To me a shy girl is cute with seeing how hard she is trying to fit in... like if someone super shy is coming over and tries to talk to me I feel happy inside because they are making an effort even though they feel super uncomfortable... that's me anyways.
With super outgoing girls it's hard to tell if she actually wants to spend time with you or is waiting for something better
That makes sense, but I don't see how people can just start that conversation. Legit gives me the fear, but I suppose that's something I need to fix.
Yeah... I'm super shy to and like some of my friends like going to the bar or to a party... honestly hate that but it's what you have to do sometimes 🙂
At least at a bar or party there's alcohol. Alcohol literally zaps away my shyness. My friends will tell me the next day how I was talking to everyone and my sober shy self just dies. I need a happy middle 😂
Not me... I'm just turn stupid 😂... I need to find a middle too
Alcohol is called liquid courage for a reason. I got into a five year relationship thanks to being buzzed! 😁 But i wouldn't recommend it as a regular method.
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Yeah but if a shy guy speaks, its usually important with a lot of weight in it. Right
@Darknut Not really. No more weight than anyone else.
are you shy?
Why do you think so?
@KiwiGirlcholatelover because she is not shy
Sorry, I meant why do you think being shy is an advantage?
@KiwiGirlcholatelover I find it girly and approachable
Outgoing girls can still be girly and some shy girls are not girly at all, I think this nothing you can generally say.Thanks for answering though :)
You are welcome :)I like this girl in my workplace very much. She is quite shy. It gives me chills when she talks with me. To be honest I hate it... it makes me to feel shy as well
Yeah, me too.I think it is waay harder to talk to shy people, than with outgoing people. You just kind of get those awkward silences where nobody knows what to say, whereas an outgoing person doesn't care whether she comes off as awkward and just keeps the conversation going... Somehow
Worse when have a crush on them.Hey how can I ask for her number? I can't talk to girls, i am shy too. FYI, we are colleagues
I don't develop a crush very easily, I definitely have to have talked to them a few times and I have to be able to hold a decent conversation with them. It just has to click for me, so I don't really have issues in talking to my crush.I don't really know how to ask for a number, I never had to...You could see on Reddit r/seduction they post heaps of crap there but also sometimes some reliable stuff. Just today I saw a post about someone retelling a conversation which went along the lines ofAre you single YesDo you think I am attractiveUm yesCan I have your number!Yeah, chucklesIt is indeed preetty straightforward, but at least she has enough opportunities to declare that she is not interested and your intentions are made clear. You could think about that :)
Woow that is long lol
Thank you very much. I don't need to ask for comprehensive. LolDo girls like it when guys are straightforward? I am afraid she will get mad at me. I know she is single.
Think every girl has it's own personal preference. I like to know what the person's intentions are, because I tend to see new people as friends rather than romantic partners. As long as you stay respectful and don't come off as rude being straightforward is perfectly fine to me
Why would she get mad, though}?
I don't know. Maybe, it is just fear of rejection. I feel i would never be able to work with her if I got rejected
Do you work closely with her? You can remain friends though
Yes, she works in HR. And I am not friend of her I am trying to express her that like her, since two months. I still don't have courage to do that. But still it is fun having a crush. I love the butterfly feeling lol
You can still work professionally if she rejects you, right...Why do you not have the courage? She can only say no.
I already have feelings for her. If she said no, my poor heart would kill me lol
by the way, i have really bad experience with a girl whom i loved
Do what you prefer...I am sorry to hear that! <3
I hope this girl would help me to get over with the past. :)Well, I prefer to talk to her. Still don't have courage to do so.
What attract me the most in a female is the shy attitude she do when i say or do something she wasn't expecting
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