I think if he acutally cared about your eye color he wouldn't have been with you in the first place. Guys say stupid shit like that all the time. It definitely is a bit harsh to break up with him cause of that
I mean your reaction is a pretty strong one for his comment, which was also an insensitive comment. If he thinks you would be attractive for having blue eyes, that's his opinion, you could tell him he would be more attractive if he liked your brown eyes. :P
You guys need to grow up and be more patient with each other. Now if he's calling you, and you've determined that you don't want him, just tell him he could find a blue eyed girl.
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You don't have to love everything about your partner to want to be with them but after having black guys low key say that I'm pretty for a black girl and having a incel tell me they don't like nappy hair, I can't blame you.
That's so rude when they say that. Pretty for a black girl. Wtf does that even mean... My ex slapped this guy for saying that to me, and I'm high yellow so imagine , it's just a dumb thing to say.
No, because tomorrow if he sees a equally hot girl and she happens to have blue eyes he will end things with you in a heartbeat and pursue the other girl
If he constantly reminds you that he doesn't like your eyes then yiu shoudnt be with someone who makes you feel bad about your features. But if he said it a few times and is truly sorry then you should forgive him
Haven't read the full question, but did read the title. If a relationship brakes up because of eyecolor I don't thi k that the relationship was to strong to begin with
Still trolling I see, and over a pair of eyes. That has to be one of your dumbest troll yet. Maybe just wear a pair of colored contacts, problem solved.
that's very harsh reaction , cuz if that was someone who really you care about that will be okay if he critics you , u just find a reason to break up with him, poor guy , he just give you his point , he is not a dumb person he have taste , he don't say YES for all what you have and say, , that's weird , i mean a real couple it's not a perfect match between 2 perfect gender come on , may he don't like your eyes but he like you for WHAT YOU ARE , ,
Sounds like he just want your body to me, you have to be sure! It wasn’t harsh it will be stupid to take him back if he hasn’t learnt his lesson. Sounds like a boy who was carried away with ignorance, he might have mention kids but he may just want your body. So it’s up to you , you can take him back but don’t ever tolerate disrespect for any reason. “If you weren’t hot your eyes would be a deal breaker” It’s clear what that means so look within not outer
you say - you like your brown eyes and would not exchange them for anything else? you can't anyway for your eyeballs are the color that they are naturally unless you go for an eyeball transplant , duh
I wouldn't think so. Negative commentary in regards to physical attributes that cannot be changed is degrading and can be demoralizong if continuous. You're only keeping your own personal mentality safe in the long run.
It was harsh give him a chance. He has a unrealistic vision and correct me if I'm wrong but I don't think 2blue eyed parents will just make blued eyed kids.
Well, now you mention it... given eyes is something you look at a lot I'd say actually yes this one on a rare occasion is acceptable why if he doesn't like the fundamental aspect of love intimacy did he date you. So i'd say this one weird.
Ig, may he is just sharing his openien but yoi take it so seriously, well its great when we accept someone as it is, as no one is perfect right. But i think you do little bit harsh to him caz may be caz of this you lost a good guy.
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No it’s not. I would’ve done the same thing. If he’s going to point out things that he doesn’t like about my appearance then I don’t want him 😌
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I think if he acutally cared about your eye color he wouldn't have been with you in the first place. Guys say stupid shit like that all the time. It definitely is a bit harsh to break up with him cause of that
Yeah so true, guys are actually dumbass sometime
I mean your reaction is a pretty strong one for his comment, which was also an insensitive comment. If he thinks you would be attractive for having blue eyes, that's his opinion, you could tell him he would be more attractive if he liked your brown eyes. :P
You guys need to grow up and be more patient with each other. Now if he's calling you, and you've determined that you don't want him, just tell him he could find a blue eyed girl.
You don't have to love everything about your partner to want to be with them but after having black guys low key say that I'm pretty for a black girl and having a incel tell me they don't like nappy hair, I can't blame you.
That's so rude when they say that. Pretty for a black girl. Wtf does that even mean... My ex slapped this guy for saying that to me, and I'm high yellow so imagine , it's just a dumb thing to say.
No, because tomorrow if he sees a equally hot girl and she happens to have blue eyes he will end things with you in a heartbeat and pursue the other girl
If he constantly reminds you that he doesn't like your eyes then yiu shoudnt be with someone who makes you feel bad about your features. But if he said it a few times and is truly sorry then you should forgive him
Nah, a boyfriend doesn’t tell his girlfriend even once that he doesn’t like her eyes
I think it's harsh that he straight up told you he doesn't like your eye color, what an ass, good decision dumping him, you can do better than him.
“ I dream of our blue eyed babies “
Yeah I think the whole world heard that before 🤨
.. good riddance
Haven't read the full question, but did read the title. If a relationship brakes up because of eyecolor I don't thi k that the relationship was to strong to begin with
Still trolling I see, and over a pair of eyes. That has to be one of your dumbest troll yet. Maybe just wear a pair of colored contacts, problem solved.
that's very harsh reaction , cuz if that was someone who really you care about that will be okay if he critics you , u just find a reason to break up with him, poor guy , he just give you his point , he is not a dumb person he have taste , he don't say YES for all what you have and say, , that's weird , i mean a real couple it's not a perfect match between 2 perfect gender come on , may he don't like your eyes but he like you for WHAT YOU ARE , ,
Sounds like he just want your body to me, you have to be sure! It wasn’t harsh it will be stupid to take him back if he hasn’t learnt his lesson. Sounds like a boy who was carried away with ignorance, he might have mention kids but he may just want your body. So it’s up to you , you can take him back but don’t ever tolerate disrespect for any reason. “If you weren’t hot your eyes would be a deal breaker”
It’s clear what that means so look within not outer
you say - you like your brown eyes and would not exchange them for anything else? you can't anyway for your eyeballs are the color that they are naturally unless you go for an eyeball transplant , duh
I wouldn't think so. Negative commentary in regards to physical attributes that cannot be changed is degrading and can be demoralizong if continuous. You're only keeping your own personal mentality safe in the long run.
You did fine. It was an idiotic thing to say on his part, and why you want to be someone who thinks like that? Now he's crying, but it' too late.
Yeah, I agree. It was really insensitive.
oh waw the kids thing, yeah nah I'd dump too hahaha
It was harsh give him a chance.
He has a unrealistic vision and correct me if I'm wrong but I don't think 2blue eyed parents will just make blued eyed kids.
I don’t agree with either of you. But it sounds like you could both do better. Find yourself a nice fella who likes you for you and vice versa!
Well, now you mention it... given eyes is something you look at a lot I'd say actually yes this one on a rare occasion is acceptable why if he doesn't like the fundamental aspect of love intimacy did he date you. So i'd say this one weird.
Ig, may he is just sharing his openien but yoi take it so seriously, well its great when we accept someone as it is, as no one is perfect right. But i think you do little bit harsh to him caz may be caz of this you lost a good guy.
No it’s not. I would’ve done the same thing. If he’s going to point out things that he doesn’t like about my appearance then I don’t want him 😌