I've been very shy but like u think it cna make things difficult at times would I maybe I don't think you can really make a blanket statement on something like this
My boyfriend is dating me and I’m shy when it comes to meeting new people. I’ll kinda go behind him without me knowing. He knows I’ll be back to normal when I’m okay
Is it wrong? Not necessarily. Its a preference. But I think too many people discriminate and shame introverted people and act like they shouldn't have partnerships because of their shyness. I see it on this site all the time...
Shaming around 40% of the population for their personality traits that aren't harmful to others... What a great way to bring people together...
I'm not that shy but a boy said I was too quiet before so I guess I am too shy? I don't know. I know I'm not the most extroverted person so it could make talking to shy guys more difficult but I wouldn't not give someone a chance just cause they're shy. I think youd have to get to know them first cause if they're comfortable around you they would open up more
I wouldn't say it's wrong Personally, I'm more attracted to extrovert people. Who talk a lot, we can joke around and stuff. If you don't like her shyness, then do not date her.
It's an art to open up a shy girl. I dated a shy girl and eventually we became not only good friends but good sexual partners too. A shy person also has need for love and sex. If handled with love, respect and little sexiness, he/she opens up and also enjoys with the partner.
I personally find shyness to be a cute trait. It can mean that they like you but are not very vocal about it. If the shyness continues and you feel that person isn't comfortable enough with you start to open up, then it is time to search for other prospects. Body language plays a big role in learning about shy people.
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Fair enough, but there are different degrees of shyness. Some people are shy at first, then they warm up to you. Some people never overcome their shyness, even after you’ve known them for years. The latter category would be a problem for me.
Not at all, because girls will pass on a guy if hese shy in the blink of an eye. But tbh don't sink to such a shallow level. Find out who she is beneath her shyness before ruling her out
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I've been very shy but like u think it cna make things difficult at times would I maybe I don't think you can really make a blanket statement on something like this
My boyfriend is dating me and I’m shy when it comes to meeting new people. I’ll kinda go behind him without me knowing. He knows I’ll be back to normal when I’m okay
Is it wrong? Not necessarily. Its a preference. But I think too many people discriminate and shame introverted people and act like they shouldn't have partnerships because of their shyness. I see it on this site all the time...
Shaming around 40% of the population for their personality traits that aren't harmful to others... What a great way to bring people together...
I dont prefer shy girls but if we get along it doesn't matter. I like girls that are confident, but not over the top cocky kind.
I'm not that shy but a boy said I was too quiet before so I guess I am too shy? I don't know. I know I'm not the most extroverted person so it could make talking to shy guys more difficult but I wouldn't not give someone a chance just cause they're shy. I think youd have to get to know them first cause if they're comfortable around you they would open up more
Better shy than annoyingly talkative. Its all about compatibility and as long as we're compatible then I don't really care about her shyness.
No there's nothing wrong about it, it's just a preference.
I wouldn't say it's wrong
Personally, I'm more attracted to extrovert people. Who talk a lot, we can joke around and stuff.
If you don't like her shyness, then do not date her.
It's an art to open up a shy girl. I dated a shy girl and eventually we became not only good friends but good sexual partners too. A shy person also has need for love and sex. If handled with love, respect and little sexiness, he/she opens up and also enjoys with the partner.
Of course not. What would be wrong is to date someone you know you aren't compatible with.
I don't mind dating shy women and have dated a few who I was able to make more confident.
I personally find shyness to be a cute trait. It can mean that they like you but are not very vocal about it. If the shyness continues and you feel that person isn't comfortable enough with you start to open up, then it is time to search for other prospects. Body language plays a big role in learning about shy people.
Fair enough, but there are different degrees of shyness. Some people are shy at first, then they warm up to you. Some people never overcome their shyness, even after you’ve known them for years. The latter category would be a problem for me.
It is not wrong
I will not get into a relationship with a shy girl. I like girls who are driven and dominant
Well your totally right to choose whom you want to date and why, if someone disagree, it better to cut them of
If I liked her, I liked her. Some were shy, some weren't.
I don’t think it’s wrong...
But sometimes its cool to see who is hidden behind the shy girl , give a chance to know her more
I would not mind dating a shy girl, provided she is less shy when it comes to us.
Not at all, because girls will pass on a guy if hese shy in the blink of an eye. But tbh don't sink to such a shallow level. Find out who she is beneath her shyness before ruling her out
Already saw what was beneath once, that's why I now I rule girls who are too shy.
Shy and interesting is different from shy and boring! If there's a personality beneath the awkwardness then in the long run it makes no difference
Thank you, sir
No. Even though it's cute, wallflowers dont attract me.