I'm not attracted to women who have had kids with other men, and it's not my responsibility to raise another man's kids. He should raise his own kids, and if he's a scumbag then she shouldn't have fucked him in the first place.
If I was okay with dating nonvirgins, then yes, I would date someone with a kids. Because kids are just what happen sometimes when you have sex. But personally I prefer to date and marry a virgin, since I am still a virgin myself.
I used to not want to, but as I got older, I realized I can't be so picky with these things. I haven't done so yet, but I'm willing to try. I'm not sure if I'm ready for kids yet, but maybe I could grow to love her kid as if it were my own.
I wouldn't but my sister married a guy who had custody of his kids. Kinda a rare occurrence here.
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I have and I would. Mothers are the best dates and know how to turn heads when they want to. Getting to know the kid is also fun and a challenge.
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Currently dating a guy with a kid, and well I was kind of eh about it at first but I’ve gotten use to it. He’s a great dad don’t get me wrong, the only problem is his bm. They have 50/50 custody of the child, so he has him one week and her another week. He always keeps him the whole week but for some reason when it’s her turn she always calls him to keep him for more days and we don’t hear from her for hours. It’s not that I don’t want him to have him, but it gets me mad that he’s too nice if it was him call her and asking if she could keep him for more she would be a bitch about it and make him feel bad. I haven’t told him anything because I feel like I have no right to, I wouldn’t mind him having him always.
I'm not sure. If it ends of being a woman of my dreams, then I guess I'd gave say yes. I dont really want kids, but in this situation I'd like to have one with her.
I wouldn't mind, but it's pretty hard. Because you're never a priority, and it's hard to have a good relationship with someone whose spare time is almost exclusively used for her kid.
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My mum was a single mother once a upon a time and i had very caring step-fathers. I would do the same now im grown up
Why not.. as long as the past relationship is totally finished nothing wrong dating a man who have kids... The important is he gives respect and care for you and his family
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I'm not attracted to women who have had kids with other men, and it's not my responsibility to raise another man's kids. He should raise his own kids, and if he's a scumbag then she shouldn't have fucked him in the first place.
I’m just too young to fill the role of a step mother
Amen
Nope, never. I don't want kids myself, so dating someone who already has them is out of the question.
I would because I might be in that situation and would want someone to date me even though I have a child
If I was okay with dating nonvirgins, then yes, I would date someone with a kids. Because kids are just what happen sometimes when you have sex. But personally I prefer to date and marry a virgin, since I am still a virgin myself.
The fact that guys say yes just shows you how pathetic and desperate guys on gag are the real number would be much lower but guys on gag are loser
Yes, I would, and I'd treat their kid (s) like if they were mine.
Why?
Because if you love somebody with kid (s), you'd have to love her children aswell. I just dont see a issue with dating someone with kids.
Oh. Uh okay
I used to not want to, but as I got older, I realized I can't be so picky with these things. I haven't done so yet, but I'm willing to try. I'm not sure if I'm ready for kids yet, but maybe I could grow to love her kid as if it were my own.
Because I have kids to and u can't judge off of kids they did nothing worng
I have 2 kids so yes. I dont understand why people dont...
Sure, I just hope I don't get emotionally attached to their children
Maybe? I don't know. Depends on if the baby mama is in the picture or no. I wouldn’t mind dating a single dad, but the sharing is what bothers me
Kids are too much responsibility. Too much work.
They could also be incredibly cute sometimes. And it would be hard to get over a person, AND the kid, if we end up breaking up.
I wouldn't but my sister married a guy who had custody of his kids. Kinda a rare occurrence here.
I have and I would. Mothers are the best dates and know how to turn heads when they want to. Getting to know the kid is also fun and a challenge.
Currently dating a guy with a kid, and well I was kind of eh about it at first but I’ve gotten use to it. He’s a great dad don’t get me wrong, the only problem is his bm. They have 50/50 custody of the child, so he has him one week and her another week. He always keeps him the whole week but for some reason when it’s her turn she always calls him to keep him for more days and we don’t hear from her for hours. It’s not that I don’t want him to have him, but it gets me mad that he’s too nice if it was him call her and asking if she could keep him for more she would be a bitch about it and make him feel bad. I haven’t told him anything because I feel like I have no right to, I wouldn’t mind him having him always.
With a mess like that its best to stay out of that till a few years latter on with the poor kid in the middle.
I'd have no problem dating someone with a kid, as long as they are willing to have more with me.
I'm not sure. If it ends of being a woman of my dreams, then I guess I'd gave say yes. I dont really want kids, but in this situation I'd like to have one with her.
I wouldn't mind, but it's pretty hard. Because you're never a priority, and it's hard to have a good relationship with someone whose spare time is almost exclusively used for her kid.
My mum was a single mother once a upon a time and i had very caring step-fathers. I would do the same now im grown up
Why not.. as long as the past relationship is totally finished nothing wrong dating a man who have kids... The important is he gives respect and care for you and his family