Is it normal to feel insecure over my boyfriend following Instagram models? (Page 2)
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You said it yourself, men will always appreciate a stunning woman. Why does it make you uncomfortable? Does he make you feel unsecure about your body? If not, I don’t see a reason for you to be worried.
We are all settling for something all the time. You're not expected to be perfect just like you don't expect him to be perfect. Your history with him and the bond you've built is something those girls with the filtered photos taken from the right angles don't have. If you feel insecure then ask yourself where he sleeps.
I mean this is about you not him. Everyone is making it about him. This is about how you view yourself and how you view the world. You can change those. I mean I'm sure their are guys better looking them him. Would you switch his body for theirs if you could do it without anyone ever knowing? Personally the girls I find the out sexy are not the girls i'd date or marry. So I wouldn't worry about it. He just gets a high from looking at her pictures. Plenty of girls who can't even get a guy.
Ya that's kinda dumb... Ever masterbate? If so what was your motivation? Because if its anything other than your darling boyfriend, then you need to get the fuck off internet, and grow the fuck up, because your not ready... Ya know what, go ahead and take a break, and do some soul searching for while anyway...
I don’t follow models for being models, but some may be agreeable/entertaining influencers who happen to be attractive. I’ll follow them because I have a free will in a healthy relationship, but I’d hope my lady doesn’t feel insecure over insignificant matters like this. There’s no cheating when there’s no romantic/sexual communication 🤷🏻♂️
well i do this to and i make sure to tell my girlfriend that i follow these types when i was single cause well i am single so why not but now that i am taken i won't be hearting them i like i used to instead will just skip right over them unless its a old friend of mind that ik and i can prove that we talk threw the messages but no its not wrong depending on rather he's liking them or not tho is another question
Good deamit, its internet. Dont take it to seriously. Sometimes instagram models are just like fine art, all good just for watching.
Also if your jelous of there bodies, why dont you work out yours? I mean if you want to change something, with hard work it can be done. Within reason of course.
That's why I'm single because nothing is ever good enough for these motherfuckers you think most men would stay around if your legs arms or face were destroyed? No way ! They want beauty and youth.
Not all of us, but yes the most part do.
Should use the word some.
were none of us perfect. there are some stunning looking men and women on this planet. it just a natural reaction to want to look. the settling thing.. we all do to some degree. otherwise we'd all end up dying lonely and frustrated. but that doesn't mean they dont love your little cotton socks off also, or find you equally attractive.
I'd say yeah? Bc a lot of people get "jelous" now or are insecure BUT I don't see why it'd matter? I meaan i follow male models so if my boyfriend followed women models it's not like we're talking / chatting with them so who cares? Be confident!!
I think it is quite common. Maybe girls follow cute male actors too. Just don't let him go too far and comment and stuff. As long as he is with you he probably likes you a lot, so do not worry too much.
I mean, following and watching their photos is okay, but I do mind if he hits like or comments something, that's just disrespectful.
To me, that's equivalent to approaching a stranger girl and giving her a compliment on her looks.
Yeah, it's very normal. You know what's more normal? Not dating someone pathetic enough to follow "Instagram models". Honestly, worry about your dignity and lose the juvenile fool.
I thought the same thing. I just wouldn’t get involved with someone who does that.
Honestly, the only thing more pathetic and ridiculous than the actual "instagram model" phenomenon is those who follow these jokes as part of spank-bank maintenance.
spank-bank maintenance? I've never heard of that before 🤣
Why else would a guy (or anyone) give a shit about "instagram models"?
I see your point
dump him and let him have his models ! for you are to good to be treated by him this way
Guys will notice a pretty girl, but following like this is disrespectful to you, as shown by your statement, "it makes me feel bad or guilty for being with him almost as if he’d prefer to be with someone who looks like that and he’s settling for me."
Its normal to feel that way but he should make you feel like a princess and you're the only one for him
No need to feel insecure, unless he start , frequent comment n chat with that model. If not, men know what he can get n what he can appreciate only.
Well probably u follow hot guys on insta too I guess
No he’s being immature!
Actually I occasionally look at what they are wearing for fashion advice
Normal, sure. You don't like that he follows other women. It's normal.. you can certainly tell him "hey, it bothers me that you follow all these women, even though you don't see them in real life, can you please stop". If he persists, or he says "no", then, you have some real thinking to do about if you want to be with a guy who won't listen to you