Guys, Would u date a girl w a high body count?

[Anonymous]

I don’t have a high bc and In a happy relationship atm. I’m just interested to see if guys would.

[Spalliger]

No, I wouldn't.

I think it's important for everybody (so for women too) to be careful, respect themselves and give sexual intimacy the value it deserves. So I won't date a girl with a high body count because that just shows me how she doesn't really value sex as something to give only to a few chosen people through a process of strong emotional bonding and thoughts of a serious relationship for the future.

If the girl has been with 5 guys genuinely in love and trying to have a serious relationship which just ended, I'd be with her without a problem. But if she's been with just 3 guys having sex without any real value to it, then I wouldn't.

[Floppy2112]

Not typically. What that means is if she had a high count, but went through some life altering experience and reformed her ways and has gotten herself together and proven it, then maybe. But it's gonna be hard not to think of all the people who have been there before you.
Before you think this is a double standard it's not. I hold men to the same account. I don't think man-whores are any better than female-whores. Men need to not do that either.

[Anonymous]

No, and I will be blunt in saying that if you chose to rack up a high body count... Finding a good partner (man or woman) will be very hard. But it is the consequences for your actions. Personally I ended a 1.5 year relationship after my partner (that I loved) lied about her body count. (way after we had the body count talk). A lot of people on the other side try and make the "experiences" and "it was in the past" argument. but those arguments fall flat for me. 1) Your past affects your future, straight up if you slept around it shows a lack of understanding what sex means in a relationship... And honestly, it becomes almost worthless and meaningless to make love with somebody who slept around. 2) you don't have to rack up a high body count to gain life experiences. Somethings should be reserved for the special people in your life... Otherwise once again, the meaning of it becomes watered down and worthless. Also lastly, you should care about how your future partner feels, unless you don't mind at all about a body count, don't expect your partner to forgive yours. And even then, good luck finding someone decent that is liked minded in that regard.

[william_wizard]

A girls body count is the last thing I would care about. As long as they are clean and free of any STIs or other issues then why should I care if they have had a lot of sex?

That's their business. Past is past, let it stay there.

[TheorionMage]

The FIRST thing I told my present wife was... MY body count AND...
that there was a MUTUAL 'blanket amnesty' for PAST relationships and mistakes.

Can't work to achieve an HONEST mutual commitment IF you're holding back or 'stockpiling' judgements
on your Intended's history.

WHOM they are NOW, ... what attracted you to THEM, didn't 'miraculously' occur
without life experience... NO retrospective critiques!

[Avicenna]

Depends on when that body count was primarily acquired. If she's 40 and it was mostly as a young adult, I probably would if she met my dating criteria. But if it's been a lifelong problem, it indicates a lack of impulse control and perhaps mental illness, which are two complete dealbreakers for me.

[Andres77]

My wife and I both have high body counts (60+ each). I knew she did. We dated, hers continued to go up for a while... and then she decided I was who she was looking for. 17 years later and still going strong.

[ZackBan]

Absolutely, in fact I prefer it.
Because my type of girl is the kind that doesn't care what society thinks is right. We all have sexual desires but in my opinion only the elite chose to act on them and that I can't help but respect

[TruthBringer]

Dating short-term, yes. Long term? No. And I make sure they know this. So they choose to opt-out beforehand or not. So I won't be stringing them along.

[Asker]

Haha men ain’t shit

[TruthBringer]

@Asker not sure who this is directed to. If you think a man who doesn't string a woman and gives the woman the choice to walk away is a man who "ain't shit". Then don't bitch when men play women.

[Asker]

What do u consider a high body count?

[TruthBringer]

@Asker I already answered that under Kraken's comment.

[MountAverage]

Can we please stop with the cringy "body count" thing? Sexual partners are not fucking casualties.
And yeah, I would. I want her to be experienced.

[MountAverage]

All you people throwing around random numbers are so ridiculous. None of you even specify within what period of time. Within a year? 10 years? A month? None of you even mention that. Use your fucking brains, you idiots.

[George1992]

Good day Anon.

sorry love I wanted to give my opinion so bad but did not know for the life of me what a body count is I will Google it and be back.

