I have a Chinese girlfriend, Yang Xue/Snow, and I can't speak Chinese. Fortunately for me, most Chinese women are fluent in English anyway, some of them are fluent in like 3 to 5 languages. YaYa Han, the cosplay model, is fluent in five languages, for example... her Verbal I. Q. is probably over 200. Thank God for YaYa showing me that, "Yes, Chinese woman is the way to go!"
Yeah, buddy - Caucasians are dying to date Indians. It must be that grand rich class-free society you've built back home that they all want to get a piece of. They can't get enough of the assorted Arabs, Turks, Africans and alike, and their superior cultures they all keep running away from.
OK, start volunteering at local charities and places that help other people. You will find the best people there and most of them will be girls but you better treat them right.
Laurie - can you explain to me why the Swedish girls would be at the volunteering places? Just the motivation... It can't be desperation for a beautiful blonde?
No, no, I know the perspective full well - but the popular opinion always finds some faults with selflessness, so I was just interested in asking. Is it socially acceptable in Sweden, to be selfless? I know quite a few people who mock it as a cultural view. The few Scandinavians I met in Brussels seemed like genuinely good people - but if you talk selflessness to anyone from the Mediterranean, they consider you dumb/a loser (so you have to keep a veneer of self-interest just to get by)
@soleil2666 Because of the brainwashing of socialism in Sweden I find that many Swedish people are very selfish and is why they would mock selflessness.
My Swedish cousin came to visit and stayed with my Aunt and at first she provided him food and board but then he didn't want to leave and expected to be able to stay with her indefinitely and not have to work and pay his own way.
That is what socialism does to people. It is very sad. And now there are some that are trying to bring that same political system and mentality to America, including the Democratic Party, which will finalize their plans to turn us into a third world country.
@laurieluvsit Mmm, I understand the concerns - I grew up in a properly socialist country (Yugoslavia, it was). What I was wondering about was how do those volunteers reconcile that - on the one hand, it feels good to be selfless, but on the other, it opens you up for being used. There's no better feeling than being there for another human being - it really doesn't compare to anything else. But there are also not many things worse than getting used by someone you have helped - and the risk of it does exist, even from people who seem genuine (my best friend stabbed me in the back badly so many times it isn't even funny - and this with no qualms as far as his consciousness goes (he looked like a sleazy arab/middle easterner - dark eyes where you can't see the pupils dilate - I don't know if that has to do with it or not)
Malmo has a very large population of non-ethnic Swedes, so it may not be that easy to find an ethnic Swedish girlfriend there. That said, Swedes speak English, usually very well, so not knowing Swedish should not be an insurmountable handicap.
Many countries who do not speak English as a majority language usually end up learning English at school. English is now considered an international language.
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