How old were you for your first kiss? Whats the story?

[Anonymous]

For me I was 24 (Well, it was only a few days ago) and I've been e-dating this girl for a few months. We finally managed to meet up though, and it was a wonderful day. Food, drinks, Ice cream and walking around a small town (Not much to do considering covid) At a point we were just by our cars chilling and looking out over the town. Soon we ended up in the back of my car, where she decided to try kissing me. First on the forehead, then on the cheeks, then on the lips. Then we began making out. (Well, we were for a few min up until someone tried getting a show. But we moved elsewhere and continued and went a bit further)

[Cherokeehp]

I was 16. I was on a class field trip to NYC. I sat next to my best friend on the tour bus and my crush sat behind us. My crush knew my best friend secretly liked me. My crush whispered in my friends ear, “I know you like her, if you don’t kiss her by 9pm I’m gonna do it instead.” I wasn’t aware of this conversation at the time. So I spent the day in New York hanging out with my friend and playing around with my crush. It was a fun day. Then we got back on the bus to go home. I was talking to my crush for a moment and I guess the clock struck 9pm and all of a sudden the says “I want to kiss you rn” and leans into kiss me. I was terrified and so I pulled away, but then in a split second I remembered that this is my crush and that I want to kiss him. So I leaned forward and kissed him on his forehead. He complained that I had given him a grandma kiss so I felt embarrassed. I turned away cause I felt stupid after that. A few minutes later I felt him tapping me on the shoulder and when I turned he kissed me without warning. I remember thinking about how warm and soft and surprisingly gross and slobbery it was, but at that time it was the most amazing feeling I had ever felt. He left a whole bunch of slobber on my lips, but I was like too excited to care.

[Anonymous]

I was 19, and it was my first "official" date with my now boyfriend of almost four years. We had hung out a couple times prior since before we had never even talked. He was a friend of a friend situation, i saw him and thought he was cute, added him on Facebook and we started talking. Anyway, after we hung out he took me on our first date. We saw Logan in the movie theater and then had taco bell (I'd never had taco bell before which he knew, so for me this was actually a treat lol)

Anyway he dropped me off at home and didn't kiss me at first. It started raining, and about 10 minutes later he texted me and apologized for not kissing me, he said he wasn't used to dating (before he'd pretty much been a one night stand kinda guy) I said something along the lines of "of it's fine" , and he replied "no, you wanted one, I'm turning around right now'
And then he drove all the way back to my house and I walked out to his car and kissed him in the rain. So it wasn't all romantic but also kind of was?

[Asker]

Nah, very romantic. In like a cheesy Teenage RomCom sorta way

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly it was the night I decided I wanted him lol, and I mean it's worked out. Like we've been together nearly four years and come next year we're gonna get a house together i just got lucky 😊

[Asker]

Sometimes love finds you in the weirdest ways. I met my girlfriend randomly on reddit in Mid-April. Sure we haven't been together for long, but still

[Opinion Owner]

Lots of people meet online now though, i mean just look at tinder. I mean I get that's not exactly the same, but if people can hook up why not find love? Do you guys see each other much?

[Asker]

Well, we are effectively in an LDR right now. Took 4 months for us to finally see eachother in person (Which is where my first kiss happened)

But we are planning to see eachother monthly.

But I guess a lot meet online,. but typically you are explicitly looking. Neither of us were, but that first night we fell for eachother basically

[Opinion Owner]

sometimes it happens that way! I used to know a guy, most people thought he was a little odd. ridiculously nice guy, but obsessed with animals which I don't know people around here just don't usually get into it. But he likedmto dress up and go to co-pays and everything, which was all good and cool, henhad a passion, well he met this other complainer online (and she's actually really pretty! Like she does this Anna Cosplay from frozen that I am just all about) well he lived in Tennessee, she lived all the way and Florida but they made it work. Finally he actually ended up quitting his job at our workplace and moving down there to be with her. Years later they're still together and always posting their latest cosplayes on face book and it's literally goals and the most adorable thing I've ever seen

[Asker]

Some times it does! I really wonder where it will go with us, though I know it will bring me to crazy corners of the world I would have never dreamed of going too. But yeaaa. Im happy I found her, just seem to click on another level, even though nether of us were explicitly looking for a partner when I posted on Reddit or her replyiing to me. (She almost didn't reply, and I almost did the same to her. But welp)

[Anonymous]

I was 17. It was so romantic.

