Do guys talk about girls like girls talk about guys?

[JasonQ]

Do guys talk about girls like girls talk about guys? ...

[Citizenkirk]

Both guys and girls have social rules and boundaries within their respective locker room, or girl heard of girls crosstalk, that are set differently by their gender social conventional Network, or whatever you want to call it, where guys may use far more colorful language in their critiques of the opposite gender and completely fail at their the content of that language, in being anywhere near as disgusting, hurtful, or judgmental, of either gender, as the milder, but more toxic critiques that women are capable, and well practiced in using.
Both gender groups tend to be far more harsh in their judgment of members of their own gender than they are of the opposite gender, but guys can use harsher nastier more offensive language in describing a young person of the opposite gender but not be serious about a young girl being offensive in the way that a group of ladies can be about a young man based on inappropriate behavior.
the language that comes out of a group of guys mouth concerning a young girl of questionable repute may sound toxic but the inflections in the way they imply their statements suggest more of a joking or humorous manner of being critical of that young girl's behavior without actually seriously accusing them of being certain words that they might use. Basically guys are kind of hypocrites in that area and it's a one area that's good to be hypocrite and where you can imply or use language that says that someone might be a certain way but you don't actually see it in a way that is convincing if you do well that tends to be a large percentage of people who don't survive making very serious accusations about young girls as opposed to women who can cut a guy down to the bone with their words and very much mean that be meaning them but women are more likely to kill each other than they are to kill a guy that actually deserves that outcome where a guy more likely kill another guy for suggesting such an action than they would be okay with standing inside and letting them do whatever offensive thing that they think about doing.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that the need to be a gentleman is hard-wired into every meal even if an lifetime experience of abuse and betrayal is taught a guy to be callous and hardens toward any type of pasta feelings.
Females seem to show an unyielding desire and capacity for kindness but if you've seen ladies do that kind of things I've seen them do bar fights or at Denny's when they're drunk the level of violence I've seen these women do to each other exceed anything that guys would usually do to each other or to a woman guys will be to crap out of each other if that's all takes to put them down when girls are in the same type of discussion with each other they seem to be content with nothing less than murder I know because I've had to mop up a lot of blood from such altercations between women.

[Kiss_Me]

I had two sisters. TRUST me... girls talk way more than guys.
A guy may brag to his friends about having sex with a girl by saying, "Yep, I finally sex with Jane. I invited her over to my place to watch a movie and ended up in bed."

A girl, however, would say this. "Oh gir, l... Bob and I had sex. He was wearing this... and smelled like that... he kissed me like this... he was this big, and we did it in these positions... for this long... I had monster orgasms on down stroke 73...245... and 713."

Girls give DETAILS.

[Anonymous]

Talked about this with two guys before. One a friend the other my boyfriend. I don't know how honest they were but these are my conclusions:
I concluded that guys talk more about girls they’re dating when they’re having an issue. (They have that in common with girls I think.)
One other thing is that they don’t go that deep when talking about girls, more like, yea she’s a nice girl. Or she looks good/hot, heard that one before haha
But I’m not a guy so maybe a guy can give a better answer :p

[19magic]

Nah guys tend to state facts and how good/bad a girl looks and that's it, whereas girls go into details about the whole night and the what happened, how, when, how many times, positions, what was it like, did he then say anything to you,

Girls definitely talk more than guys lol

[MrOracle]

That's my experience as well.

[likelyOK]

I don’t know what guys say but that is definitely what girl do.

[Vviiccttoorr]

I mean if I’m being real; my friend and I talk about girls in more detail than that. Sure sometimes we’ll see a girl and think she’s cute and move on but At times we’ll talk about the type of girl we’d like to have and talk about wanting a future with the right girl one day. It’s not so black and white with all guys.

[19magic]

Thanks for the mho

[Vviiccttoorr]

I got you; make sure to watch out for jerk guys though. The whole “I love you” guy and then wants to sleep with you that night... no, don’t go with that guy. For all the ladies Find a guy who truly respects you and to find out if he is that type of guy is to talk to him for awhile I. e. weeks, months, or more

[Vviiccttoorr]

