Is a bad kisser a deal breaker?

[Anonymous]

Yeah

Nope

[Anonymous]

No. unless you really don't like the person, it shouldn't.
When my boyfriend first kissed me, it was really weird!!! like he just put his tongue in my mouth lol and felt like rough, no idea why and just weiiiiiird!! it was kind of awful and i thought ugh this sucks!! but then later like the next day, he turned me around when i was walking and just bam!! kissed me!! so i kissed him back hard! like leading him because it was awful lol and he followed my rhythm and i continued and it was really nice.. I will never forget it. and he tells me "I like kissing you now" lol cause he felt the weirdness also i bet!! i just smiled and kissed him.. and after that he wanted to be kissing me all the time lol and then he would say "not in public" and it would make me laugh because he was the one trying to kiss me and i would just go along with it and right after he would say "not in public" lol

[Cynicaldreamer]

Of course not! Anyone can be taught how to kiss. I would just practice with him... lots of practice until he feels comfortable.

It's a win/win for everyone! Lol. But kissing certainly isn't a dealbreaker for most of us.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

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[Cynicaldreamer]

@Aakash_Hangargi You flirt, lol

[Aakash_Hangargi]

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[JackSmy]

Dude! I'm going with @Cynicaldreamer and kissing is a simple, and quite enjoyable thing to practice and learn!! Sometimes I spend most of a weekend with a lady I Love, just cuddling and kissing! OH, "cuddling" comes after when you master kissing, and much more delightful!

[Cynicaldreamer]

@jacksmy Yes sir! That is the right mindset to have! I have no problems teaching a guy how to kiss if he's willing. He better bring some chapstick, water, and have some minty fresh breath though, lol.

I used to be a terrible kisser; I can admit that. But I practiced and got experienced- now I love it with the right guy!

[JackSmy]

@Cynicaldreamer LOL!! Nobody really starts as a good kisser, but figures out how to with different partners along the way!! Sometimes, kissing becomes your favorite thing to do, but maybe, just because you can do it in public!

[Kurαȷ]

I always found the idea that other people's romantic experiences should somehow be a benefit to me as a little odd and antithetical to my idea of what romance is about.

No, it is not a deal breaker to me at all.
If anything, lack of experience is a plus to me.

[jennifer_bloom]

Nope - its adorable when a guy doesn't know how to kiss and I can teach him - if he can graduate high school he can learn to kiss

[VIVANT]

Not at first course not

but if it goes on and on and on and on despite my efforts to the contrary and we can’t seem to get it together, it likely belies other communication and awareness issues.

there is no such thing a perpetually bad kisser.. anyone can learn and adapt. There is only poor chemistry or

#narcissism

[Wolkmi]

as long as you don't lick the other person's face or choke I don't think anyone is so far-fetched as to "whether this kiss is good or bad..." even licking the face can be exciting sometimes
we are human beings, neither are we gigolos experts in the art of kissing...

[PeacefulRainDrop]

No but it would make me weigh out the rest of the relationship? Lets say he annoyed me with a show off attitude I wouldn't pursue it. But if he had all the qualities I wanted I would stay

[Artwork]

Definitly a bad kisser slows the sparks.
I wouldn't say no to a girl because she was a bad kisser but If i hooked up with someone in a club and they were a bad kisser i would think twice about taking them home

[Flower7]

No, it's not. There are many other parts of a relationship other than kissing. That's by far not the most important thing to worry about.

[Sonorous]

No, I wouldn't value kissing that much. If need be, I'd tell her to just not move her lips and let me do all the work. 😂

[Red_Dragon]

No I can show her how it's done. Though it is an advantage if she does know how to kiss. Most girls aren't excellent kissers.

[hannahde97]

Total deal breaker, especially if the vibe is weird

[anon1903]

Fuck yes. It's a massive deal for me so yeah, I CAN break off a relationship for that seemingly petty reason.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Honest, do you kiss on first dates to make sure of it, because nobody gets there hope highs in that case and he knows what he can practise more it would feel hard but then he can improve his game

[anon1903]

I don't date. Right now I'm focusing on education.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Good all the best 👍 a focused girl may success kiss your feet my child😎🌹

[anon1903]

Thanks a lot, Aakash.

[SaraSmithishere]

I would have said no when I was younger, but then I dated a guy in college who was a horrible kisser. Good, God! Imagine trying to make out with blob of tofu.

[RolandCuthbert]

I was a bad kisser for a long time.

It didn't stop me from getting dates.

[Nicolette777]

No, you can teach them. If it was REALLY bad, I might be completely off put though

[ThiccNigro]

Nah, It's not hard to learn how to kiss. A bad kisser is probably just inexperienced or isn't used to the way you like to kiss. Just teach them

[BiCanadianMan]

Depends on how bad a kisser they are. No one wants to be slobbered on or a tongue shoved in their mouth

[kiska85]

Its not ideal, especially in a long term relationship

[ColHathi]

Love these responses. Movies would suggest otherwise, so that's nice to see ^^

[Anonymous]

Nah, that’s more exciting to me
I can just teach him :3

[DeeDeeDeVour]

That's not a problem that can't be fixed.

[AlongCameCindy]

Lol girls think yes guys no, yeah it is.. bad kissing is a turn off and makes me feel incompatible

[angeliquedevereux2]

More girls voted no than than yes (13 vs 14) so girls don't just click one option, though the marjority of guys clicked no

[angeliquedevereux2]

But yeah i agree 👌

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yeah i heard more than the act of sex women are at sensual peak after kissing