I was at a metal concert with this girl I liked and her friends, all girls. She ended up kissing this other guy who eventually became her boyfriend.

I was kind of pissed off about that, and for the rest of the night I was hanging with her friends I'd just met. They were cool anyway.

One of them was drunk, and she was telling me that she'd just found out her boyfriend had cheated on her. I told her he was obviously a dickhead, that she should get rid of him and that she's gorgeous. She looked just like Katy Perry.

Later on, I'm with one of he other girls. The girl I like comes over and she's like "Jess wants to kiss you" and I'm like "no". The girl is hot but she's like a whole head taller than me, is drunk, just got cheated on, upset etc. Anyway she just comes out of nowhere, grabs me and kisses me. I literally saw this girl laughing at us because we looked so awkward. I didn't care though because she was hot.

I get her number and the next day we're texting, she wants to see me again that day. I meet her again and she's stand-offish, and then she's telling me she's back with the other guy. Gutted.

I ended up being fwbs with her for a bit about a year later though.

[ThiccBoai]

My first kiss is a bit weird haha. I was hanging out with 2 girls. One was a friend of mine, she was lesbian, the other one is still a mystery to me. She was also there and I knew her kinda from school bit that was about it.

We started drinking and started playing truth or dare. We started innocent, nut worked our way up. After a while it came down to give this person a kiss, which went to kiss with her.

At that moment I had my first kiss with my lesbian friend. It was really nice.

Shortly afterwards however started the other girl tickeling her. That was fine at first until she told her to stop when she didn't. Then she had an epileptic episode. She kept telling me to call the ambulance even tho I knew what to do so that was my first "911" story as well (it's 112 in the netherlands).

[OlderAndWiser]

My first kiss: 1964! ↗

[Anonymous]

I was 16 and my friend was having a Halloween party. Nothing massive, but there were 6 of us. She invited her boyfriend, me, another girl, her best guy friend... and her ex...
Horror films scare me so I was happy hiding under my blanket mainly.
But less go to the problem of my mate's ex... he and my mate had dated for years and broke up for something I can't remember, but I didn't like him anyway. I'd been in his tutor since I was 11 and honestly he was a prick and I dont know why she dated him.
Clearly he didn't expect that my mate was going to invite her new boyfriend and they were making out on the other sofa, so in his moment of jealousy he got my attention away from the tv as he was sat next to me (there was no other space) and kissed me... it was gross, and made me feel sick... then again, that sums him up as a person.
I didn't know what to do, I was in shock and he left shortly after, and my mate took me in the kitchen to tell me she would be ok if we dated... I just let loose then how pissed I was as that was none consentual and if I see him again I'm going to punch him in his rat like face...

[SueShe]

See my reply to a very similar question asked just a few hours ago.

My reply applies to your question as well since there are great similitudes between both of them.

How Did You Learn How To KISS?

[ineedatan]

13 years old. The guy I was crushing on had come to tell me he wanted to walk me home, then rumors went rampid with friends telling me he was going to kiss me - so there was a posse of our friends trailing us home which made things incredibly awkward with that pressure on our backs. He pulled me in and kissed me on the cheek which caused quite a bit of chatter among our friends, to where he told them to buzz off and take another path. I had a ravine/trail by my area which we walked though and we just sat on the grass chatting and killing time - he had moved in to kiss me but I had moved my head causing him to kiss my nose to where we both ended up laughing and me telling him to let's hold off on it. He was damn persistent though, cause before we reached my house he kissed me out on the street - I didn't expect it, so though it was awkward at first and caught me off guard - it was a special moment.

[KeziL]

I was 17 and we were on a school club trip in the mountains, staying in a hotel. We'd just gotten back to the hotel from an event that night and we'd never talked before that day but we'd hung out at the event all night. Anyways, a bunch of us were chilling in one of the rooms and the guy and I slipped out to the balcony for a second to talk and look out at the town. We got quiet and he turned to me and I knew what that look meant and I didn't move, just let him kiss me. I guess he was trying to make out but that was my first kiss and I didn't know how long it was supposed to last so I kept pulling away. It was a little strange because his lips were cold from being outside (it was chilly there) but it wasn't bad. We kissed a little more in the elevator but then that was it. I didn't really end up talking to him again after that, I didn't know what to say and I felt kinda strange about it, but all things considered I think the circumstances were cute.

