Why is it if I’m making out with a boy, and he puts his hand between my legs, and I say no, and move it... He Just does It again like 3 minutes later?

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virtue2332 · Accepted Answer

Unfortunately, Because its worked for him before. Or his buddy was bragging about one of his hookups and how she let him because he is a god and he knew she wanted it. Now he thinks he can convince you as well. You have to be aggressive without risking yourself. Stop everything look him in the eye and tell him you are not ready for that yet and if he can't stop and respect you then you are going to have to stop whats going on. If he can't get it together he never will and you have to move on its that simple.

thisappiscrap · Accepted Answer

this is called sexual assault, please dont see this kid no more, its bad news

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because man are trash (I'm only half joking) 🤗 gonna get a lot of hate for this but cba.
If someone says no, it means no. End of the story. You can kiss with a guy and not be willing to go further than just kisses. It's your fucking right. You do not owe them anything *at all*. Do not let anyone tell you that kissing with someone means that you have to say yes if they wanna go further. NO MEANS NO you horny disrespectful dudes.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Maybe he is trying again.. just in case you'll change your opinion.. or you are not sure about your no and you secretly want it so you might change your decision. (My boyfriend has done this)

But if he does that again n again. Stop making out and tell him clearly that you said NO and ask him to back off.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

That is rape and needs to be reported

Radio4men · Answer

A) Kissing is a start of leading to sex.
B) at your age especially guys super h*rny (For you to feel like him it'll be in your late 30's)
C) dont kiss him to start with.
D) In a girls world "NO" has 50 different meanings. I know BS feminist say No means no.
her ton has a lot of meaning behind that no. No could mean yes, try harder, im not being easy, I dont want you to touch me, stop, start, go away, go and then come back, teasing you, play rough, too rough, too soft and etc etc..

Anonymous · Answer

The honest answer could be that he doesn't care, but its quite possible the answer is that a lot of girls seem to use 'no' interchangeably between 'no, i'm not interested in that', 'no, i'm not in the mood right now but if you keep trying I might get in the mood' and 'no, you're moving too quickly slow down and try again later'. Of course there are also guys who keep trying till girls 'give in', but some girls seem to genuinely like to say no a few times and then say yes.

If no, in this case, means 'no not today', try saying 'no not today' and see what happens. Or 'no, not this month'. It will probably crash the making out to a close and maybe you can have a real discussion about expectations and whether you two are aligned.

RydiaMagnifique · Answer

You need to push him. If he's gonna be all pushy with you, feel free to be pushy right back, aka push him onto the ground. Whatever you wanna do after, i. e kick, punch, or run away from him is up to you. You're 100% in the right, here.

A stranger walked into my house, locked the door behind him and demanded I took my clothes off. I told him to leave, he started grabbing me down there. I froze up for a few seconds before I finally latched onto his hand, moved away from him and told him he needs to go, for the second time. This man was so drunk that he could barely walk. I wasn't able to fight back. This happened in my own house where I lived by myself and.

I need to teach myself not to freeze up when in uncomfortable situations.

EtherielQueen1 · Answer

It’s not a good sign if he can’t respect you and what you say, no means no and he must stop if you don’t like it. Don’t feel pressured to put up with it, if he keeps doing it then I’d let him go. Be strong :)

annabananna · Answer

He either thinks you’ll change your mind or you don’t really mean no. He NEEDS to respect your boundaries though. A guy who doesn’t know that no means no isn’t the cream of the crop.

ecfresh · Answer

The boy got bad advice or has seen something online encouraging that behavior. If you clearly say no and he continues trying, it’s appropriate to stop kissing and even leave. He has got to respect it when you tell him no.

Penguino · Answer

First time no can be playful, second time no is NO if he tries a third time, stop kissing and say that you really don't want it. If he argues you leave.

Edeyy · Answer

Well its not right. I wouldn't say its the most appropriate thing to do trying again after you said no. It just shows how desperate he is to have sex. Sometimes too much desperation is toxic.

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

You need to dump a boy who dose not respect your NO, because no is no

Prof_Don · Answer

That guy, putting his hand there again after you moved it, is now “forcing himself on you after you denied consent”.

Anonymous · Answer

He doesn't understand the concept of no and is thereby too dumb to date.

bang678 · Answer

Because he doesn't respect you

Anonymous · Answer

Walk away. You set what boundaries you want.

genericname85 · Answer

cause who knows xD you could have changed your mind in 3 minutes. also he's probably still horny after 3 minutes.

Anonymous · Answer

Because most (and I repeat Most!) females say no to save face and act like they “aren’t like that” and use it as a shit test to see “how much we want her”... if we simply give up they see us as pathetic and assume we don’t want them enough and they lose interest.

yucychan · Answer

Because he is hoping you would change your mind. If you don't want him to do that, then don't do things that will lead him to it.

Fuentes · Answer

And? Don't makeout with him then thats what comes with kissing duh

Daniela1982 · Answer

Because you got your legs spread wider than the Grand Coulee Dam.

Bandit74 · Answer

Well he thinks/hopes that in the 3 minutes since the last no that you've become more turned on and will be open to it.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a guy who doesn't take:"no for an answer". It's up to you to accept it or not.

Gedaria · Answer

Isn't that making out. You play with him he plays with you...

In_Trance · Answer

Boys are dumb

jessicarosen · Answer

Slap him! Because he is being rude!!

Lilryan97 · Answer

If i was that guy i would of had u in bed in 10 seconds

BlessedDaddy · Answer

Because he's a boy and he want to have sex.

blutwolfe · Answer

Usually making out leads to other things

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