Would you date someone with a child?

[Anonymous]

I personally wouldn’t. I’m not a cuck and not the type of guy who wants to pick up the pieces of a broken woman.

I agree she’s messed up

I do t think she has

[jennifer_bloom]

At my age, I think it would be easier to raise a child that is born some other way, than to get pregnant and risk the chance the child could be unhealthy because of my age. I don't have a problem with raising children but I don't know if I can trust a man who had kids with a woman he chose himself and then divorced her, it might be a sign he would do the same to me if I have his kids.

[LazerBean]

Not unless the reason he's a single dad is because his wife. All other cases of single fathers are unfit for relationships and reproduction.

[Masterodd]

1 maybe... 2 not really, 3 or more... no... she messed up somewhere and now is just looking for a supporter... she will 98% of the time pop out a 4th just to make you pay child support...

Just google the stats and look for yourselves.

Plus the whole (dont you talk to MY CHILD like that) or (you need to provide for MY CHILD)... no... thank... you...

[Masterodd]

@oksoundsgood YEP... I tried the stepdaddy thing twice... never again.
The second one tried to put me in jail... she told police I was diddling her kids...

[Masterodd]

@oksoundsgood Sadley no... I had 3 with my wife, triplets, the two girls were stillborn and my son died 1 day before his 1st birthday. we divorced shortly after... she said I reminded her too much of the kids and SHE needed to grow...

[imjustagiiirl]

you're scary

[Masterodd]

@imjustagiiirl COOL... please explain? I'm scary how?

[AyushMate]

If she's a good person, our choices and opinions matches to each other and if we like each other then why not? Having a child doesn't always mean that she had some bad past, and even if she had then also they deserve a good partner and happiness in life just like everyone else.

[Evananswersquestions]

It all depends a family is what you find in it. You shouldn't feel obligated to do anything if that isn't something that interests you then you shouldn't feel bad, but on the other had you're also not a cuck if you do want to be in a relationship with a mother. Love is actually totally conditional and that's okay because love isn't something you can control. As long as you're attracted to consenting adults marry or don't marry whoever you want and I wish you many years of happiness

[BourbonAndBacon]

All my kids are grown and have great careers and I prefer the same or no kids. I've gone out with single moms and a few times there has been drama with 2 parents trying to outspoil the kids and the kids are brats. Bratty enough to be deal breakers. Sad to say but the best single moms that I dated had ex's that wanted nothing to do with their kids.

[zagor]

You apparently don't know what a cuck is. It isn't someone who dates someone with a child.

A lot of women have good reasons for not being with the father of their kid. He may have just run off, or even died. I knew a girl whose hub died at 32.

[LiamJHayden]

Not as cut and dried as the question assumes.

1. Never married mom of five from all different daddies, and on assitance.
2. Wealthy mother of one who is widowed.

#1 can be a major resource drain with the potential for major baby daddy drama.
#2 is unlikely to be so.

There are also many degrees in between.

[OddBeMe]

I don’t understand the options. But no I personally wouldn’t. If I liked kids I wouldn’t have a problem.

Some guys have a “not my seed, not my problem” to the point they only but their kids gifts. Which is weird as fck. But again I’m not a parent and have no “seed”…on the outside. Lol

[IceCreamSandwich]

I wouldn't date someone who wouldn't date someone with a child. I don't have a child myself, but I'm not stupid. I know there's a lot of different ways that can happen.

[Dinklex3]

I wouldn’t because there’s usually drama.

I didn’t vote because it doesn’t mean he’s “broken” or anything.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Whether or not you would date them isn’t the question

the question is WHY are people with kids trying to date?

why are you trying to run this race with a monkey on your back?

[DarkLegacy]

You need to do spell and grammar check but otherwise i agree with you. These women think they can mess around with toxic guys when they are young and then find a nice guy to settle down with. What they are looking for is a simp doormat.

[exitseven]

If the kid was older like a teenager or older i would. Not a baby or a toddler.

[Tim2nice]

It’s never been a problem for me. If I like the woman enough I’ll take her as a package even if her kids were challenging.

[4ngelic]

at my age no, think that would complicate everything

[Adaeva]

Of course not. No boy I know even has a child.

[DarkLegacy]

You are only 14, so it does not count

[rosemilk]

yeah your opinion is worthless because you're 14, why even answer...

[WhyohWhy69]

Sometimes men don’t appreciate good women. My ex husband knows he screwed up leaving me. I’ll never go back to him. Men talk about their dignity. I have mine, too.

[Drumlin2001]

Well I have two myself so would be a bit hypocritical to say no.

[DextroShade]

Single mothers are recreational use only. Why in the hell would I waste my time and money on some other dude's kid?

[averageJosh]

Just because a woman has a child she's broken? I'm sorry but that's not thee case. a single mom is a tough role to have and I'd bet she's much stronger than you give her credit for.

[AmeerX]

I would marry a woman with a child. Love has no bounds.

[clampfan101]

She’s still a woman. I’d give one a chance if she had a stable life and good kids.

[Slim57]

I said I never would but I did and it wasn't bad, so doesn't matter to me as long as the kids are cool or taking up all their time