What do women want from their ideal man?

Question

Kaazsz · Accepted Answer

I’ve been watching some dating coaches for female dating. And what I’m learning is that women pass up the men they describe all the time. And these dating coaches have quite a lot of difficulty helping these women find the right man. Because their pussy drives everything. They think they are above us men, as if men are ruled by our cocks. And we kind of are. But so are women I am finding out.

And the good men they say they want, their pussy doesn’t want.

So the perfect man in my opinion, is the men these girls are describing in their opinions right? But also, he’s a masculine sexual freak. An animal in the bedroom.

And I think all of us men can do that. You have to remember, girls want what they say they want but they are not sharing with you what their pussy wants.

What their pussy wants is domination, masculinity. Their pussy wants to submit to power. So yea, you might be that guy they keep talking about, but you’re still a single guy, struggling with women. It’s because you are not exuding that masculine lion power that all pussy craves.

If you can be you, the great guy you know you are, and recognize the lion inside you that makes pussy gush in her panties, you’ll have bitches all over you.

The lesson I learned from the female focused dating coaches, is basically, they are telling these women that these lion men are exclusive to bad boys and players. And men who become what women say they want as can be read in these comments, lack that powerful sexual lion side of themselves. And they basically tell women to settle for the man of their dreams... minus that sexy powerful lion their pussy wants.

So to the guys I say to embrace that part of yourself. Women are like puppets to a guy who can unleash that aspect of his sexuality. To be that powerful dominant aggressive sex god that takes her to hell and then to heaven and back to reality. ANY guy who can do that is going to get her.

Unit1 · Accepted Answer

Everything. And nothing. At the same time.

You can see there being men, who are literally perfect 10/10 or husband material and women will find 10 reasons/rules why she isn't attracted to him.
Then you can see there being men, who fit literally none of their dating standards and criteria and women would keep running after him, effectively breaking these 10 rules they made up.

I say don't bother being perfect. If a woman likes you, then she likes you. Doesn't matter if you're the perfect husband material or Ted Bundy or Christian Grey or Brad Pitt or Daniel Hernandez.

Yads_Is_Back · Accepted Answer

Is it not enough if I just say I want him to be a good man? Because once I know I like the guy then his side is easy as pie form then on out. I don't have trust issues or anything like that. Just don't do the big stupid stuff as everyone knows, like lie or cheat, etc. But really, I can work with the guy if he's relationship material. Where guys get stumped with my case is that they have deal-breakers as soon as I get to know them, before we can even make it into anything. I won't tolerate the deal-breakers. So... if he passes the grad exam of being date material (just kidding) then once we get started I prefer that he be himself. Doing things for me is fine, cool, but don't go out of your way too much, especially when you're just doing it to make me like you more. No, just be yourself with me because that's kind of like leading me on. I actually think that's a big cause of divorce now: the guy is all sweet until they get married then he stops. I don't believe in divorce anyway.
So I guess it depends on whether you mean once he's my partner or if you mean in general. Because in general, he has to be a good man, have good morals, be respectful, be loyal and curteous, a gentleman, very honest, and not somebody who sleeps around which kind of goes with morals. But if you mean once he becomes my partner, I'm not one who expects much besides the general communication and honesty.

LittleTurtleDuck · Accepted Answer

I want the 4-R's:

Responsible (has a job, takes responsibility for actions, knows how to be an adult)

Reliable (no lies, no cheating, open conversation, no promises he can't keep, emotional support)

Respectful (communicates properly, addresses problems without finger pointing, nice to people around him especially the ones "below" him)

Romantic (takes time to get to know me, my fave food, quirks, does things to show me that he paid attention, and maybe takes me out on a cute date every once in a while)

And ofc, I'll be giving all of this as well.

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

Mainly emotional stability, financial stability, life stability.
There are exceptions though - I'm emotionally unstable, make money in strange ways and live on a rollercoaster 24/7.
My fiancée and other girl friends seem to like that lol.

