Is it wrong to only want to date rich men? (Page 2)

[Flower7]

The answer to that depends on how successful you are yourself. If you're rich too, then I think it's very reasonable to want someone who's on the same level as you.

[ImagineSketchy]

I believe it is a flaw of nature. Nature is very flawed.
Females instinctively seek a mate that can provide for them.
All I can say is that if you seek rich men, I sure hope you bring more to the table than just a pretty face.

[R_Cakes91]

It depends on the reason why you want a man with money. If it’s so you can sit on your ass or shop all day long while he works, yes it’s wrong. If it’s so that you can afford kids or do something useful with the money, then I don’t think it’s wrong.

[21browngirl]

I think at least you are sure what you want. If you find such mutual person, well go for it. I dont know why people call it a gold digger. I would say a gold digger if u cannot emotionally connect with a rich guy and yet you are with him

[Anonymous]

What a problem with that?

Yes, you will be 'called gold' digger a lot, but F them they can date broke drug addicts, it is their choice of life.

I would not mind to date rich girl who would buy good life to me, what is wrong with that?

I should stay where I am now, why, if there would be such opportunity?

[Pamina]

What's wrong about gold digging is the dishonesty. If you're upfront about it and let the guys know that that's what you're after, there's nothing wrong with it per se.

[Ámayas_20]

Depends if you'll date a guy just because he's rich or to leach his money then yeah that's wrong, but if you'll pull your own weight and it's more about the success and drive in men who can achieve high paying roles then no not at all.

[iloveallfood]

It's depends on your intentions. If you wanna date rich dudes in order to have a materialistic life, then I'd say it's kind of shameful to do so. But if it's for something along the lines of "I want him to be able to provide nicely for our family", then I don't see anything wrong with it really.

[Rajarshi0915]

It's neither wrong nor right. It depends on your reason wanting to date only rich people is an effect, you got to answer yourself what's the cause for it. If your reason is getting expensive gifts, posh dates, etc. You will eventually reach point when you will get emotionally exhausted and alone.

[ritxi]

Yes, that's wrong. Mainly because women who only date rich men aren't as picky as if they didn't mind that feature. But it's ok for women who reject every man that they'd also reject if they weren't rich.

[ritxi]

About the update: No person who only date rich people is loyal. Being rich isn't inherent to people. People who only date rich people means that they would stop dating their partners if they became bankruptcy and that's really far from being loyal, especially if the couple have done some plans about their life that can also be possible is one of them becomes a poor person.

[emmily2396]

Wanting to only date guys who are financially stable is one thing, wanting to date only rich guys is a but shallow... nobody wants money to become a problem, but dating someone just because they have lots is not great.

[Bananaman177]

I can tell you that rich men have a very, very low opinion of gold diggers just like poor men do.

[constantine15]

You better be a very good looking girl as rich guys are few and far in between, so you have a lot of competition with a lot of girls that are likely prettier/smarter than you.

But everyone is allowed preferences, just like I don't like fat girls.

[Asker]

Not every rich guy has a line of women competing against each other to land him

[Asker]

There are rich guys with no women after them too. Possibly because he works too much or is introverted

[Asker]

I'm prettier than some but some are prettier than me.

[constantine15]

The only rich guys that I know who are dating girls that are lower in looks, are girls they were dating before they got rich. Most rich guys I know date very beautiful women. If you’re beautiful, go for it, but just keep in mind what I said.

You’d be better off going after a guy who’s very ambitious as he has a higher chance of becoming rich later.

[SMPlSl]

If a girl only likes me because of my material value and not for me tgen i dump her immediately. Only a fool would stay with someone so shallow.

[MusicMayhem]

If you expect fancy new shit from him all the time, yes it's wrong. However, if you like the idea of dating a successful man but will buy your own stuff, no problem.

[arabgoddess]

I would personally stay away from money hungry loving men.. all they think about and care about is money

[Pegases]

True, by your logic they belong together tho.

[Browneye57]

What is YOUR criteria for 'rich'?
No woman worth her salt is going to want a dead-broke bum. She wants assurances that he can support her and the 84 children she wants to have with him. She's be a fool otherwise.

[Snakegg86]

It's just sad... romance and love are separate from money and superficial things. Will you leave a guy because he loses his job or money? Then it's not really love in my opinion

[BobbyC65]

Yes it's wrong you're only in love with the money and not person who as the money. Ownce the money gone you're gone and looking for your next victim who has money. 👎👎

[SkipStop]

Yes. Putting money as more important than who the man is himself makes you a gold digger rather than someone looking for love and a family.