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No but it's a fact of life that even most of today's liberated women would prefer a man who is well set.
As far as i know that's always been a fact.
@aaronbw Either to enjoy the high standard of living or to eviscerate him in divorce.
Ok maybe not that part. It's not wrong to want someone with their shit together but if you're just going to leach, then I'd say yes that is not cool at all. doesn't mean it's not right but not cool.
I dont do gold diggers, not that I make a super amount anyways lmao. To me it's just pathetic that instead of showing their own strength, gold diggers ride someone else's coattails.
@aaronbw One thing that's easy to detect is their nature from their college degree. A Bachelors in "soft sciences" like psychology, sociology and the inane, obscure majors which have no job market are"Mrs" degrees. And if its SWJ stuff, you better by Kevlar armor for your gonads.
More and more Western women are like the Viet Cong from those days. Pour your coffee at lunch, cut your throat at night.
I have a sociology degree and am quite happy with the job I got... I'm good at statistical work and it's been pretty good to me so far.
Anyone can get any degree and do something with it or not, it's the heart of the personality that you need to look at, at least the way I see it.
No it isn't wrong. Do whatever you want.. just let the guy know that's what you like.
yes. yes. "tell the truth". hangon. I've found an error in the plan.
@JSG4_ ♥♥♥ la la :-) :-)
is it the money or is it that they seem more dynamic or in the case of old money, better bred?
Yes. You are only dating them for money which is shallow. You can be stable and not have a rich man.
Just like some people like them more handsome than uglier or more rude than kind, there are people that like rich persons more like poor there are even people that like the poor as well.
I doubt you'd get so many women coming in support of a man dating only curvy women
If you just see men as financial objects you're no better than men who just see women as tits and ass. Stop pretending like being a gold digger is something wholesome.
Women being gold diggers.
Nothing out of the ordinary.
😑
How is wanting your family well taken care of and a husband whose not stressed out doing slave labor wrong? The higher his pay the more likely the woman has of spending more time with her husband and him being healthy not killing himself working 100 hours a week
@flowers70 Don't feed the trolls. omg lol.
@flowers70 there is a Very big difference between mating with someone, who can provide enough resources for it and mating with someone primarily just because he's rich.
Anyway, who cares? There are plenty of great girls who aren't gold diggers. Guys too.
@Robertcw well you guys bothered to reply so you care at least to some extend 🤷
Non gold digging women seem to be hard to find.
@Robertcw right
@flowers70 Where exactly do you live where people that earn more, have more free time? That is the opposite here in America. In fact, I don't know of anywhere where that is true. Typically, the more you earn, the more responsibilities you have and thus, the less amount of time you have for your family. Think Elon Musk, he works 80 hours a week on average. Most CEO's, same thing. So while I think your logic stems from good intentions, you're misguided on the amount of "time for family" most Rich men have. Unless you're born into wealth, hard work is the basis of becoming rich and I think you'd be surprised to find that a lot of rich men, don't really care about the traditional family life that you appear to be fond of. That being said, Rich men have more options. No shade, a lot of women fantasize about rich men, but rarely invest in themselves enough to be of value to rich men. If you're looking for love, its a totally different story (I don't judge, its your life), but if money is basically what you're looking for in a man, you should expect a rich man to be at least as shallow as what brought you to him in the first place.
@Pegases You're right. In the US and other conservative capitalistic societies the less you have to start with the harder you must work to gain more than someone who already started with more, who could grow that more quickly and with less time and effort.
She might be from Asia, like possibly Korea or China where society runs differently. For one thing, looks are considered for employment. Which means maybe people who look the way they want achieve more with less effort. One possibility anyway.
Not really but you are probably gonna be perceived as a gold digger.
No, it's just not realistic for the vast majority of women.
That's your choice. The same way it'd be a choice for a rich man to date a shallow and materialistic person
If you are sexy dont waste your time with some 9-5 chum. Get you a passive income CEO with 6 figure income. Money is all life is about!
Im a 9-5 chum and even I know this!
The difference between a gold digger and you is honesty and owning it. There are so many women in the world that any guy who is offended by your preference isn’t worth it ether way.
meanwhile I'm sure the guys would be fine with only wanting to date hot girls
It is your own business.
It is, but this is a platform made to know other people opinions...
My opinion is that it is her own business.
Don’t feel sorry for broke men cause they won’t feel sorry for you if you were ugly. Then heck yes. Date whoever you want
I think it's a preference, but it shows a lot of your personality.
Nothing wrong with that. They want educated, beautiful virgins so we can at least want a good income.
Who said that?
Thousands of guys.
You've dated thousands of guys. got it
No, I haven't but I know.
lol, I'm sure you do.