[George1992]

Ok so i am back. it is a tricky matter because you find girls that just easily put out but then you also find girls that honestly feel that they have met the one every time a guy winks ate her and most men take liberty of that. that would increase the body count (now that I know what it means lol) and that might not effect my decision that much so my honest answer is No is she is cheap and yes if there is reason due to circumstances

[George1992]

I hope this may have helped if id di please consider MHO. have a nice day.

[locutus9999]

no... never... sorry to be cruel... i will not risk infection... neither infidelity... nor divorce... high body count is a good red flag concerning those points.

[Asker]

What’s considered a high body count?

[locutus9999]

for me in particular, and I am not speaking for other people... it will depend on age... but more than 20 will be just to much for me... i undertand 10 can happen relatively fast... but is expected a moment in wich move to more significant relations and longer ones to happen... so 15 is forgivable. but over 20... show that never happened.

[ShadezMcgee]

Depends on the relationship with the men she slept with and if they were exclusive and together for a while, not casual flings or rebounds.

[Asker]

Fair enough. What’s considered a high body count to u?

[ShadezMcgee]

If she is a casual sex kind of girl, over 10. If she is one for relationships, over 4

[Anonymous]

Not under any circumstances, regardless of how hot, attractive or what age she was. It's always an absolute no.

[Asker]

What’s considered a high body count?

[Opinion Owner]

Context matters, but generally 2+

[Asker]

More than 2?

[Asker]

Lol 2 isn’t a lot but ok

[Opinion Owner]

That depends on how you view it. Some people see it as just a number, where as I see it as the most intimate act possible for our lifetime.

[Asker]

So if someone had 2 sexual partners and changed their ways and is celibate you wouldn’t date her?

[Opinion Owner]

That's difficult to say. But It's unlikely.

[Asker]

As long as u uphold the standards u require that’s Gucci. I don’t like hypocrites lol

[Asker]

How old r u anyways?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm early 40's, but have discovered the fountain of youth. A lady I know tried just one thing and her boyfriend has accused her of having secret Botox sessions ha!

Yes, all standards I expect are exactly the same ones I hold myself too.

[WesBrewer]

If she is fat than I won't date her, if she has absolutely no muscle but looks normal then I am fine with it.

[Rippersavage]

Yes. I don't care about a girl's body count, she could have had sex with 1000 different guys and I still wouldn't care. As long as she doesn't have an STD I'm good

[bamesjond0069]

Hell no. can't get serious with a ho. Only men with very low self esteem and complete desperation do this.

[TruthBringer]

Precisely!

[Miristheiss]

I always stayed clear of those.
My wife was actually a virgin.

[Anonymous]

No. This type of girls are the ones you should avoid to date at all costs

[Asker]

What’s considered a high body count?

[J2ohhhhh]

I don't judge female serial killers as long as they are virgin.

[Anonymous]

No issue with it. unless the girl wears it like a medal and brags about it, or many conversations end up on the topic.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nope. We wouldn't.

So you'd better keep that relationship happy.

[Asker]

What’s considered a high body count to u? Lol when did I say i wanted to date u? You’re way too old for me anyways bud

[Jamie05rhs]

It's not about me, hon. Read the responses by the other guys here.

[Asker]

Oh yea that’s fine but according to most my bc isn’t considered high so I’d still be dateable

[Jamie05rhs]

Buy do you want to date those guys? That is the question.

[Asker]

Yea for sure if I like the person. Lol but u didn’t answer my question what do u consider a high body count?

[Jamie05rhs]

It's irrelevant. We're not compatible.

[Anonymous]

not interested. I mean if she shows genuine desire to change and I really believe she can turn her life around, and we have great chemistry, I'd consider it... but I'd be very cautious.

[Asker]

Fair point. What’s considered a high body count to u?

[Opinion Owner]

3 and up

[Asker]

Lol sounds like u ain’t getting any 😼

[Asker]

Any 😼*

[Asker]

Pssy

[Opinion Owner]

does that make you feel better about yourself, putting me down? Enjoy it... cunt. I am sexually conservative, I actually turn down women if I think that me fucking them will prevent them from having fulfilling relationships in the future. I could just act like other men, use women for sex and break their hearts, would that make you respect me more? Think about the words you say and what you are encouraging, this kind of shit is what causes young men to make big mistakes, and women are the ones who suffer in the end.

