Do you think pain in rejection can make you move on faster?

[jennifer_bloom]

If rejection didn’t hurt we would never move on

Pain is always bad, even if good things come from it

[idkwattoputhere]

Yea gives that feeling of " ok move on"

[idkwattoputhere]

Thanks

[OlderAndWiser]

Pain is a motivating force!

[RudeBoy718]

Totally agree 👍

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[coachTanthony]

The pain is necessary but needs to be balanced within your psyche.

If you endure too much of it you will never put yourself in a position again to feel that way!

It's the HOT STOVE theory. So make sure you have a healthy mindset, grieve the loss of the relationship and become stronger!

[bobalife]

Depends on how invested I was in with someone and our compatibility. Like a couple months ago I was very timely & emotionally invested in someone with an amazing connection, so when it didn't work out... the heart break is still a process to move on. And then with others where it was short-term interest or flirting, I can move on in no time. Pain/rejection is never fun, but it helps you realized there is a reason it didn't work out and just gotta remember you are amazeeeeballs! I know I am still a catch and want to continue to grow to be the best version of myself for misteruh right when the right time comes. You have to have confidence, know your worth, and keep learning!

[InferiorElegy]

One can only handle so much pain from rejection until they give up completely.

A and B are both correct in my opinion.

In my experience you get rejected it hurts, you move on, get rejected again, then again and again and again and again until it becomes a vicious cycle of torture that's the only consistent thing in your life and it breaks you, you try to continue but you soon find out the pain is no longer emotional, it's now physical, your arm goes numb, you get a stabbing pain in your chest, breathing becomes restricted, you get headaches from the lack of oxygen, you think maybe it was a one time thing so you continue to try and you get rejected a few more times you get rejected, you feel the same pains, your only option left is to just give up completely.

[KenReidCoach]

The pain is mostly caused by our minds. Numbing it with a new person is the worst thing we can do. The pain may make us want to move on faster but the only way to properly deal with it is to sit with it and understand why we feel this way. That may take the help of therapy or a coach who is skilled enough to help you out.

[triff]

Pain is as should be In this case a protection alarm allowing you to identify the cause and get out of there I'd we are talking about affairs of the heart then possibly no Pain gives you the recognition but we have feelings are deep wounds which have to heal at a proper speed so you jump out of the fire unscathed

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I’m going to stay neutral on this one & say it all depends on the person. Some people handle rejection easily & others it might take a life time. As for me life moves on & where one door closes another one will open if you have the guts to walk in.

[TooDrunk4Sex]

dont see need 2 destroy someones ego. maybe not prolong things but there's prob a way thats gonna let them move on faster that dont involve dismembering their soul

[Jjpayne]

I think rejection is simply rejection and the pain that comes from it goes away at our own pace, not always faster, it can be slower

[R3DthatDude]

Pain is a good teacher, even though I like to avoid it. After a certain amount of rejections you’ve experienced then you start not to care, just look to the next

[d1vineb0y]

not when i did. thats why people cry and be sad for days and be depressed

[Alexandrubaschet08]

C. Pain in rejection will never make a person move on.

[Luna1998]

Yes, at least you know that you are not wasting your time with the wrong person

[michael1469]

Everytime inwouod have a breakup, i would end up throwing myself into my work and make a hige stepnij my career. So the only thing i can say about relationships is that i become to comfortable.

[Snakeyes7]

Don’t reject the pain. You need to learn from it and learn to live with what you have now and that is the best way to move on.

[Anonymous]

what worse is when you don't know if she is bad one or not. It has been a year and I still have the same pain. I even lost many teeth to this.

[scooogy]

Well, my indecisive ex made me stay away from girls for years now.

[The_unknown_memer]

If that was the 90 percent of men would be faster than Usain bolt and the flash

[badfurday2020]

Yes will make you hats the person and move on faster.

[SexyAshh]

Not in the least. I wouldn't want to move at all

[Myk13]

No pain, no gain. Right?