Me and my friend will sometimes think a girl is cute or hot and move on but we do go into detail as to what kind of girl we want to marry one day and not the “I just had sex with 2 girls the other night” type of guy. It really depends on the guy because, there are dicks like that who do that sadly but, there are genuinely great guys that sometimes get overlooked by women because, those same guys will sometimes not go up all confidently as a jerk would. As to all the ladies, if you want a truly good guy then spend time and really get to know him because, (if I’m not mistaken) there are the girls who fall for the “I love you guy” and “you’re the one for me” type of guy who then is down to sleep with you that very night... find the guy who likes you for you and spend time with him and I don’t mean just one day and decide to sleep with him; I mean spend time with a guy and give some shy guys a chance because, shy guys tend to be the most genuine. Of course it’s not guaranteed but if I’m not mistaken shy guys tend to be great guys. Please do not confuse confidence with Arrogance and alpha male with asshole. Also if a woman approaches the guy it’s actually pretty attractive of her to do that in my opinion. In short though it does depend on the guy but, there are guys who do talk about women the way women talk about guys.

[Kaazsz]

I worked with 99% girls for a few years. Yes we both talk about the other sex. But in different ways.


Guys talk about how sexy girls are, if we would fuck them or not.


Girls talk about the same thing but much more detail. And girls squeal and get very excited and act crazy. Whereas guys are more relaxed.


Guys will stand around and just nod their head in a direction and we all know to look cuz there’s a sexy woman to look at.


Girls wait until he’s gone and then they chatter like squirrels about the guy.

[Kaazsz]

Girls talk about how they want the guy to grab her throat, choke her, pull her hair, spank her, beat her, piss on her. Depends on the girls own preference. They seem to be open about that kind of stuff. If one girl likes getting pissed on the other girls don’t shame her for it.

But yea I’ve heard them get nasty as fuck.

But I first learned that in the military. We had a group of females across the way in my basic training. We could hear their common room from our closet. So we listened to them say the nastiest shit about our drill instructors. How they wanted the guys to beat the fuck out of them and fuck them rough. How they wish he would get angry and rape
Them. Lol. That’s the shit they be hiding from us guys. That’s why I’m a freak now because I learned straight from the horses mouth what it likes to eat. Domination and pain lol.

Guys don’t talk like that. We don’t talk about how we wanna choke the girl and pull her hair. We talk about how sexy her body is and shit like that. Where she rates on a scale of 1-10. If she’s dating material or just fuck meat material.

I think most guys don’t even know that women are into that kinky shit like that. And the girls definitely know it. And the girls are sad about it too. They wish so hard to be dominated and they talk about how their boyfriends don’t have a clue.

Whenever some hot guy comes around they’re like “omfg I wish he would spank me with a belt and make me cry.” Like damn lol.

[maria2716]

hahaha this is so funny, best comments ever lol😂

[Finchie40]

A guy is straight to the point if he likes a girl , he will tell his friends that she is beautiful or hot and that he wants her , Girls pretty much do the same but she will go into more detail of it , saying he has a great personality , he’s a hard worker , he dresses nice , etc but girls can be raunchy as well talking about his Dick and how he fucked her , where a guy just plain out says I fucked the shit out of her and she was awesome , when a guy really likes the girl he won’t give to much detail , A girl gives a shit ton of details lol

[Bananaman177]

I've heard the way men talk about women when they think no one is listening and I've also heard the way women talk about men when they think no one's listening and to me, there was a real clear difference:

Men have way more respect and speak much more humanely about women, including women they put down! Even when men are being insulting or demeaning, they still have more respect for women than women have for men.

That's from my experience listening in on private conversations at a restaurant for a year as a waiter. Women don't even pretend to give a damn about men as anything more than a tool to be used and discarded.

The way women casually talk about men amongst themselves is much more insulting and degrading than anything a man could even think up to say to hurt a woman's feelings if he was trying. "Locker room talk" ain't in it.

[Zhisad]

That's your experience it goes both way's 🤷🏽

[Bananaman177]

@Zhisad Yes, make sure you consider both ways and not just harp on how men are evil.

[Zhisad]

I do sometimes

[devilish-cutie]

I would say women are just more honest about it and men rather more vague than respectful

[Bananaman177]

@devilish-cutie Saying all men are rapists and pedophiles makes you honest, but saying all women are whores, now that's hateful.

[devilish-cutie]

I don't know whatbare you talking about
Noone said all, generalization was implied by both of us, thas impossible to avoid due to nature of this site diving all men vs women
I gave you another view of it compared to your negative view on women n positive on men about this topic

[JackSmy]

I KNOW, that women share a lot, and even intimate details, with their female friends, about the guys they are with, and I assume that! I have some mutual friends, and they have told me what she was saying, and what she shared with them.
Not out of hate, but these are my friends, and they told me because there were some misunderstandings, and like GOOD FRIENDS, they told me, not 'violating Girl Code!' but wanting to fix a bad misunderstanding that could have broke us up!

