My crush just wants sex from me?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my ex boyfriend few months back.
It began to get lonely for me but I didn’t want a new boyfriend, so i wanted to try have a sex buddy or something. So I met this guy on IG, he is a straight talker and all. we chatted for a while and decided to met up.

When I met with him at his place and we talked then I found out this guy was really so interesting and great.

But he told me plainly between our convo that he just wanted sex and he wasn’t looking for a girlfriend and I was crushed.

Although I went there to have sex with him, lol, but after finding out he’s more than what I was expecting, I couldn’t do it, Bcus I was scared I might end up liking him.
So I left. Now I can’t stop thinking about him and I don’t know what to do?

[DLFisherman]

Take strenght that you know you did the right thing! You respected yourself and him. You did the right thing, you didn't let yourself fall for him based on sex first. From what i can tell you might really be wanting a relationship because you want more than just sexual pleasure. There is nothing wrong with that because sex should be the iceing on the cake not the "filling" Respect the guy by not pushing for a relationship right now. He might come around might not. Don't deny your sexual needs tho. You are strong, beautiful and confident, the fact that you are asking for advice and help shows maturity. You got this and will find the answers you are looking for. just remember to keep asking others and yourself... Good Luck I'm Cheering for You!!!

[Kobe8201]

From the way you're talking, you want a relationship. You're not the type of women that can go off and have sex with people you're not in a relationship with. I suggest that you leave it. If he doesn't want a relationship, then there's nothing you can do. You will get attached if you have sex with him and end up hurting yourself.

[Anonymous]

It would take a lot to try and forget him. If it is already this hard now, imagine how hard it would be ONCE you slept with him.

Just told him plainly that you found him really interesting. Though you were looking for one night stand, you dont wanna do with him because you are scared of falling for him. If he has any interest in you other than sex, he will try to get you to date. Otherwise he will stop contacting you.

[TheFlak38]

You didn't want just a sex buddy. You wanted a guy to pick up all of your emotional garbage.
This guy straight forward told you he is not going to do that. So pick yourself another man who is the nice guy willing to do it. You can use the one for sex and the other as a therapist. Women today have male harems for every occurring problem in their life.

[Faint]

I've been that guy. I flat out was honest that I didn't want a relationship. I dealt with a bad break up and played the field avoiding new commitments till I healed, I had fwbs that even though I was straight forward about it they still caught feelings and were delusional that I'd change my mind. They maybe amazing to you but there is no chance.

[spartan55]

You should probably ditch the sex buddy idea because you can't change a guy's mind typically. Although many women believe they can. Stupid.

[WalterRadio]

Do what you want. If you want sex, have sex. If you don't want sex, don't have sex.

[humanearth]

Well you have two choices. One persuade him or move on.

[oncpl]

Inwardly you are attracted to him, desire to have sex and don't want to refuse him. Go and have mental as well as sexual satisfaction.

[OddBeMe]

At least he told you flat out. Most of us guys try to trick our dates into sex.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Either go back or hook up with some other interesting and great dude.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Sex is all you have to offer, so that's all he wants from you.