[Hitchhiker42]

We were both 17 and were just friends at the time but we both had crushes on each other (neither of us had a clue). We had planned on taking acid and then hiking up a mountain with some friends but the acid didn’t work and the friends didn’t show up so we decided to drink a little and go on our own. It was raining and we kept falling in the mud and getting lost on the wrong trails but we had so much fun. When we got to the summit of the mountain we huddled under a rock together and listened to some music. I was about to tell him that I liked him and he asks “do you want to kiss and get it over with?” (Which sounds bad and we always made fun of him for it, but in his defense we had been talking about how we’d never kissed anyone earlier on the hike.) We kissed for what felt like hours and we were REALLY bad at it- we clashed teeth and I walked away with a fat lip 😂 He was my first boyfriend and we were together for over 2 years

[Miristheiss]

Mmmm, about 8 or 9 I think.

Basically the older teenagers in my neighborhood, for their own amusement, came upon me, a friend of mine and one of the teenagers little sister, who was about our age and us three little kids were hanging out together.

The bigger kids then kind of peer pressured us into taking turns kissing the sister. Then they asked if we knew about french kissing and told us what that was and had us do that too. It was quite gross to me at that age.

They all seemed to get a kick out of making us do stuff.

First boyfriend/girlfriend kiss was 11 or 12, just some innocent pecks to my puppy love girlfriend at the time.

First dating make out... not until my senior year in high school.

[Dnice1]

I was 20, he and I just literally officially started dating and he said you know what that means right after I said I'd be his girlfriend. I knew what was coming but I was too nervous to say. So we walked over to the bench in my front porch and say there. He then said you've been kissed on the forehead but not on lips and I nervously laughed and said no. He then over to me but I still nervously faced forward. He reached hand over to my cheek and pulled me in and kissed me right then in there. It felt wonderful! 😊

[Hitchhiker42]

That’s so cute

[curiouscuriouser]

I think I was 14 at the time but my first love starts around 11 or 12 years of age. When I was 14 I made out and touched a girl all over and she was so into it that she came over my house and asked me out the next day but I was struggling with depression at the time so it wasn't until much later at 24 that I had a full relationship. Bullying and abuse is no joke it really fucks up your life. The girl who I fell in love with at 11 or 12 was 1 year younger than me and she also feel in love with me. I kind of rejected her due to my personal issues but but till this day she kept in touch and has continually expressed interest in me. I think my earliest kiss is from that time but was just a peck.

[bebecitaaa]

I was 16, almost 17. I went to a church dance and there was a cute guy who had asked me to dance and ended up dancing and talking with me all night. At the end of the night he walked me to my truck, holding my hand. We lowered the tailgate and sat and talked a moment longer when we closed it up and he walked me over to my door and opened it for me and gave me a hug. as we pulled away from each other he leaned in once again and gave me a gentle kiss, hugged me once again and went to leave with his friends.

To be honest i kind of had thought it was a dream and wasn't even sure it had really happened until a few days later I went to a church activity and one of the girls who went to school with him came and asked me about it. I was so surprised all i said was "That was real?" and walked away laughing my head off.

[blondfrog]

Don't remind me. Worst decisions I have ever made in my entire life. I wish I would have waited for the right person. I regret it everyday and every once in a while the very thought of it pops into my mind. I get disgusted chills remembering it. It almost feels like a nightmare. I am seriously not even exaggerating. Hook ups are a waste of time and so is kissing if you don't love the person. Life is too short to settle for less and be with someone who only makes you somewhat happy. You shouldn't even kiss the person unless you truly love them.

[MathewBWC]

I was at a party, 16 years old, drinking beer and sitting by a campfire.
A girl from my science class sat down beside me. She rested her head on my shoulder and she started talking about her family.
the next thing I knew she started kissing me.
I was surprised, I didn't even know she liked me.

[Asker]

Anything happen with her going forward?