[Opinion Owner]

the fact is that there are women out there who appreciate my stance on these things, and I'll save my love for them, thank you very much

[Asker]

Lol I just don’t think 3 is a lot. My bc is 2. And I consider a high one 5.

[Asker]

Lol I was insulting u? Where? Just stated u we’re getting much pssy: ur the one insulting by calling me a profane word but OK bud

[Opinion Owner]

No stand by what you said bitch. You said 'sounds like you aren't getting any pussy' that was your response. You didn't say "5 is the real number" no you did not.

Fucking own the fact that you're a mean bitch who likes destroying men's self esteem and causing them to turn into the kind of man that you ladies love to complain about, the player. I could do it. I'm 6'2, good looking, I never talk to women, they talk to me, I could EASILY DO IT you want me to be that kind of guy? You want me to emotionally destroy a bunch of women so I can get my dick wet and feel better about myself? Because that is what you are driving me towards doing.

FUCKING OWN WHAT YOU SAID

[Asker]

Lmaooo stfu I just said sounds like ur not getting a lot of pssy. Do whatever u want don’t blame ur actions of someone else. THAT would be on YOU. And YOU only. If that makes u have a low self esteem sorry bud. I don’t get a lot of dick and if someone told me that I wouldn’t be offended lol

[Opinion Owner]

in what world is 'sounds like you aren't gettin any' not an insult to a man especially? Stop being so dishonest. You threw the first stone here.

[Asker]

Ur 36-45 u should be more emotionally mature at what people tell u even if it was meant as an insult.

[Opinion Owner]

you clearly don't know much about men. To be a man with sexual self restraint is basically to be called a faggot loser all your life. You don't get it.

[Opinion Owner]

im mid 20s this account is fake

[Asker]

Alright well tbh I agree people shouldn’t be promiscuous b4 marriage as I’m a Christian. But lol were all sinners. Good for u for being sexually conservative it isn’t popular. But do what u want lol idc it’s ur body, ur choice. If girls only want to fuck w no commitment and u want the same then it’s whatever. But anyways just don’t be hypocritical by not dating a person w a body count of 3 and u have a body count of 3. I mean u can be a hypocrite there’s plenty of them but haha hypocrites r trash to me

[Asker]

I think that if someone slipped up in their life and has a big body count because of things they went through. And they turned theyre life around I wouldn’t reject them. Each to their own 🤷‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

oh now you're all flowers and christian. Yeah we all sin, but that is not an excuse to sin. You are part of the problem if you are going to shame sexually conservative men, you realize that right? Do you think I'm a hypocrite? You said "I don't get any" implying I have a low body count, now you are calling me a hypocrite, implying I have a high body count?

You're a mess. You don't know what you are, what you want, or what you want in the world. Talk less, listen more, that's my advice to you. Maybe you learned something from this little interaction, but I doubt it.

[Opinion Owner]

for what it's worth, I have a body count of one, and I swore the next time I have sex it will be with the woman I intend to spend the rest of my life with. A christian should respect that, but you would rather fuck over my self esteem. Good job.

[Asker]

Lmao I said don’t be a hypocrite since u said I was making u wanna fuck and use girls. Lmao I didn’t say u were one 🙄 can u not read. Don’t get it twisted

[Asker]

“ But anyways just don’t be hypocritical ” if I was saying ur hypocrital I would’ve said stop being a hypocrite. I had no clue. What ur bc was

[Opinion Owner]

I think you should know by now that I'm not going to do that, but most men are doing that, BECAUSE of the kind of comments you made. Just want you to understand that you are encouraging the very thing you claim to be against. YOU are the one who is twisted. And you STILL haven't apologized.

[Asker]

Lmao ofc never said it was a excuse to. I’ve already repented for my sins

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not letting you get away with these dumb semantic arguments. "Don't be hypocritical" and "stop being a hyocrite" can be interpreted in exactly the same way in the vast overwhelming majority of situations, and I think you know that. I'm done with you. Goodbye. Try not to keep fking up

[Asker]

So u wouldn’t date a girl w a body count of 2? & why?

