Ask him out. If he declines with some excuses or leaves it vague, he is stringing you along.
I was just stringed along big time and I fell for it like a 15 year old girl. I'm ashamed to talk about it basically, but I met this guy on a dating app and he was from another country. I visit his city often that's why I gave it a shot in chatting, otherwise I wouldn't bother. Anyway we texted and video chatted for more then a month every single day all day basically. It was mostly he who initiated everything; all the good morning, goodnight texts, all the sweet and caring hows your day, to very deep and serious conversations. We both opened up to each other deeply, and we also flirted. He told me that he is looking for a relationship and that if we click well he is up for doing LDR in the beginning. He basically told me everything I wanted to hear. And he was so consistent with keeping up the communication, often times I wondered if he even has a life. But he updated me every day about his day, from work to grocery shopping and friends, til going to bed, all via video calls. I felt special, I thought he must really like me then. So fell for him too, however ridiculous that sounded since we didn't even meet yet. It was all good until I came there and he practically ghosted me. He said he was busy and going through some stuff, that he will get back to me in few days. I waited for a week, nothing. I got back home and never heard back from him.
I learned a valuable lesson: texting means NOTHING. And I am never texting with a man ever again, unless he is my boyfriend. I learned that when a man is interested he will make an effort to plan the date as soon as possible! He will hurry to snatch you before someone else does. And he will not be busy, he will cancel other plans for you. I still have no idea what was this guy thinking, but I think he just enjoyed talking online and didn't mind putting time and effort into that. But only that. I guess that's his fix and that's exactly what he's gonna do with next girl as well.
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