[Geckoman]

I’m a straight male, but I don't have that many friends that are guys. I know the ones have we don't talk about girls like girls talk about guys, or I doubt it. My fiance is usually the one to point out other girls to me. (like, she pointed out this girl walking around Walmart wearing men's underwear and a regular shirt... I wish I had gotten a picture!)

[Bluemax]

Most women go into great detail. I once talked with a coworker of mine who went on a date. She talked about EVERY SINGLE THING HE DID. Including how he handed her the bread at dinner. Let me say that again. She talked about how he handed her bread at dinner. She went into his facial expression. How he said it (which if memory serves was something like, "Would you like some bread?") and on and on.

[devilish-cutie]

I've heard this many times how women talk more in detail than men.
It seems to me that plenty of guys think about details but just not say them cause thats not the way guys talk, it would be too open, intimate and men genrally prefer that distance cause they are tought its not manly to be too close like that. Do men think in details too just not say it?

[MAC1983]

Some do a lot better, but some do even worst than your worst female enemies.

That confuses women, as well as many men, but here is a hint:
Trolls are trolls. Male, female. Online, in real life.

Disengage, run away to a safe place, resume your life.
Rest. Do not underestimate the importance of sanity and sleep.

Wake up. Repeat

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Yes we talk, but not on the same way. I have seen girls discuss guys and I can tell you that their conversations are much more innocent.
If we talk about a girl we like or a girl that is a friend of anyone in the group we are decent. If we talk about a random girl one of us had, even if we all know her but is not anyone's friend... oh everyone on the table will know exactly how dirty she is or isn't.

[loveslongnails]

The only thing I remember talking about girls from HS or college had to do with how hot they were, or how good in bed they were. If I was really into a girl, which meant she had a great personality, was good looking AND smart, I didn't talk about her with anyone!

[OfDeath]

No. Well I don't anyway. I can't speak for all guys. I never complain about a girl to other guys. If I do, it will be short and and sharp and then I'll change the subject back to something else and I won't volunteer the information. Someone has to ask. Usually it's a woman.

[mindNsoul]

I dont talk about men to other women either. I think that's an invitation for people to project their own lives, issues, and experiences or lack of into your relationship. That's also an invitation for your business to be the highlight news of the day and to be used against you or your partner in the future. It's like opening a can of warms and trusting that these details will not be shared out of context or modified before they reach to your partner. Plus people mostly tend to exaggerate. So they either gold-plate the relationship to their friends and family or they only talk about what's bad. Meaning it is never a correct reflection of your life or partner. The only two responsible of making or breaking the relationship is the two involved. Chose a partner wisely and seek advice wisely. Your life is not the community local reality show is what I always say. It's not to keep people entertained.

[OfDeath]

@mindNsoul yeah that's all true

[Gooblegobble]

You're a guy, have you never talked to another of your kind? I think we mostly only talk about them when we're having a problem and want advice. We don't just talk about who we think is hot, it ironically starts to feel very gay when that happens.

[JDavid25]

Well, yeah sometimes.. Like me and my co- workers used to talk about girls at the job all the time.. Mainly in a "would you date them" type of way.. Women talk about any and everything about dudes sometimes.. But yeah..

[Puppystarfish23]

Don't know, your a guy tell me? 😅

Common questions with girlfriends tend to be.
How old is he?
Is he cute?
What does he work as?
How did you meet?
Do you think he's the one?

[Everyoneisplastic]

If you're straight, yes. Guys talk about sex and hot chick and pornstars and sex with hot pornstar chicks, all the time. I wouldn't assume women talk about male pornstars in a positive light.

[Hangry22]

They do talk but in a different manner. Most probably talk about girls bodies and how to bang them

[lightbulb27]

not the same way
guys generally don't go into depth or emotions. generally talk more facts and logic.

[thimmslicc]

Yep. Yes. Yeah. Yup.
Theyre just as sneaky, gossiping, and dramatic.

[tartaarsaus]

I barely ever talk about girls with my guy friends, and that’s like once per couple of weeks. I usually shut it down quickly anyway.


It’s just a boring topic to talk about.

[Abby_Winters]

I am sure that some girls talk about guys like that but i am not one of them, I would like to talk about more important things