[Opinion Owner]

you haven't repented for shit. You are what I call a "fake ass christian". You don't understand or preach what you claim to believe in. You're a joke.

[Asker]

Lol I was trllong u if u start fucking and using girls like u said u were thinking about I said that’s fine just don’t be hypocrital about it. That’s all.

[Opinion Owner]

I never said I wouldn't date a girl with a body count of 2, I said 3 is high, and if you read my original comment, you'll see my opinion on girls with high body count. I would consider it but I'd be very cautious, and rightly so.

[Asker]

Yeah I have and im now celibate, but I can still comment that someone’s not getting any just like I’m not getting any

[Asker]

Alright well sorry for saying ur not getting any

[Opinion Owner]

"I was just trolling" classic excuse for being CRUEL AND MEAN. Until you can take responsibility for your words and admit that you were mean, you were cruel, and contributing towards the very thing you claim to hate, I will no longer respond. I am waiting for an "I'm sorry, that was not nice of me" BE AN ADULT

[Opinion Owner]

I'm still sensing some attitude here, even over the keyboard, as in you don't really understand why what you said was wrong, you are almost still trolling me in a sense. Yeah I'm psychic. I'm wasting my time here, goodbye.

[Asker]

Not trolling. That was a typo. I said “I was just trying to say if u do use and fuck girls just don’t be a hypocrite” I ain’t no troll haha

[Asker]

Sorry that wasn’t nice of me

[Opinion Owner]

I mean you literally said you were trolling in a previous comment "Lol I was trllong u..."

so you kind of confuse me, but I guess you are trying to apologize genuinely now, so I'm sorry for calling you a cunt and a bitch, it just cuts very deep, you don't know what my life has been like and what sacrifices I have made to do right by myself and by the women I encounter.

[Asker]

Well that’s rare thing to see people w self control. It’s an accomplishment tbh. Anyways U should anonymize urself lol I kinda wanna follow u on here. I’m tryna make gag friends.

[Asker]

Unanonymize * lmao

[Opinion Owner]

How about you unanonymize yourself and I'll follow you :P I don't want everyone to know what a sensitive guy I am, it will just invite more trolling

[Asker]

I’m @distants lol

[Asker]

Oh ok don’t follow me den :(

[Opinion Owner]

already with the passive aggression XD jeeze I hope your boyfriend is as good at putting women in their place as I am, otherwise he's gunna be in for quite the rollercoaster ride ahahha

I just sent it

[Kenneth14621]

Probably not. Because they would dsire a huge penis and I am only average.

[Anonymous]

Ohhhhhh helllllsss no.
Sluts are garbage. They are good for nothing but what they have proven they are good for.

[Asker]

What do u consider a high body count? Also that’s fine just make sure ur not a hypocrite by being a man whore

[Opinion Owner]

Most females get to pick and choose who with and when they have sex, therefore it is expected that they have some standards and self regulation.
You can’t have a prestigious club if you let anyone who shows up into the party.

This doesn’t apply to men the same way... most males have to bust our asses jumping through female hoops and bullshit games to get sex, therefore a male who does it well somehow gains more value to women. It shows he is worthy for some fucked up reason.

For example, an average guy who has dated models and is known for having beautiful women is more intriguing to other females than a hot guy who no female seems to want to be around.

You guys make the rules, we just play your game.

[TallAnon]

There's always a limit. If you had sex with 350 dudes, I'd probably reconsider.

[Asker]

For sureee

[Dchrls78104]

No, sorry. Machines damaged by repeated use and abuse should be scrapped.

[Anonymous]

Wouldn't date but I could help her add to the body count

[r_r_g]

Only if she accepted to be chained and locked at home so I was certain she won't screw around.

[Anonymous]

Probably not. There's a lot of factors that come into play but that is kind of a big one.

[Anonymous]

Preferably not. But it's a beggar/chooser situation.

[Shiver]

Yeah, I'm not a hypocrite.

[Asker]

We Stan non-hypocrites