honey, I hate to say it but that is because those girls are usually the ones who put out. However, they don't usually marrying those type of girls. Usually guys will look for the smart nice girl when they're ready to settle down. It's sad, but that's just the it is sometimes. Don't give up, be proud of who you are and work on yourself, everything else should fall into place eventually if you do that. It might be a long time, but you'll be happier later.
Wearing makeup actually isn't a sign of stupidity,girls who know how to make themselves desirable to others are smarter than those ''plain janes'',plain janes complain about guys not liking them,and those girls you consider stupid get men,attraction is an art,and knowing how to attract people is a good thing,it's just that those plain janes THINK that they're smarter,when in fact,they're ignorant and judge others based on stereotypes
i HAAAAAATE when people assume that in order to be smart, you are a plain jane too. makeup has nothing to do with intelligence. I wear makeup. in fact I LOVE makeup, and I do it for all my friends as well. and guess what, I have a 4.0 gpa. so these generalizations are ridiculous.
if you are asking "why do guys go for dumb girls" you should have just said that. makeup is not a factor.
It's an equation men tend to follow. More Makeup = Dumb and Easy. Less Makeup = Smart and Cold
It's probably not entirely correct, but its the formula men have come to count on for generations that has worked in their favor. It may seem stereotypical, but its the only outward sign men have to go by.
yeah a lot of makeup can make you look stupid. but what about just a girl who wears SOME makeup, and just tries to look nice? not every girl who wears makeup looks like that, its all in degrees. its stupid to assume that all makeup= dumb and no makeup= smart. there is a middle ground there is being ruled out.
No, not even close. Obviously there has to be some level of attraction, but if the girl is just plain dumb and only a body then it's a pretty pointless relationship unless she is just a f**k buddy. Smart girls, or cultured girls are pretty much the ideal for a relationship. If I can't talk to her properly, it's as good as done.
Hell no. Not for me, has to be smart or it's never gonna be nothing but a physical relationship. Never been with a dumb girl. Never will. My fiancé speaks 2 languages and takes 20+ credits a semester @ marquette You in Milwaukee. Smart girls keep it up, we need more like u.
Anyways...Makeup doesn't determine if a woman is stupid...and plane-janes could be stupid too.
And some smart girls could be boring...and some stupid girls can be fun and free...Some stupid girls could just be useless. And some smart girls can be exciting...
But most guys don't pick idiots for thier wives...they pick idiots as thier hook-ups.
I dumped a girl once because I realized she wasn't smart enough. I wasn't an ass about it, but it was just kinda tough to carry on a conversation, so I did what I had to do. Intelligence really has nothing to do with who gets hit on. The attractive ones get hit on. It's tough to gauge how smart a girl is (unless they are on either of the extreme ends of the spectrum) before you start spending lots of time with them.
I think guys like intelligence but they like a chick who is also pleasing on the eye. You can be pretty and intelligent at the same time lolz. Who said make up=stupidity anyway?
Guys want to date the girls with loads of make up on and marry the smart ones...but she's still got to look a little pretty :)
just because a girl is smart doesn't mean she is a "plain jane." there are plenty of smart girls out there who are naturally beautiful and who enhance their beauty through makeup. not every girl who wears make up is ditzy and not every girl who is a plain jane is smart. I know plenty of smart girls who get hit on all the time (:
Smart girls tend to be more confrontational or threatening to the male ego where as "dumb" girls put their bodies out there more and are more sleazy. the only reasons I know of that guys don't go for smart girls is cause they are harder to get in bed or at east close to it, bruise a man ego, smart girls seem to only want long term relationships and smart girls usually don't throw themselves at anything with a penis...hahaha :P
easy cause dumb girls are smart enough that looks actually matter to guys
i love smart girls that's why I purposly went to one of the best school in the state to meet a smart girl who is SMART enough to embrace their beauty instead of thinking it was dumb to care about their apperance
my best girlfriedns the ones I loved were extrremely intellegent
-future lawyer
-future vet
-ones even gonna be a brain surgeon(no lie its been her dream since she was like 9)
I agree and I don't understand it, but then again it is not like the nice guys are going after girls like that. Usually jerks that only have one thing in mind go after girls like that, maybe intimidated by a girl with brains. I know there are plenty of nice guys (usually shy) that would prefer a smart,classy girl.