KingdomForAKiss · Answer

Respect in all aspects.
My 9 year old heard this song for the first time this evening. "I would walk 500 miles... just to be the man who walks a 1000 miles to fall down at your door."
She said, "Oh so he's saying that he'd do all of that for her?"
It made me think for a moment--- the love isn't demonstrated in grand gestures--- those pale in comparison to the small moments. It's all about the million small gestures of love and respect, where you "choose" the other person/your relationship every single time.

https://youtu. be/tbNlMtqrYS0

19magic · Answer

I like reflecting back on this question every year or couple of years my answer is different. When I was 17 all I wanted was a sexy guy who'll take me to heaven and back lol while in a good relationship. Now though I think the main thing for me would be a guy who is himself around me and I can be myself around him. I've been jaded too many times now and always by friends, that in the end I realise I hid a lot of who I am, just to be friends with them. Other traits I'd look for would be honesty and perhaps maturity, I've been around so many people in my life that argue and slams doors, that for my ideal partner I just wish we could talk it out and just accept that we're not perfect that no one is, but that it's out imperfections that makes us perfect.

Simplismilez · Answer

I want a guy that's compassionate, funny, has goals, can communicate and thats willing to grow with me, meaning changing our toxic ways, understanding that sometimes our relationship will be him taking 80/20 and vice versa. I want someone like me i guess.

Nik1hil · Answer

1) Money - off all things women want a man who can afford her expenses. Women will even go for criminals if they are rich..
2) social status- every women wants a man with high social status, it brings respect to her, the reason women chase after doctors and celebrities

This are two major things women want that comes on top.. Besides it...
Family - Get married and have kids.
Sex - A man who is dominant and can give her good amounts of sexual pleasure.
Love - a man who loves her unconditionally.
Pets - a men who has pet animals is attractive..

FocusOfSuspicion · Answer

I know it’ll sound weird, but I want a leader. I like to play in a supportive roll. It makes me feel important and gives me purpose without shining the spotlight on me. My introverted self doesn’t really like the spotlight. Lol. I want a family and the feeling of belonging I imagine that might impart. I want love, of course.

DiegoO · Answer

This may sound narcisistic but as long as a woman likes you and you like her back, don't bother thinking what a woman wants. We change over time, and who is your partner will be your ex, or not, depending of how your partner and your changes match. If you all make it till the graveyard (together), congrats, if it only happened for months, a couple of years or what looked promising (10+y), cry, look back, but don't go chasing the pass, is like chasing the wind. Be sure to walk ahead and have in mind that is always better to walk alone, than to walk in couple, or in a group, lonely, unloved.

Anonymous · Answer

Masculinity. Men who can fix things around the house. I think it's funny that men are willing to pay other men to fix things in their house but aren't willing to pay for nannies, cleaners, and etc to help their wives with their chores. It doesn't make sense to me.

babysteph · Answer

I want him to be a respectable and intelligent man that I can submit to. and if he’s easy on the eyes and big enough to pick me up like I’m nothing that’s definitely a bonus! 😇

Beautyforeverybody · Answer

Sense of security, care, stability, attractiveness, respect and loyalty.

alice55 · Answer

Only love me, only think of me
Is 100 loyal to me
someone who I can trust 100 % and feel comfortable around
non judgmental
patient, not violent towards (both physically and mentally)
Virgin
Is beautiful (fair skin, light eyes and hair), tall and muscular (broad shoulder, large arms, muscular back and chest, flat stomach).
Same hobbies and passionate.
And want to be married.

This is my ideal man but I'm sure it'll only stay real in my dream and never come true XD

flamiE · Answer

If only we knew.. the thing is, when we see HIM we recognise he’s the one.. but generally speaking he’s got to be thoughtful, have the same values, morals and view on life as me, understanding, sweet, good communicator, deep, someone who thrives to do better and pushes me to do so, isn’t afraid to show his emotions and love me unconditionally.

Charli7 · Answer

Trust!!!
1. To feel safe.
2. A man that listens and gives appropriate feedback.
3. Broad shoulders and a nice chest.
4. Perfect fit.
5. He should let me know he cares about me everyday.
6. Remember things that are important to me.
7. Let me love him unconditionally without fear of being vulnerable.

Anonymous · Answer

Lots of money, good looks, a beard, prison tats and a giant penis.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Sweet, thoughtful, kind, caring, supportive, loyal, reliable and loves to snuggle

Nazgol · Answer

For me: Affectionate, be able to provide, good in bed, good cook a bonus!

kingkathyy · Answer

for me it would be someone who’s responsible, loyal, makes his own money, can communicate, open-minded, self-motivated, and obviously someone who is honest

maryyy_V · Answer

I just ask that he’s at least spontaneous and respectful.

