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How old are they?
If they never married and are into or beyond their middle ages, that's less than 2 people a year realistically.
20s probably but does it matter?
If they are still teenage they're probably bullshiting.
A deceitful guy who manipulatively screwed 50+ different women is definitely a player in my books.
A deceitful woman who manipulatively screwed 50+ different guys is definitely a player too in my books.
Uhm..!🙄🤔👆👇👏🙌🙌 Only if feelings is not there at that moment.
Maybe you should first establish what a player is. Like, what defines it?
The original question wasn't mine, so I don't know really what was meant by it.
I just thought it would be fun to see if anyone else did.
This is one of these terms that everyone seems to define differently. So if nobody can tell me what a player is, I don't know what to answer.
Yes, me too, that's why I am trying to see if anyone knows :)
But your question only asks about quantity of sex partners.
Yes, but it says 'are they a Player?', which begs the question of what a player is.
Many have defined it if you read more posts :)
Yeah, as others have mentioned, numbers alone don't make someone a player. It's about intent and how they treat their sex partners. It's so weird to me how obsessed Americans seem to be about how many people someone had sex with me...
I know, it shouldn't really matter, right?
It only matters when it takes up so much of your time that you're neglecting other things in life because of it. But if tha's not the case, all that matters is the quality of your sexual encounters, not the quantity.
Sometimes you don't have to seek sex to find it. I would define a "player" as someone who seeks sex from as many willing participants as possible. Maybe the guy just had a good streak? I got with like 4 women in one year and that was just during my normal home-work-home routine.
It's possible to have a high number like that and not be a dirtbag.
Afaik, a player flirts with girls pretending to want a relations but actually just uses them for sex.
So in my opinion, if you are honest about it, you don't play people, you just have sex with a lot of people.. symantics, really.
A player is someone who plays with women's feelings. Regardless if he had sex with 5 women or 50
Theyre not a player if they werent cheating. But they are pretty much a hoe for doing it with that many people
I think a player is defined by the attitude that they take when running through all these sexual experiences. If they are using people for sex and then ditching them once they got what they wanted. That would be a player.
i'm a whole pile of C with 1/4 cup of E! but i'm hoping the answer is really A?
It depends on their attitude, I guess. If they were upfront and honest with all 50 of those people and specifically told them that it would be a ONS and nothing else, then they're not a player.
by the way, can you follow me, please?
Apparently, only if they are a guy... if it is over 50+ partners he's a player or womanizer. However, if it's a woman, she is a slut. I hate the double standards. Its disgusting and despicable.
Yet it is what it is.
Unfortunately
If they were all just for “fun”, than yes.
But if the majority of those people were chosen in search of a dedicated relationship, than no. That would just be a ton of unfortunate failures.
Most people are hypocrite or dishonest I think.
50 is very much a player number especially for a young person.
Question is: how many of those who answered :"no" have a higher or similar number lol?
I don't think any of this has to do with being blonde 😂
You're right, I'm just trying to be funny :)
It would depend on over what time 50 people were it there in if they are 50 they would average 2 a yeàr if they were 60 1 a year
If they are 30 that is reprehencable
The number of people you have been with is not the point. If she goi out and enjoys the company, and have sex ,50, over a few years isn't that much.
A player will play you and make you feel played. They are manipulators.
A manwhore will give you exactly what you are expecting.
How old are they? How long did it take to get to 50 encounters? 2 a year for 25 years... not a player. 50 in one year... definitely a player...
I don't think it's about the number of sexual partners, but rather the way they acquired that number.
It all about intent with either men or women, if you are manipulating someones feelings to get sex then you are a player.