Dumb girls get hit on by hot guys because they are mark as an easy lay. And most guys want to put in as little effort as possible to get laid. Personally I can't stand dumb girls. I don't know how these women can function in society let alone get through high school. Huge turn on for me is someone that can hold an intelligent conversation. Only exception is the girl that thinks she is so smart she knows everything and can never admit when they are wrong.
That is not always the case. I am female and I am shy. I get hit on more when I don't have make up. I am in college but I am definitely working to improve my skills daily. I want to follow my dream. I attract more guys when I am focus on something else.
The girls you're referring to get hit on until the guy sleeps with them. If you want that, change who you are so you can be slept with and tossed aside.
If you don't want that, stick to who you are and be patient until the good guy who wants *you*, and for more than a fling, comes along.
Im not like that I hate to much makeup and I need some one to talk to not just a girl who will grind with me at the club. Lots of guys I know are like me but the guys that do that are just looking for some one kinda easy and that stuff^ is a pretty good indacator. (I know my spelling sucks) You'll meet some one :) I'm sure of it!
I can't handle dumb people in general, especially can't handle my singnificant other being totally dumb. I had a girlfriend ask me if the grand canyon was made and I had to try my hardest not to vomit. Guys probably date dumb girls to mask their own dumbness
it depends on the guy but I think most guys are almost afraid of a smart girl. real men can handle real women and insecure men usually go for the dumb girls because they won't call them out or upset their manhood. its best to be cute and smart 'cause it always throws them off when you first meet them. go out and pick up a sexy (not slutty!) outfit, a little make up and have fun with it. you will be surprised at how much power you have
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honey, I hate to say it but that is because those girls are usually the ones who put out. However, they don't usually marrying those type of girls. Usually guys will look for the smart nice girl when they're ready to settle down. It's sad, but that's just the it is sometimes. Don't give up, be proud of who you are and work on yourself, everything else should fall into place eventually if you do that. It might be a long time, but you'll be happier later.
Wearing makeup actually isn't a sign of stupidity,girls who know how to make themselves desirable to others are smarter than those ''plain janes'',plain janes complain about guys not liking them,and those girls you consider stupid get men,attraction is an art,and knowing how to attract people is a good thing,it's just that those plain janes THINK that they're smarter,when in fact,they're ignorant and judge others based on stereotypes
i HAAAAAATE when people assume that in order to be smart, you are a plain jane too. makeup has nothing to do with intelligence. I wear makeup. in fact I LOVE makeup, and I do it for all my friends as well. and guess what, I have a 4.0 gpa. so these generalizations are ridiculous.
if you are asking "why do guys go for dumb girls" you should have just said that. makeup is not a factor.
It's an equation men tend to follow. More Makeup = Dumb and Easy. Less Makeup = Smart and Cold
It's probably not entirely correct, but its the formula men have come to count on for generations that has worked in their favor. It may seem stereotypical, but its the only outward sign men have to go by.
yeah a lot of makeup can make you look stupid. but what about just a girl who wears SOME makeup, and just tries to look nice? not every girl who wears makeup looks like that, its all in degrees. its stupid to assume that all makeup= dumb and no makeup= smart. there is a middle ground there is being ruled out.
No, not even close. Obviously there has to be some level of attraction, but if the girl is just plain dumb and only a body then it's a pretty pointless relationship unless she is just a f**k buddy. Smart girls, or cultured girls are pretty much the ideal for a relationship. If I can't talk to her properly, it's as good as done.
Hell no. Not for me, has to be smart or it's never gonna be nothing but a physical relationship. Never been with a dumb girl. Never will. My fiancé speaks 2 languages and takes 20+ credits a semester @ marquette You in Milwaukee. Smart girls keep it up, we need more like u.
lol Dumb or Stupid?
Anyways...Makeup doesn't determine if a woman is stupid...and plane-janes could be stupid too.
