Should guys who’ve never been approached by a girl feel ugly?

[chris_987]

Cause women have told me that they know there ugly because men never talk to them, but guys rarely get approached either so should we feel ugly?

[EmbraceThePain]

Well, it’s different for men. It’s not a common occurrence, even rare I’d say, for any man to be approached by a woman in the same way a man approaches a woman to ask her out on a date. No matter how unattractive or attractive you are as a man, women just do not approach men. Now, perhaps that will change in the future and I’m sure there will be anecdotal evidence to prove that women do in fact approach men, but as of right now in my most places of the world women do not approach men generally speaking. Now, for women, it’s a little bit trickier. For women, they’re the ones that get approached so if they’re not getting approached then it could be a few things such as the woman is not attractive, intimidating in some way, the men are shy, and potentially more reasons. I think biologically speaking, men are the initiators and take action so it makes sense to me why men are the ones that approach and women are the ones that do not approach. Sure, some women will give signs that they’re interested in a man, but rarely will they approach because they do not feel it’s normal to do and because they do not want to get rejected perhaps even more so than the man. I’d say, women have MORE of a reason to feel ugly if no man approaches them, whereas for a man, women do not approach men in general so it’s not related to your attractiveness as a man as it would be for a woman.

[Gatman34]

For a guy to get approached he would literally have to be in the top 1% of men in the world. Women don’t approach men because they know they don’t have to. Guys are so thirsty nowadays women know guys will go to them. Just look at women on dating apps they get 200 likes and guys hit up girls dms all over. Just a bunch of desperate dudes chasing. If all guys stopped doing that women would have to approach

[chris_987]

You don’t need to go as far as dating apps, even this sight a women will ask an opinion and 500 men will respond. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even care to read the male comments and I think women feel the same way.

[Gatman34]

True if only guys would learn

[Anonymous]

Nope... Nothing to do about how many girls have approached you or not... It all lies in the confidence you portray

[chris_987]

For both genders or just men?

[Opinion Owner]

It's for both.. But in the case of men.. I think women like to be approached so men should make the first move

[chris_987]

If men and women are equal then women can just decide men should approach and that’s the way it should be.