He talks about himself a lot in texts lately and never asks me questions. Red flag?

[Anonymous]

He talks about himself a lot in texts lately and never asks me questions. Red flag?

[Catsdaddy]

If he's talking about his self in a egotistical way then the ego only gets bigger when there's someone there to add to it until it graduates to the narcissist then the community will have to find away to get him locked up or put in an insane asylum since there's no medical cure for a narcissist. The person who we get involved with should be a reflection of who we are within, not a reflection of our person but the attributes that we have within. Then someone who wants to talk about themselves can do it in away that acknowledges you for making him a better man, happier, peaceful, will power, loving, anything that he might not have associated with himself before bei g involved with you.

[notatrap]

Try making that obvious to him or even pointing it out. If you like him, make flaws clear to each other, no one is perfect. If you're letting him ramble on about himself, he gets to brag.. ok.. but he will take that into his next relationship not knowing what he did wrong, same as you not doing anything about it.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Definitely. If he's into you, why doesn't he ask about you and your life? If a guy is into you, he makes attempts to get to know you or show an interest in you.

This guy sounds like a narcissist, lol. He might like you, but just be selfish or thinks the world revolves around him.

Try calling him, or ask if you can talk over the phone and see how the conversation goes. Again, if he only makes the conversation about him and not you, I'd back away.

[Киттйлинк]

not Necessarily.. I can be be but you shouldn’t jump to conclusions just yet or you’d be doing the same thing you’re accusing him of by thinking only of yourself in it so happens that you are wrong... sometimes people don’t realize this and it happens...

[Киттйлинк]

IT can be*

[jasonmwhite2786]

I don't know what could make it a red flag... But people generally want to talk about them selves more than others it's human nature now if it continues for a long period of time then he may be conceded but thats for you to decide if he just wants to talk about himself or if he is obsessing pver himself

[AbleLearner]

When I talk to Snow I try to avoid talking about myself, and I ask her genuine questions about her day is going and her work and hobbies and stuff. I mostly only talk about myself if she asks me a question about myself.

[Sevenpointfive]

it depends on your personality. you can't treat everyone the same and expect the same results. so if you're not satisfied it's time to stop texting. there's no flag

[Y3333T]

Maybe you should start talking about your self in texts to see what he says? And ignore him the way he ignores you.

[LEETSBEREAL]

For me I don't care. He talks I talk 🤷‍♀️ Don't think it's such a big deal sometimes I don't want to talk. If its bothering you talk to him. He could be just rambling

[arabgoddess]

Yes.. Don't be with a guy who isn't interested in what you have to say.. You'll feel alone and will eventually seek outside companionship.

[ecfresh]

If you are relying on texts to carry the conversations in a relationship yes that’s a red flag

[msss98]

I mean in my opinion thats just unpollite and a bit self absorbed not sure if a red flag per say but deffenitely a big nono

[spuitkaas]

Yes. Either he is not interested in you or he's not stable atm. Both are things I would avoid if possible.

[crazy8000]

She should look at herself what she contribute with before making that assumption.

[crazy8000]

Not really.
Some doesn't do that kind of bonding through text since it's not natural and creates air castles (self created fantasies about that person) .

Save rapport to IRL if you want something real that lasts.

[crazy8000]

The same with looking for chemistry and klick over some communication device.

[crazy8000]

You also have different ways of how they communicate. bond, build rapport. it can be how you communicate with him.

Go through your communication with him as it wasn't your conversation and even reverse gender roles.

To many female's lacks self insight what they really do in early age and tries to blame others.

Just be a better person with open mind instead of listen to other's that are narrow minded.

[claryy]

Yes it is red flag, it is narcissistic and it is not a good thing in a relationship

[D_Bone_Steak]

Maybe narcissism... is it selfagrandized talk, or legit self reflection?

[meltwithme]

I don't get it? He texts you things about him and asks you nothing? Did he just have a huge boost in life like a really big advancement or something he is proud about?

[DiscomfortZone]

Perhaps you've managed to bore him, or he finally dared to talk about himself. Check yourself first, then point fingers.

[theCobbler]

Ummhmmm, that... or he's a blooming Egomaniac, just starting his way to becoming a full blown Narrcisst...

[BrownBratzDoll]

Red flag dump him u are just his human journ as l he can unpack his emotional burden off on u

[Anonymous]

Oh so basically you're the only one that can talk about yourself but when he says something about himself you just tune him out and bitch your head off Go Fuck Yourself

[standardguy]

Not red, only yellow. Talk to him about your feelings.

[ProfessionalMusician]

Yes indeed a narcissist in my book and a problem from the get go

[Bellamoo]

Yea i would not like that at all to me it shows he is selfish and has no care about who i am