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How long does the feelings usually last?
@Hshsjsjsjs For me? Once I'm in, I'm in.
Wowz. Is it love at first sight or does it takes time for you to caught feelings for someone?
@Hshsjsjsjs I very, very rarely experience love at first sight emotions lol. What usually happens is I might have a basic interest in a girl in the beginning, even if we are just talking or maybe hanging out sometimes. And then eventually I'll start developing a silent yet blazing affection for her where I'm just hooked and can't care or think about anyone else but her.
That’s my boyfriend. He’s well and truly in despite my bad attitude sometimes.
Maybe she's scared of beeing alone.
I know she is, on a level. She was desperate to break from her controlling parents and ended up in a controlling relationship with cycles of abuse, but she falls for 90% of guys she meets. I'm a firm believer in needing a break to work on yourself between relationships. But she hasn't given herself that. She is not okay being alone. I hate being single, but she isn't single for long and definitely hasn't taken the time to get over the last relationship before starting a new one.I know what I think I need to work on, I stay single, once I'm comfortable being alone I know I'm ready to try again for a relationship, after I've been okay alone for a minute, of course.
IKR 😂🙄“Catch feelings” I stopped bothering to get annoyed by this long ago bc what’s the point but you just reminded me how dumb I find it I also agree when you think there is a reason to care there is a stringer effort which dan create a stronger connection but that isn’t necessarily romantic nor attachment. Meanwhile there can be overlapping romantic feelings or not. Dependssssss.
@VIVANT The thing is that care, given, provided, when you feel it - does result in life satisfaction. The world is miserable to a large degree because we keep denying care we feel we should be giving, to each other.
But why its guys though? And does those ffelings usually are temporary?
I thought about this a long time since I recognized this. I think guys bind much faster then girls. Girls are more like "is he the right one? I have know everything about him to tell that" and guys are like "she is nice to me, I really like her and she looks beautyful to me". Just a morr simple mind in this case I guess. Doesn't everyone but I think the most :)
Even when she is just being nice?
Almost then. I had the problem when I was younger that girls being nice to me always triggered thoughts like "oh maybe she wants me as boyfriend. Maybe she loves me" or smth like that. Took me some years to make a difference between "the girl is just nice to you, cause she likes you as a friend" and "the girls flirts with you and maybe wants more". But it also depends how nice the girl acts. Sometimes it's hard to make a diffrence. I know girls that make me feel very good cause they act really nice to me, but they are just friends and want me (as a friend) to feel good and nothing more
Yes, but I think once a man has developed some deep feelings, then he is not likely to change his mind about her.
@giselleprettygirl I'll go with that - it just a while to get through to their (the guys) deeper parts!
Yes!! But once there, it sticks with him.
Am I supposed to read your comments in a Russian accent?
@TienShenhan No, but you can of course :)
Fine. I will.
@TienShenhan I did as well xD
Aka girls :)
Do girls like you too soon?
Not the ones I like but then again nobody actually likes me for my personality so it doesn't matter anyways.
Do you like any one and are you mean?
It's complicated, I'm not mean I just keep to myself.
Why do guys lose that drama love faster?
@Hshsjsjsjs Routine gets in the way, specially if he is sure you re going no where.
How is it possible though?
@Hshsjsjsjs If I knew, I would explain. I feel it is how it is.I think for one we aren't getting the amount of attention from the opposite sex like the girls do, so we may be more prone to fall faster in love.
So if a girl gives a guy attention, he will easily fall for her?
@Hshsjsjsjs Yeah. This really happens from time to time. Especially when we are starved for female attention.
It sucks to always be hurt
What do you base it on?
@Chris_u006 This is what men say...
Why guys though? And how long does those feelings usually last?
I googled this but I could be wrong. They’ve spent our lives suppressing emotions, men are much more territorial than women, they don’t question their emotions and have their emotions questioned, they haven’t experienced this type of connection before. In 2018 I met this girl for the first time and I only knew 2 things about her. That she was working there because I also work there and her name. She quit in 2019 to continue going to school. This month I told her about those feelings that I had for her in 2018. The feelings that us guys have can last for a week or even for years or probably for the rest of our life
Girls if they slept with the guy.
Guys If he got some sexual experience he never seen before lol like bj he never received before.
Why guys though?
@Hshsjsjsjs Because if she's pretty and she pays attention to us, we get feelings. It's that simple. Especially if she has a lot of guy "friends" and we just want to be important to her in a way more than the other ones.
Wow, from just paying attention? In what ways do you want her to pay attention?
@Hshsjsjsjs Males basically never get female attention, at least not special female attention. So really, anything. Anything that makes him feel special is going to go a long way with him.
Wowz. In what ways the girl can make him feel special though if they aren't close?
@Hshsjsjsjs She should get close. That's the point.
What if the girl asks for the guy's help? Would he considered that as giving him attention?
@Hshsjsjsjs Ehh. Maybe a bit. Not much though. That's a pretty weak way of doing it, but it's something at least, I guess.
@Hshsjsjsjs 99% of us guys are driven by lust, once we find a pretty looking girl, feelings do kick in and we make a move.The feelings are jist way too high to be controlled sometimes.
Wowz. What do you mean by those feelings are way too high?
@Hshsjsjsjs hhhhh it is like some sort of force which engulfs some of us lol.That is why once he makes a move on yu n says how much he loves you n you fall for it, n within a few days he is like "let us call it off" then know t was just mere feelings powered up by lust.