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What makes a guy want hook-ups vs. marriage? (Page 2)
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Maybe he doesn't feel like he should be in a relationship when he can't offer much.
There IS no benefit to marriage for man these days. It's a no brainier.
yeah tbh i dont get the point of getting married, tbh i personally prefer relationships over hook ups, but still dont the point of going further than that
He's immature and doesn't want to take responsibility in life.
Sounds like he's just interested in one thing and still has a lot of growing up to do
And what do you want? A hook up or a real marriage?
You have boyfriendS with S, how many boyfriend"S" did you have till now and your only 22, did you make sex with all of them?
He’s probably got the Japanese problem. Some shrinks say Japanese youth don’t date because the guys are insecure about their incomes post economic crash. He could fee financially feeble.
And some say it’s because women arnt worth the trouble anymore.
The guys that prefer hookups just want to fuck you with no strings attached
Young guys are like this... your young still so there will be plenty of time for you to find the good one.
Depends on the lady. If she is obviously loose. That is not wife material.
He wants his balls drained without risking half his shit.
Lol why would you want such a guy anyways?
True
People allow marriage to get boring and common. A REAL marriage should be envied by hook ups
Well i not had sex for years since i lost my wife. So a hook up woukd be nice
easy girls vs girls playing hard to get. Most men go for girls who are like that instead of a girl that is easy because they like the chase game.
As a guy I’ll tell you now this is wrong. If a woman plays hard to get I’m done... no means no I’m not going to jail cause your playing games.
Men want to bed easy but marry grace.
@VanillaSalt that’s what you prefer and its fine. Not all men are the same and so does girls
It don’t matter what men are like. The fact is there’s already laws against what you said in UK. It’s considered a hate crime now if the woman decides it’s not warranted attention. No man is stupid enough to chase a woman these days that don’t give clear signs she’s into the attention. Too easy to ruin a man with false claims of rape.
You don't know men too well. Most people in general whether it be guy or girl don't want to spend all their time pursuing the same person when there's plenty of others to choose from.
I would never do casual and or one night stands, I have very high morals but know what you mean Sis. Men are wankers.
What makes men avoid marriage is how they get destroyed financially in divorce.
So would a man be more willing to marry a woman if she made more money?
@likelyOK Women won't marry guys who make less then them, and if they do the marriage won't last and will end in divorce.
Also there are countless cases (do a quick google search) where they guy still had to pay the woman even though she earned more.
Until the laws are substantially changed marriage is too much of a financial risk for men to be willing to take. Its basically a 50-50 coin flip to lose half of your sh*t and for what? Sex? You can buy it much cheaper. I can get a whore for 200/hour vs. all the time and effort required in a relationship for a "Im not into it tonight, I'm too tired" excuse? Children? That may or may not be used as a weapon for your financial destruction in an upcoming divorce?
Have you both had sex?
If so, that plays a big part.
Nope we haven’t
Your description seems like you are older than him.
honestly no guys want child or marriage they
need sex and you are giving him free sex without condition.
Only male whores dont only want kids.
@hi_it_is_me123 so you think you guy is a make whore?
What the hell i delete this and write that only male whores want hook up before posting
I dont mean that. Of course you are not a c**nt when you dont want kids.
@hi_it_is_me123 I tried to help you but seems like you are getting offensive.
I again ignore the first comment of mine sorry
And do you want women to make you give them money for sex? They ain't prostitutes. So wth does even free sex mean? This is why i get offended
@hi_it_is_me123 you misunderstood me.
Though I used the word free sex but it had some others meaning not what you assumed!
Everything costs something... her smile costs him money, time, effort. Sex also costs something. And when Kamala makes prostitution legal many women will turn to it to survive during covid. And based off a question I asked last week no men will be willing to date them after that...
Can you guys stop acting as if you have sex with different girl every week? Even mgtow guys say that only 20% of the male population get sex free while the rest remain "sexless". So let me alone. Go prostitutes if you want to pay for sex.
Why should i want money from my potential for sex? Lol i really dont understand you guys. Why do you want women to be golddiggers. Weird
Because then you can suffer for your mistakes. And through your experience women won’t be as stupid.