There is a whole lot more in life than a rich dude that knows your there for the cash out. It is really just a way that you sell yourself short.
But you can’t date a wonderful human being if he doesn’t have the cash you want from him? Seems that money is more important to you, so how does that make a good partner. If you got your rich man and something happens to his wealth, do you kick him to the curb? If yes, the. How is someone not a gold digger if they could do that?
Yes; such is the mark of the gold-digger; if he should become poor for some reason, the gold-digging thot simply moves on.
It's not wrong per se, but it does make you look very shallow and self interested in only about yourself and benefits.
Is it wrong to only date woman for sex? If your answer is yes then yeah it's wrong
It's wrong if you lie about your intentions. It's perfectly fine if you're honest with her. Tadaa problem solved!
Is it wrong to only want to date big breasted and slim women?
You have to be able to afford them first
@flowers70 cuz they charge by the hour? 😛🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Do what you want in life. It's your life.
I'm not attracted to women under 5'10" which is the overwhelming majority of women so I can understand your preference. I know what I want.
Nope. But you better have something equally valuable to offer.
Do what you want but don't play feminist later on when you're pumped and dumped or when you're called a petty gold digger.
Date someone within your range. If you're not even remotely making the same salary, then he's obviously out of your league.
Its not wrong. Everybody has his/her own choice to make, and people must respect that. Money controls the world and the ladies wants that money. So has a man work hard
I suppose the big question is, would you take the money without the man?
its not wrong just make sure you love them not only for the money
No. But, you might have more competition for the guy because of his money. (And be called names)
Why not work for your riches and get the same result but with a more successful and fulfilling life?
It's not wrong but you better be model level attractive. You could be missing out on better men who are just middle class but not poor.
Not wrong. Gold diggers gotta dig for gold. It's also not wrong for men to only want young, hot babes with big tits, who don't have kids.
Think about how they might think about u,
I'm saying that because when u said only rich men u already ignore ur feelings
Wrong? Maybe.
Stupid? Most definitely. People can easily lose everything in a single day.
Well girls only love a man for money anyway so knock yourself out
Not all girls that’s just golddiggers
@aangelena well its the mechanic in how women love they love a man because she needs him because he provides for her because he's her survival ticket
Incredibly wrong for the most part
@aangelena In my experience, most women are, but the girl I recently fell in love with wasn't a gold digger actually ;)
Personal preferences are not right or wrong, they are your own, only you can be the judge of that
As long as you tell them why you're dating them.. See if they'll stay with you after that.
I see no issue. Well besides asking anonymously on a silly website..
Of course it is wrong. You want to date money and not actual men.
Maybe a little. It depends on how high of a preference you make it.
What did I tell us guys all women are the same their all gold diggers
And you guys thought I was sexist
The amount of gold diggers is astounding I hope you all die in fires
There are tones of gold digging bitches out there go for it
No I only date woman 18-24 25 is pushing it for me but they too old after that.
Date who u want
Don't shame me lol
Dating a rich man is wrong, because if he becomes poor later, such women like you will leave him.
If you want to be called a gold-digger for the rest of your life, then yes
no your just a gold digger the worlds full of them. join the queue
Girl u were born free to do whatever the fuck u want
lol.
nope, that's what most women want, at least you are honest about it.
Just become a hooker, that's essentially the same thing.
Nothing wrong with it, shows what your priorities are is all. You value money above all. Just be honest.
Only if you like the title of "Gold Digger".
It's not wrong when you get rejected. That's why latinas date white men because of their wallets
Call it like it is, prostitution!
Yes. Relationships are about love.
It's not wrong, but you should be able to return it with love, respect, responsibility and trust.
We found a gold digging bimbo lol
Delete the bimbo part. A bimbo’s traits are far from my personality
Gold diggers are bimbos honey
"I AM NOT A BIMBO!!!11". is the correct reply. (then google "bimbo")
@NorthwestRider Why are you such a triggered crybaby? ROFL...
@Inbox So I triggered your girlfriend lol
@Inbox that isn't triggered. that's clicking 'reply'
@NorthwestRider Yup because I already found a badass woman who makes $$, who is also a cowgirl and a biker and she is super driven LOL!!! How are those Gerber products I sent your girlfriend so that she could babysit your submissive bimbo ass?
@JSG4_ That isn't clicking "reply," that's @JSG4_ being @NorthwestRider's ass kisser ROFL!!!
A hit dog will holler. We found mr. broke and insecure yall😂👏👏. everyone give him a round of applause
@inbox he's a loser
@Inbox he he he he
@flowers70 "looser"
Women should date whom ever they want to date.