Guys, Would u date a girl w a high body count?

[Spalliger]

No, I wouldn't.

I think it's important for everybody (so for women too) to be careful, respect themselves and give sexual intimacy the value it deserves. So I won't date a girl with a high body count because that just shows me how she doesn't really value sex as something to give only to a few chosen people through a process of strong emotional bonding and thoughts of a serious relationship for the future.

If the girl has been with 5 guys genuinely in love and trying to have a serious relationship which just ended, I'd be with her without a problem. But if she's been with just 3 guys having sex without any real value to it, then I wouldn't.

[Floppy2112]

Not typically. What that means is if she had a high count, but went through some life altering experience and reformed her ways and has gotten herself together and proven it, then maybe. But it's gonna be hard not to think of all the people who have been there before you.
Before you think this is a double standard it's not. I hold men to the same account. I don't think man-whores are any better than female-whores. Men need to not do that either.

[Anonymous]

No, and I will be blunt in saying that if you chose to rack up a high body count... Finding a good partner (man or woman) will be very hard. But it is the consequences for your actions. Personally I ended a 1.5 year relationship after my partner (that I loved) lied about her body count. (way after we had the body count talk). A lot of people on the other side try and make the "experiences" and "it was in the past" argument. but those arguments fall flat for me. 1) Your past affects your future, straight up if you slept around it shows a lack of understanding what sex means in a relationship... And honestly, it becomes almost worthless and meaningless to make love with somebody who slept around. 2) you don't have to rack up a high body count to gain life experiences. Somethings should be reserved for the special people in your life... Otherwise once again, the meaning of it becomes watered down and worthless. Also lastly, you should care about how your future partner feels, unless you don't mind at all about a body count, don't expect your partner to forgive yours. And even then, good luck finding someone decent that is liked minded in that regard.

[TheorionMage]

The FIRST thing I told my present wife was... MY body count AND...
that there was a MUTUAL 'blanket amnesty' for PAST relationships and mistakes.

Can't work to achieve an HONEST mutual commitment IF you're holding back or 'stockpiling' judgements
on your Intended's history.

WHOM they are NOW, ... what attracted you to THEM, didn't 'miraculously' occur
without life experience... NO retrospective critiques!

[Avicenna]

Depends on when that body count was primarily acquired. If she's 40 and it was mostly as a young adult, I probably would if she met my dating criteria. But if it's been a lifelong problem, it indicates a lack of impulse control and perhaps mental illness, which are two complete dealbreakers for me.

[ZackBan]

Absolutely, in fact I prefer it.
Because my type of girl is the kind that doesn't care what society thinks is right. We all have sexual desires but in my opinion only the elite chose to act on them and that I can't help but respect

[william_wizard]

A girls body count is the last thing I would care about. As long as they are clean and free of any STIs or other issues then why should I care if they have had a lot of sex?

That's their business. Past is past, let it stay there.

[George1992]

Good day Anon.

sorry love I wanted to give my opinion so bad but did not know for the life of me what a body count is I will Google it and be back.

[TruthBringer]

Dating short-term, yes. Long term? No. And I make sure they know this. So they choose to opt-out beforehand or not. So I won't be stringing them along.

[WesBrewer]

If she is fat than I won't date her, if she has absolutely no muscle but looks normal then I am fine with it.

[ShadezMcgee]

Depends on the relationship with the men she slept with and if they were exclusive and together for a while, not casual flings or rebounds.

[Andres77]

My wife and I both have high body counts (60+ each). I knew she did. We dated, hers continued to go up for a while... and then she decided I was who she was looking for. 17 years later and still going strong.