posing as an adult on here when they are really boys.
😂 you know it sounds true. Logically it makes sense. Hating what they can't have. It's not pretty.
Why be bitter when you can be sweet 😀
Lol 😂
Personally, I think women are in their prime around 30 : the beauty of their youth, no game playing, maturity, stability... I think it's a good thing that some men think they hit a wall around 30 because, that way, women in their 30 can separate the bad men from the others by simply not dating those who think that. Think about it, men who think that eliminate themselves from the dating game of women in their 30s.
This is a beta male strategy. Unfortunately, women as a whole, at any age do not prefer beta males. You are mistaken. Women will see men desperate for them at 30 and go "ugh, this is what wants me? eww". Lets be real, women aren't upset they get NO attention at 30, they are upset they don't get attention from ALPHA HOT EXCITING men.
@bamesjond0069 Oh you're one of these men who believe in this whole alpha beta thing... Well, my point still stands, these people will eliminate themselves from the dating game automatically.
Lol alphas dont eliminate themselves. They are busy dating young girls. Case in point im 32 and dating an 18 year old and a 22 year old. Im too busy to worry about 30 year olds.
@bamesjond0069 You do eliminate yourself from the dating pool of 30 year old women if you refuse to date them, that's basic logic.
Ack, a wild incel!
@bimmy5000 What? How am I an incel?
Lol not you.
@bimmy5000 Oh, my bad. BuT dOn'T yOu Get HOw AlPhA thIS gUY iS?
Lmao how am i an incel? I actually got a girl. Shit i got two. Go chase sloppy seconds from old women nobody else wants. Be my guest.
@bimmy5000 Man there is no way we can rival with that alpha guy, he definitely got 2 girls and he definitely does not have such a sad and empty life that he has to brag on the internet about how alpha he is. :D
Huh? I dont understand? Wym?
My god the alphaness is breaking through my screen. His need to show the world how empty and unfulfilling his life is is staggering.
@bamesjond0069 Why am I not surprised...
@bimmy5000 I know right, us betas can't rival against this. We should bow down in front of that all mighty alpha that definitely gets a lot of women.
He sounds like he gets threatened by pastel colors.
bamesjond was correct though. You sound like a simp. "Bad men"? What because they don't find older women attractive? Wtf? Modeling agencies agree with them. A Model's career takes off in her teens. You don't get 35 year old models breaking through to Victoria Secret lmao.
Women in they 30s usually end up single for a looong time cos they don't want to lower they standards for some simp. They still want the attractive sucessful man but he don't want they used ass. He wants a younger girl in her prime.
@DeshawnMGTOW I said bad men because women in their 30s usually consider men who value women solely based on their physical appearance as bad, it's usually not what they are looking for. Besides, Most single women in their 30s are single because of a relationship that ended, not because they had ridiculous standards. I'm not claiming women that have ridiculous standards and are single because of it don't exist, I'm just saying that they are definitely not the majority.
They definitely are the majority. And it has nothing to do with looks. Plenty of 35 year old women are still hot. They just are not ideal to try and have kids with and in the absence of just breaking up from their HS sweetie all these years, theyve been plowed by far more men than a young girl. Those two reasons are enough to disqualify all older women in my book even if she's super hot.
@bamesjond0069 Well, I guess the USA are different to France in that regard then.
Wym? You have 35 year old virgins in France? Smh
@bamesjond0069 No, what I mean is the opposite. Most of the singles who are 30s come from a previous breakup, not from crazy high standards.
I think the whole wall things is kinda dumb but understandable. Getting older means it can get harder to find someone. Lots of people have already started families, or they got through life with multiple partners, leaving them with trust issues, or a whole host of reasons.
Still, people can find love at any age, it just takes courage to put yourself out there and maybe a bit of wisdom too.