Does having walks by the side of a man who's interested counts as a date? If it doesn't count I have never dated a man, and I'm in my late 20's. Why? Well, I'm a student who also works and always focused in prioritizing my education. I have friends who are married, have kids, and look more "adult" than me. What can I saw? My college career has protected (or repelled) men from me? I'm also christian and thesedays I haven't seen that much guys who are as well and have faith in their spirits. Also I dont follow trends, I'm aware my style choices are a bit "old school". I'm still having hopes and trusting God has someone for me.
I haven't found the right person for me yet. But then again until I work on myself and learn to support myself it wouldn't be feasible to date someone and look after them
I have had a lot of LDRs when I was a bit younger, I've had more LDRs than I have had real-life relationships, I shit you not, I've had maybe a couple of IRL relationship when in high school but it lasted not even a week so I stopped dating and continued dating online. I dated someone LDR for about a year off and on. I'm not the type to ask people on dates and I was like this in high school, I didn't have a lot of confidence back then and I was a reserved quiet kid back then, and I kept to myself and had only a few friends mainly because I hated school and the people in my school. I also wasn't the type of guy to admit my feelings as I kept those feelings to myself. Dating isn't for me right now.
Oh and one more thing, girls never showed interest in me in high school and even now, they also never asked me out so I didn't show interest. I was always at home doing my own thing, I never went to anyone's house, nothing like that. I was pretty sheltered you could say. Never had a lot of interaction with other people my age but I had a few good friends, but I didn't have many female friends, which didn't bother me.
Well the main thing is I'm busy with college and not just college, I have a habit of taking up a lot of work cause I like doing it, so I don't generally have time for dating. Plus I'm not really interested in dating rn.
Social anxiety and I'm at a point in my life where I feel like I should really change what I'm doing with myself before I reopen my online dating account.
I would love to date a girl, It's just that girls never stay for long. I am than ready to settle down. But I guess I need to try harder to keep her. No, I have not been single till now, but no previous relationship was that serious.
i'm recently of an ugly breakup, and i have ocd, ptsd and depression that is hindering me from most social contact. i'm also poor and live with my parents, so i'm not desirable. i'll wait a while.
I've only been on one date, but the reason I haven't been on more falls under answers B (with work), C, with a little bit of D & E as well. There's a number of reasons. Plus, I haven't met anybody lately that I'd really want to date.
It's just not worth it for me. The women i want don't want me. The women that seem to want me i don't want. Quite frankly there's nothing a woman can do for me that i can't do for myself. Sorry not sorry.
I'm not in my 20s, but for them, it is the property prices/living with parents/meaningless insecure jobs (so can't take a date home - and even if they could, they couldn't afford to live together or start a family - so why bother to just long for someone - that you can do without going out together) Most are ashamed of their... personal infrastructure, let's call it
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Does having walks by the side of a man who's interested counts as a date?
If it doesn't count I have never dated a man, and I'm in my late 20's.
Why? Well, I'm a student who also works and always focused in prioritizing my education.
I have friends who are married, have kids, and look more "adult" than me.
What can I saw? My college career has protected (or repelled) men from me?
I'm also christian and thesedays I haven't seen that much guys who are as well and have faith in their spirits.
Also I dont follow trends, I'm aware my style choices are a bit "old school".
I'm still having hopes and trusting God has someone for me.
I voted C, D, E, and F.
and given the situation...
I haven't found the right person for me yet. But then again until I work on myself and learn to support myself it wouldn't be feasible to date someone and look after them
That's true!
I have had a lot of LDRs when I was a bit younger, I've had more LDRs than I have had real-life relationships, I shit you not, I've had maybe a couple of IRL relationship when in high school but it lasted not even a week so I stopped dating and continued dating online. I dated someone LDR for about a year off and on. I'm not the type to ask people on dates and I was like this in high school, I didn't have a lot of confidence back then and I was a reserved quiet kid back then, and I kept to myself and had only a few friends mainly because I hated school and the people in my school. I also wasn't the type of guy to admit my feelings as I kept those feelings to myself. Dating isn't for me right now.
Oh and one more thing, girls never showed interest in me in high school and even now, they also never asked me out so I didn't show interest. I was always at home doing my own thing, I never went to anyone's house, nothing like that. I was pretty sheltered you could say. Never had a lot of interaction with other people my age but I had a few good friends, but I didn't have many female friends, which didn't bother me.
Well the main thing is I'm busy with college and not just college, I have a habit of taking up a lot of work cause I like doing it, so I don't generally have time for dating.
Plus I'm not really interested in dating rn.
I want to date but I’m bitter from some bad past experiences. I try anyway.
I don’t care if I get rejected another 100 times I will find someone worth settling down with.
I'm bitter too man. I am too.
Escorts and cheaper and better than putting in the effort of dating. Don't have to deal with the rejection or other emotional crap.
Social anxiety and I'm at a point in my life where I feel like I should really change what I'm doing with myself before I reopen my online dating account.
I would love to date a girl, It's just that girls never stay for long. I am than ready to settle down. But I guess I need to try harder to keep her. No, I have not been single till now, but no previous relationship was that serious.
i'm recently of an ugly breakup, and i have ocd, ptsd and depression that is hindering me from most social contact. i'm also poor and live with my parents, so i'm not desirable. i'll wait a while.
I've only been on one date, but the reason I haven't been on more falls under answers B (with work), C, with a little bit of D & E as well. There's a number of reasons. Plus, I haven't met anybody lately that I'd really want to date.
No girl even wanted me 🤷♂️
Which is understandable, I'm ugly, I'm stupid and I'm boring.
I once thought all of those things about myself.
I once thought none of these were true. But girls have been pretty clear about it.
They do not all act and think alike.
No specific reason really. It's just that i didn't find the right person for me yet
That's fair.
I guess they have other stuff to do and don't prioritize it
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I think some of the are clueless and others scared.
Rarrrrrr🐗
It's just not worth it for me. The women i want don't want me. The women that seem to want me i don't want.
Quite frankly there's nothing a woman can do for me that i can't do for myself. Sorry not sorry.
That's fair.
When I was 15 I was playing football and involved in All-Star wrestling and I flirted with a lot of girls but I was too shy to finish the deal
I'm not in my 20s, but for them, it is the property prices/living with parents/meaningless insecure jobs (so can't take a date home - and even if they could, they couldn't afford to live together or start a family - so why bother to just long for someone - that you can do without going out together)
Most are ashamed of their... personal infrastructure, let's call it
I had a relationship a long time ago, but haven't dated in a lot of time. It's just too troublesome and gives a lot of headaches, so no thanks lol
Agreed lol
I’m 43.. I look like shrek and smell like onions.. I don’t care about dating
Simply put, I have not found the right girl and I do not like what is on offer.