Avicenna · Answer

Im not sure all of them know exactly what they’d want

Finchie40 · Answer

A girl wants a guy for his status , Girls are
Drawn to a guys status period, she can have a loving caring hard working husband at home and she will cheat on him if she comes across a guy with higher status

Hannah_le · Answer

For me Is for someone to be different ofc and unique. Someone who wouldn’t walk wit the crowd n be their own person and for me be down to earth. Personality matters more but also loyality so that’s wut I think :3 .

Anna_fox · Answer

Women want their men to be intelligent. You don’t have to be the next Einstein, but you do have to be capable of carrying on an intelligent conversation

Hangry22 · Answer

Hard core Loyalty It's too much for any guy so the ideal one doesn't exist

SkullsandBeauty · Answer

Ideal?
Handles his mental issues well, financially well off, well groomed, a good wardrobe/fashion sense, loves to drink with me on weekend evenings, doesn't mind helping around the house and enjoys to relax and let loose

iseekpinetrees · Answer

A go getter. Someone who can get a job at anytime because they have great skills. Smart. Quirky. Open. Degree. Tall. Semi thick not a twig. Someone into manly things like cars. guns. hunting lol

MCheetah · Answer

Height (6'0" minimum). Ego (aka "confidence"). Social status. Caters to her every whim, but doesn't look like a simp doing it (paradoxically).

GhostMochi · Answer

Please respect me and my boundaries. Be supportive and try to help me with problems instead of blowing them off or making me never talk about them and keep quiet. That's all I ask.

CoolKatie · Answer

Understanding people trust issue , respectful, trustwohly , open-minded, listens more about people need and feeling and make sure to check up on the person if they feel down or sad. be the supportive and kind and help people out.

heatherlj01 · Answer

Respect and loyalty maturity confidence also a little vulnerability

AnnNoid · Answer

Someone who’s 100 percent perfect in every way possible, If you’re only 97 percent perfect... forget it, she will leave you sooner or later

MsClareM · Answer

Maybe an age thing but someone to share adventures and experiences with, a nice attitude to life and kind

Jjpayne · Answer

I'd say, good sense of humor, has a good source of income, is healthy and mature. I'm none of those things 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Minahh · Answer

My partner needs to be a conscious man meaning: being responsible for his actions, emotions and words, staying true to himself, being a leader, not being arrogant, selfish and lazy, showing a genuine love and affection

SphynxUK · Answer

Someone intelligent, who can make me laugh, look out for me, who has his own life and job.

FairEnough · Answer

Short answer: Someone that is like me but not completely like me.

the_bruh · Answer

It's not about what they want. It's about what you can give and who's ready to accept it.

hellohruu · Answer

Good, peaceful personality and masculine body. 4 me at least

Bourbon777 · Answer

Sex, cuddling, and undivided attention.

zagor · Answer

Not sure. When women say what they want in a man, they are usually lying, whether consciously or not.

Bandit74 · Answer

The 666 trifecta. Over 6ft tall, dick bigger than 6 inches, salary over 6 figures.

Twinrova · Answer

They want three things: big house, big wallet, big ___

sadcountrygirl · Answer

Respect  Communication  Trust  Listen. No arguments  Not giving up  And especially no cheating no lying and no breaking promises

StickStickity13 · Answer

Tall, handsome, rich, smart, muscular, large dick, full head of hair, confident, masculine, powerful, popular.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

They don't f'ing know. And whatever they say here is bullshit.

Ally247 · Answer

Treat me like the queen I am, not that hard smh

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing I've stopped finding guys many years ago..

dwiller943 · Answer

The male version of myself.

biaboss1952 · Answer

Loyalty, respect, freedom, confidence, and head whenever I want it... lol. just be true

Anonymous · Answer

A little bitch who hands over his paycheck, let her take the kids away, all while, ahe kicks him out of the very house he pays for to keep his family safe.

Phoebe45 · Answer

I want security, loyalty, lov and money

Iron_Man · Answer

Security and a loyal husband

jimmy2 · Answer

Love, more love, unconditional love, clear communication, help, and be good to her

Be4rdy · Answer

Women just want the first guy that shows them some attention

user717 · Answer

A leader and a partner.

jshm2 · Answer

Nothing, the ideal man would already know.

estoydorado1 · Answer

Compatibility in all things :D

Anonymous · Answer

Makes time and has a “us” mentality.

GoogleWasMyIdea · Answer

I would say love and support

Anonymous · Answer

A man who is loyal, real, funny and adventurous.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I don't even think an ideal man exists.

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