And some smart girls could be boring...and some stupid girls can be fun and free...Some stupid girls could just be useless. And some smart girls can be exciting...
But most guys don't pick idiots for thier wives...they pick idiots as thier hook-ups.
I dumped a girl once because I realized she wasn't smart enough. I wasn't an ass about it, but it was just kinda tough to carry on a conversation, so I did what I had to do. Intelligence really has nothing to do with who gets hit on. The attractive ones get hit on. It's tough to gauge how smart a girl is (unless they are on either of the extreme ends of the spectrum) before you start spending lots of time with them.
Why can't the smart girls doll themselves up? Because its so superficial?
Attraction is superficial. You look good, we get talking, then I find out your intelligent. Wow. You got me interested.
this deserves best comment.
I think guys like intelligence but they like a chick who is also pleasing on the eye. You can be pretty and intelligent at the same time lolz. Who said make up=stupidity anyway?
Guys want to date the girls with loads of make up on and marry the smart ones...but she's still got to look a little pretty :)
just because a girl is smart doesn't mean she is a "plain jane." there are plenty of smart girls out there who are naturally beautiful and who enhance their beauty through makeup. not every girl who wears make up is ditzy and not every girl who is a plain jane is smart. I know plenty of smart girls who get hit on all the time (:
Smart girls tend to be more confrontational or threatening to the male ego where as "dumb" girls put their bodies out there more and are more sleazy. the only reasons I know of that guys don't go for smart girls is cause they are harder to get in bed or at east close to it, bruise a man ego, smart girls seem to only want long term relationships and smart girls usually don't throw themselves at anything with a penis...hahaha :P
dumb girls are for time pass
smart girls are for a long run
i would date a dumb girl if I m not a bit serious in the relationship and I want her to be too dumb to figure it out
but for a long term relationship I want a girl who is smart
with whome I can share my opinions and have meaningful conversations
easy cause dumb girls are smart enough that looks actually matter to guys
i love smart girls that's why I purposly went to one of the best school in the state to meet a smart girl who is SMART enough to embrace their beauty instead of thinking it was dumb to care about their apperance
my best girlfriedns the ones I loved were extrremely intellegent
-future lawyer
-future vet
-ones even gonna be a brain surgeon(no lie its been her dream since she was like 9)
but they all look good :D
I agree and I don't understand it, but then again it is not like the nice guys are going after girls like that. Usually jerks that only have one thing in mind go after girls like that, maybe intimidated by a girl with brains. I know there are plenty of nice guys (usually shy) that would prefer a smart,classy girl.
Dumb girls get hit on by hot guys because they are mark as an easy lay. And most guys want to put in as little effort as possible to get laid. Personally I can't stand dumb girls. I don't know how these women can function in society let alone get through high school. Huge turn on for me is someone that can hold an intelligent conversation. Only exception is the girl that thinks she is so smart she knows everything and can never admit when they are wrong.
That is not always the case. I am female and I am shy. I get hit on more when I don't have make up. I am in college but I am definitely working to improve my skills daily. I want to follow my dream. I attract more guys when I am focus on something else.
The girls you're referring to get hit on until the guy sleeps with them. If you want that, change who you are so you can be slept with and tossed aside.
If you don't want that, stick to who you are and be patient until the good guy who wants *you*, and for more than a fling, comes along.
Im not like that I hate to much makeup and I need some one to talk to not just a girl who will grind with me at the club. Lots of guys I know are like me but the guys that do that are just looking for some one kinda easy and that stuff^ is a pretty good indacator. (I know my spelling sucks) You'll meet some one :) I'm sure of it!
I can't handle dumb people in general, especially can't handle my singnificant other being totally dumb. I had a girlfriend ask me if the grand canyon was made and I had to try my hardest not to vomit. Guys probably date dumb girls to mask their own dumbness
it depends on the guy but I think most guys are almost afraid of a smart girl. real men can handle real women and insecure men usually go for the dumb girls because they won't call them out or upset their manhood. its best to be cute and smart 'cause it always throws them off when you first meet them. go out and pick up a sexy (not slutty!) outfit, a little make up and have fun with it. you will be surprised at how much power you have