Also there’s decades of porn added every day... and like you said prostitutes... men will have their sex regardless, if women wanna give up the main thing they offer then that’s fine but whatever women want from men won’t happen when we don’t need you.
There was a time men were there for women and protected and provided for them. Now you see video of women being raped on the subway during the day ignored by 100k people... you hear stories of women abused on the train and then she calls out the guy that didn’t help instead of the men that abused her... more and more posts of where have all the good men gone. Well all go without but like you just said men are used to it.
Also I’ve had 4 partners in my life. Don’t compare me to your vision of what a man is.
Wth are your speaking here you weirdo. Why are speaking about rape/sexul harrassment wtf. I also hate when people only slut-shame women but not men
Oh I’ll call out a man for it but in a world where all men will accept sex and women will be picky it’s up to women to say no... if a mans a man hoe then it’s down to women for saying yes as well... instead of giving sexual every time a man makes you wet try a few dates first. Women hold all the sexual power and so men are breaking away and won’t play this game anymore. No more white knights, nice guys, marriage, just go deal with your shit.
Do men has no self control and can say no? If it is true and thrre is no difference between you and animals
can't say No*
Then it is man's fault why hoes exist, since men dont reject them😄
Point is for a gender that wants to be seen for more you sure give it up easy
I only like virgin guys but i dont shame on or dont judge promiscuos people. Not everyone is into easy guys -
A sluts a slut a virgins a virgin... once’s more likely to cheat...
Only cheater are sluts and slut does not have a specific gender
You can’t just assign new meanings to words because you don’t like them... a sluts a slut
@hi_it_is_me123 what I see it is becoming an endless discussion.
You're asking as if casual hookups and marriage are the only two options.
Wait--is THIS the dude you've been getting with? Have you had sex with him yet?
Yes it is and no, we haven’t!
Oh wow. What have you done so far? Have you gotten naked with him? Played with his penis? Gotten each other off?
Young inexperienced doesn't think about commitment? How normal
Thrill? Stupid decisions, lust, multiplechoices, skill, looks...
Because he can’t form long term relationships. It also shows a lack of responsibility.
Well if he doesn't make that much, how can he start a family...
How would you feel if it were you?
If i was you or him?
He feels like he's not in a financial position to care for you, so, he knows marriage is not right.
Cause marriage is a death sentence. All your dreams get crushed by the committee.
There's nothing wrong with you for sure.
Sexually attached, emotionally detached.
Some may not wnat to compremise.
usually age and how long he has been with a girl
His emotional maturity.
Marriage ain't on my list
Lust lust lust
I don't want them both
Not having values/morals to live by 🤔
I want a maeei with hook ups she loves them
First heartbreak, 2020 dating, people suck
It probably has nothing to do with the girl in particular
Simple.
How easy the girl is and her past.
... Women
The right girl.
Why do you want him?
Body count.
Feminism
What do even mean by that?
Feminism has changed the dating game and men dont have to be in a relationship to get sex. Men are pigs at heart. Yes we can clean up nicely but our core urge is to plunder all of you women without consequences. Feminists encouraged girls to have sex freely and eschew relationships while climbing the corporate ladder. This had a cascading effect on how guys acted towards women. Now girls have to give it up without a relationship unless they are very high value and happen to meet a guy that wants a relationship
I’m not a feminist. If a guy wants to be with me, he’s going to have to make a little more effort than just wanting sex. Why are guys so against that in a woman?
I am in a relationship. I understand what you want and what you are saying. I am saying that feminism (see other paragraph) has caused a shift in the dynamics between men and women and therefore less men will bother with a relationship. The best/highest-value guys are fucking women AT WILL. Why would they ever stop? That situation makes it harder for women like you to find the right guy.
Only 20% of men are promiscuos and this told a mgtow antifeminist guy. So stfu most of you are sexless.
What i mean thar only 20% of the men get the most women while the rest have to remain "sexless" since women only find 20% of men very attractive/successful etc. according to some statistics and some mgtow guys who told me this.
@hi_it_is_me123 i saw some stats like that too
MGTOW lol