[MathewBWC]

After that we went inside and rested together on a couch.
We kissed a little bit more.
She was actually going out with another classmate of mine at the time so the whole situation was extra bizarre for me.
I was never really into her. I liked her butt, however she was very whiney and just not my type at all.
The next morning I called her and said that we should just be friends.
After that she always made a point of making out with her boyfriend in front of me so I could see. LoL!
I couldn't care less though, it was weird.
But yeah, she was my very first kiss whether I wanted it or not.
It was a shock to me, but I just went with it.
No regrets.

[Asker]

Ahhhh, just a dumb situation them. could be worse, but probably have been so much better too.

[Neko911]

It was maybe 4 days b4 my 18th bday and his 17th (we have the same bday) and he asked me 2 stay after school when he found out I liked him. So I did and he was sorta an aggressive guy, kept grabbing me and trying 2 kiss me. Which I didn't want because I was scared at the time. But at some point he managed 2 and it was pretty awful. Fast forward 2 our bday and I found out he was dating another girl just that fast

[Asker]

Yea... Probably for the best it never went anywhere. Seems like he'd be the type to force himself and do more to you than just that

[Neko911]

He sorta did when we met again like 3 or 4 years later. Yes also how I lost my virginity

[Asker]

Awww. Im sorry. I really am.

Basically the same story with my girlfriend.. Except was younger, at like 15...

[Neko911]

It's fine. I have shit luck with dudes lol

[Asker]

Ahhh. I see.

Ever have decent luck with a guy?

[Neko911]

One really. My best friend from childhood who I dated mostly till I was lile 16. But he passed away the year I graduated high school sadly

[Asker]

Aww. I really am sorry. Sounds like he was a great guy

[Neko911]

He really was

[bigmisssunshine]

I was 17. It was the first time he came over to my house. We sat on the couch to chat a little and he pecked my cheek. I turned my head and then a peck on the lips. Then we started making out a little but I remember feeling weird about that. Like thinking “Is this what the fuzz is all about? If this is kissing I don’t like it”. 😂 Especially when he started kissing with tongue it was so weird

[Lliam]

I might have been 14. There was a school retreat and one night a group of guys and girls played spin the bottle. When the bottle pointed at me I stood up and a girl stood up and kissed me. She obviously had experience. I didn't. She parted her lips and tried to extend her tongue, but my jaw was closed and her tongue encountered my teeth.
Well, lesson learned. The next time I kissed a girl, I did it right. LOL

[bobalife]

Maybe 19 or 20? Lol. There was a guy who I considered my first love at the time. We talked for months. One day we were sitting together and talking. I usually get shy around guys I really like, so I was pretty flustered around him. He kissed my cheek and asked me to kissed his cheek. As I was going for his cheek... he turned his face and kissed my lips. I was so shocked and shy at the time haha. Looking back, it was cute.

[Alfleria]

When I was 15 I guess. I confess to this guy because I lost in a truth or dare game. I didn’t expect that he will say yes. Anyway, we were together for 6 months before he kissed me for the first time. And since he’s my first boyfriend, that also mean my first kiss. It was in the middle of the road with no one else but us. Kinda awkward but makes me feel happy at that time..

[lilyanony1]

I was 15 my cousin invited her friends over omg there was this hot Indian guy in the group (he was basically black, raised by black people) anyways the moment we locked eyes it was infinite that something was going to happen between us.
We stayed up together until 5am everyone mostly asleep but we kissed constantly on this one armchair me sat on his lap.
With hindsight that's not how I saw my first kiss happening but I really liked him. He spent a lot of that summer kissing together

[JPrez]

I was 14 and there was a girl in my class that was a bit more developed than the other girls in my class and also a bit more experienced. Most of my buddies had her as their girlfriend for a short while and I took my turn. We were hanging at my friends house on his couch and she surprised me with a kiss then started moving her tongue around and I was like WTF? Then I figured things out and responded. Great experience.

[cc-catlady]

I was 18. The opposite of what should be romantic when you get your first kiss ever. It happened at a collebe party by this drunk 21 year old who wanted to go further with me in the bedroom, i was c already shocked and offcaughr to have my first kiss from him and not my boyfriend when I get one with the right timing. Im someone who cares that much to ask "if i was a good kisser?" He told me "I got the right built to be one, just need to practice".