Can I say I desire all of the above except for G?
I'd love to have the feeling of being cared for knowing that I am loved and can feel secure. And I'd love to reciprocate that love back in caring for him and treating him like a king. I'd love to have someone I can see as my equal and have him view me as his equal - sharing the same
values, goals, who shares with me the same plans and dreams. A relationship where we don't belittle eachother but build one another and challenge one another to better ourselves as individuals and for eachother. Someone who can put up with my crap and knows that I can be emotionally rash, but is strong to call me out on it but remains calm and strong to walk and talk me through it. One who is crazy for life and immersing themself to embarking on adventures with me and making memories- being my partner in crime. And hell, I'd love to find someone who isn't effing scared to level it up in a relationship, who isn't complacent in just dating, but is willing to move towards wanting to accomplish and do things that'll draw us deeper into the relationship (finding a place together, getting a dog, being that hot couple that works out together...) and look towards marriage.
I want a fairly traditional relationship. I am going into Elementary Education, so as a teacher I likely will not be the main breadwinner. That's alright with me; I don't wanna sound like I expect a man to do everything for me, I don't know, I always feel guilty when people pay for me or things, but families function when they have two incomes and one's always bound to be less than the other?
I guess in a financial sense I want my partner to take care of me (and I'll contribute as I'm able, might be a SAH mom for a few years). But I want to take care of my partner emotionally and make a nice home for us and take care of the kids, I want to fill the housewife role. I think things are very dependent on balance, so we should take care of each other in different ways. I'm okay with not being my partner's equal, like I want them to respect me and we gotta love each other, but I don't mind if they're superior to me.
Um, several of those?
In every relationship in my life (including my current marriage), I have been the rock. I've dated girls who had nothing, didn't drive, didn't have good jobs, didn't have dependable family, you name it. I've always been the "nice guy" who saw myself in them (because I had a neglected upbringing) and took care of them. I became their rock and only too late always realized that they had no ambition to improve themselves with exception to improving through my surrogacy. More often than not, they ended up dragging me down as most times it was like trying to bail out the titanic with a spoon.
I got aggressive with my wife because I couldn't allow her to drag us both down, so I demanded she learn to drive (had to actually threaten divorce), and hold down a job. It's become clear to me that those two things are her limit, so I feel like once again I chose badly, and I know that's on me, but getting out isn't an option, so I make the best I can of it.
u I want someone who is on my level intellectually, who is peaceful and calm but passionate about a relationship, who avoids drama, and who looks to solve problems rather than run away from them.
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I'm a G. But with the exception of leveling up-you should never be with someone to "level" up-aren't the rest just all normal aspects of a relationship. Or what a relationship should be. Take turns caring for one another, equally love, commit... Someone you can be crazy with or at least "crazy in love" And noone's perfect so someone that takes the good or perfections with the bad or imperfections (bullshit)...
I want a woman who is compassionate, who is intelligent and talented, and passionate about love and life. I want a woman who actually on occasion weeps when she pours herself into something she's passionate about. I want a woman who is kind not just to me, but to others as well. Who makes it a point to try to see things from many perspectives. I want a woman who *I* find physically beautiful (never mind what the world thinks) and I make no apologies for this.
I found a woman who was all that and more. In addition to the aforementioned things, she was a wise and charismatic educator. I was a better cook, but she could hold her own. And she could play the violin, the cello, the piano, and the flute. She read music like reading a letter.
And now I'll have to shoulder on with only her memory. :(
My life revolves around a few subjects that I'm really into and love thinking and talking about all the time, I also love to listen to and learn from other people nerd out about whatever they're passionate about and I cannot relate to people who have nothing specific they're into.
So I don't want someone who just puts up with my BS, I want someone who's actively into my BS and who's own BS I can enjoy as well.
All of the above. :)
Partners should...
A/B. Take care of each other.
C. Know about flaws before choosing.
D. Know how wild each other are. lol
E. Improve together.
F. See each other as perfect equals.
I would like a partner who is my equal but I also a partner who will take care of me. I don’t mean financially... Someone who will take care of my heart, my feelings. He’s kind, loving, accepting of me, flaws and all. I would also take care of him. I’ve been single and independent more years than married. It would be nice to have companionship and passionate intimacy with a soulmate partner.
Damn Amanda, the options are almost too good for us.
I'd like somebody who puts up with my everyday bullcrap, understands I'm and always be shady as a bat, and of coarse show me their pranks so I can help.
I want a friend. :(
I mean, I would really like to find the rest of the Spanish fleet of 1715, but I suppose that would take a lot of time down in Florida.
Mainly F+ a combination of A+B
I would like to have a partner who is my equal + a great deal of shared interests,
compatibility, and chemistry, someone with whom there’s mutual admiration, acceptance, care, respect, and understanding.
I want to find a woman that is CONFIDENT in BEING HERSELF, and she likes what she likes, and she calls me out, when I am just in a bad mood, and accepts it, herself, when I call her out too!!
A REAL WOMAN, and KNOWING, not just wanting, to be an EQUAL, and that I respect her likes and dislikes, and I listen, and care, BECAUSE I RESPECT HER!
Fuck all the old Stereotypes!!
I've only known one, that came CLOSE, to that, in 30 years, and that, is SAD, to me!!
I want an equal. I like guys who have a lot of things in common with me. It's nice when we're on the same page.
Someone who will put up with my bs but I will be able to put up with their bs too... because no one is perfect.
I have a need to take care of others. Never ends well for me though.
F: most important. I don't need a Pokémon like person that I have to explain the world or always have to hold her hand.
Option G at this moment. But eventually I want to get to option F.
Someday...
my ride or die, Bonnie and Clyde, someone as crazy as me lol
I'd like to find someone to belong to and enjoy spending my time with. Where we help each other and are life companions to each other
I simply want a friend with whom I can be intimate and share everything for life.
Where's the answer about just wanting someone for sex?
Damn i never though about it that way I guess no more friends with benefits. Its now called FWRP Friend with a relationship pole i
I chose F, but I want both A & B. Hopefully that sort of symbiotic relationship isn't too hard to find.
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