Why engineering guys are always busy?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Because it is a shitload of work. He will likely have to do 60h a week and if he wants to stay healthy he also has to work out 1-2h/day.
He may also have some personal interests that he does not want to completely sacrifice to a relationship/dating.
Beware if he as any friends - he will hardly have any time left, then.

[Asker]

hmm.. my crush, when I asked about his work. he really likes to talk about it. and month by month we start to talk less

[blondfrog]

Haha because its a very busy and grueling job. One of the hardest jobs I've ever had. The company I was working for I had to do both. Help desk and engineering for a robotics company that made autonomous robots. Even if you know what you are doing it takes up a lot of time and its very tiring.

[Asker]

so no time to deal a woman who want to flirt? 😂

[blondfrog]

That probably explains why so many are single lol. I dont do that job profession anymore , but its taxing. I guess it depends on the guy too. He might just not be interested who knows.

[Asker]

hmm :(

[blondfrog]

If you really like someone you make time right? Think about it.

[Asker]

🙁 ages ago, a guy who would make time. for me no matter what... he ended up rejected my confession.

[blondfrog]

What do you mean rejected your confession?

[Asker]

I told him that I liked him , but he rejected my feelings in bad way

[blondfrog]

That's the game my friend. It's a bitter pill to swallow but swallow it you must. So sorry, but you know you have to move on sweet heart.

[Asker]

I already moved on from the who rejected me

[blondfrog]

That's good.

[JackSmy]

They are ENGINEERS!! THAT IS WHAT THEY DO!! Solve problems, and the Gods know, there are myriad problems to solve!!

[Asker]

really?

[Dougzy]

Because engineering is a science, requires a number of phases to get a solution. Then there are the skills required to implement that solution then tests that solution. Not really the same as other roles.

[Asker]

so their life isn't fun? always busy with work? like a doctor?

[Dougzy]

Well does your kettle make you laugth

[wankiam]

you can't engineer at a desk from home so there's a lot of catching up to do post lockdown... maybe

[Asker]

no more lockdown in some countries

[wankiam]

exactly but while engineers were at home doing nothing the work load piled up so many are now busier than ever

[Asker]

I guess... :/ but some live in their company. so they could do work non stop

[wankiam]

well i could only answer you in a general sense as you gave absolutely no context in regard to any individual person you were refering to

[Asker]

I don't know how to tell in detail..

[wankiam]

is he a boyfriend... are you on lockdown, what field of engineering is he in and did you see him a lot before? that would be a start to try to help you through understanding the situation you find yourself in

[Asker]

he's not my boyfriend. I met him from gag. we were video call quite often, now less and less. and he's in mining field.

[wankiam]

well could be one of two things... either he really is busy or he has lost interest and doesn't know how to tell you but really you should just ask him straight

[Asker]

I did ask him straight if he no longer want to talk to me.. but he doesn't answer that. and he told me that he's quite busy.

[wankiam]

well all you can do for now is take him at his word then but if it goes on much longer you would be well within your rights to move on... i mean how long do you want to be left hanging on?

[Asker]

I don't know how long.. :/

[wankiam]

well not too long because if he was serious he would try to make more time for you or at least explain fully how he likes you but is just really busy right now

[Asker]

yeah. you're right :(

[AmeerX]

Umm because they are doing work most of the time. Their work is mostly continuous

[COMMODOREII]

Because we are addicted to the engineering. Lol

[Asker]

:) really?

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah lol

[Asker]

are they always working until late?

[COMMODOREII]

I know my friend is brwathing it lol

[COMMODOREII]

*breathing

[Asker]

I don't get it

[QuietRunner]

you mean with classwork or work, work?

[Asker]

WORK

[QuietRunner]

lots of projects deadlines things to complete

[Asker]

so no time to spend a lot of time for someone?

[QuietRunner]

not sure, might depend on the timelines

[Asker]

is it a tiring work?

[QuietRunner]

it can be

[mich15smith]

what country are you from?

[KrakenAttackin]

Because you have to bust your ass.

[Asker]

and they don't have time for other things?

[jack76121]

I think you are from INDIA.

[Daniel3035]

Wouldn't you girls like to know.

[Tslav_]

Probably engineering something

[es20490446e]

Cause it's fun!

[amharicbby]

Dey got a lot to do