Am I officially done in dating I’m 29 I have no prospects and nothing seems like it’s gonna change?

[Anonymous]

Am I officially done in dating

So I’m 29 I have never dated I don’t drink smoke or party. I have never had sex and most girls already have kids or a lot of baggage from a previous relationship. Has the ship already sailed for a decent love life for me like I feel it has. I feel the best thing to do would be to give up on it

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[iseekpinetrees]

I don't smoke drink or party I never have lol that doesn't mean its harder to find a girl. Most healthy people don't smoke or drink.. same with most people our age. We're realistic about life by now. Jobs come first in life can't have a good paying job and be out of it. If you want a girlfriend you have to talk to women. In person or online if your shy. But you have to hunt people down. No girl goes looking for guys and starts things up. Most of us want a guy to approach us.

[Asker]

That’s the thing I’m not good enough

[Daniela1982]

Well giving up will certainly dampen your chances. What are you doing wrong? Have you tried dating sites or Meetup. com? Are you terribly shy or get anxiety at the thought of asking a girl out? Are you afraid you don't know how to talk to girls? What have you tried so far?

[Asker]

It’s that I no longer believe there is a girl out there for me

[Daniela1982]

Well I guess if you gave up there is not much to say. If there is someone who is your soul mate you will find her when the timing is right. Any time before that it will probably not work.

[Asker]

The thing is I keep running into the wrong women and women who I do like who would be a good match based on my lifestyle reject me

[Daniela1982]

OK, when you get rejected there is a reason. The Good Lord knows who is best for you. So if someone rejects you she is not "the one". So stop moping over those rejections. It just means "the one" is worth waiting for.

[IHateBeingaMan]

another reminder of something i can't stand

[Anonymous]

Do you want to date a boy?