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Ok so i am back. it is a tricky matter because you find girls that just easily put out but then you also find girls that honestly feel that they have met the one every time a guy winks ate her and most men take liberty of that. that would increase the body count (now that I know what it means lol) and that might not effect my decision that much so my honest answer is No is she is cheap and yes if there is reason due to circumstances
I hope this may have helped if id di please consider MHO. have a nice day.
Haha men ain’t shit
@Asker not sure who this is directed to. If you think a man who doesn't string a woman and gives the woman the choice to walk away is a man who "ain't shit". Then don't bitch when men play women.
What do u consider a high body count?
@Asker I already answered that under Kraken's comment.
Fair enough. What’s considered a high body count to u?
If she is a casual sex kind of girl, over 10. If she is one for relationships, over 4
What’s considered a high body count?
for me in particular, and I am not speaking for other people... it will depend on age... but more than 20 will be just to much for me... i undertand 10 can happen relatively fast... but is expected a moment in wich move to more significant relations and longer ones to happen... so 15 is forgivable. but over 20... show that never happened.
All you people throwing around random numbers are so ridiculous. None of you even specify within what period of time. Within a year? 10 years? A month? None of you even mention that. Use your fucking brains, you idiots.
So u like using people 🤡
@Asker "using" in a sense of giving false hope perhaps. But "using" for sex is not him using them, because there is conscent. But since you didn't like the sound of Kraken's comment, well that's what a lot of men have to deal with. Getting used. And not even for sex that is.
@TruthBringer it’s still using them for sex. That’s fucked up. Using anyone no matter what for is wrong. And those people will either pay for the evil they do in this world or the next
@Asker as I said, if he is giving false hope, then you can see that as using on a moral sense, not a physical (because otherwise that would be rape).
Asker. I like sex. The fact that she has a high body count was a choice she made.
Asker. You seem upset about the idea of using people for sex BUT does not a "high body count" woman regularly use men for sex? Also, why do you think your pussy is so golden and magical? If you are "high body count" you have knowingly depreciated your pussy's market value. Don't hate the messenger.
@KrakenAttackin Nailed it!
Not necessarily. Women w high body counts sometimes were just in relationships w a lot of men. They don’t talk or pretend to wanna date guys sleep w them and dip
@TruthBringer using people does not = rape. Rape is non consensual sex. Using someone is to act like you care about someone just to get what you want from someone.
@TruthBringer using someone means to deceive or manipulate sex from someone. That’s not rape but is using someone
@TruthBringer & etc. anyways I go to bed fine as I know people who use people will pay for their actions in this life or the next 🥳 Bye
@Asker you've pretty much pointed out what I said. However, the dynamics for a woman with a high body count do differ as women with a high body count OFTEN stack up on bodies through casual sex. Also, these are often women who get into relationships with men only to let them down sooner or later (often sooner). I don't condone fuckboy behavior, at the same time, I doubt it's "using" someone who allows herself to get used anyway. I'd find it far more worse for a virgin women or a woman with a low-body count to get deceived.
@TruthBringer it’s wrong. Period. Anyways that’s why I’m celibate haha. Men ain’t shit. “It’s ok if to deceive someone to have sex w them, that’s not using them” 🤡
@TruthBringer what do u consider a high body count anyways?
@Asker "Men ain't shit". Yeah, pretty much sums up your mentality and misandrism. Not sure who you've just quoted, but those are definitely not my words since I've perfectly stated to be against selling someone a fantasy just so you can have sex with them and then let them down. To me, a girl who had any casual sex is already an X on my list. For me anything over the number 2 or 3 is what I personally consider high. Although those numbers pale in comparison to the majority of western women's numbers.
@TruthBringer actually if u google it it’s rape by deception
@Asker rape is having sex with someone against their will (without conscent). Having sex while deceiving someone is still them giving you conscent. So I can't call that "rape". Nice twisting work you did there. But you can't twist a definition.
@TruthBringer google it it’s actually a thing I did not know about til recently. U can be improsened for it
@TruthBringer well is it considered casual sex if u thought u were in a relationship (because they made it seem like it and made u exclusive and then they told u after u weren’t lol
@TruthBringer nvm lmao why am I bothering to ask random dudes online that I’m never going to date these questions I’m such a 🤡
@Asker so if we speak of rape, we refer to the awful act of using force or drugging someone to have sex against their will. And when it comes to being deceived, this points back to poor judgment skills and poor judgment of character. So love, if you (and by "you" I mean people in general) have sex with a man you thought he was telling you the truth, then you got yourself to blame, not the world. Nobody forced your legs open, you did it on your own. This is why conservative communities or at least families where the parents (dads in particular) are very strict and educate their children in this regard so that they DON'T fall for such traps. So you got your own naivety to blame.I Googled it and usually people who are commiting even bigger frauds are being punished for it. Not when a dude tells you sweet words that you want to hear, gets with you in bed and then leaves you hanging. It's your fault for believing him.
@TruthBringer nah it wasn’t poor judgement I was manipulated.
@TruthBringer lmao I meant does that count as casual sex?
@Asker I wouldn't call that casual since it was not meant to be casual, I will call sold a fantasy and falling for it due to poor judgment skills and poor skills of handling a situation. I know girls who thought by giving sex, they will get a relationship with the guy. They were dead wrong. Manipulation is questionable since more context is needed. Often, you weren't being "manipulated". You were simply naive. Certain people are easier to deceive than others. And that has a lot to do with lack of experience and/or lack of guidance. So learn to take accountability. You allowed yourself to get deceived because you lacked the means to smell the bullshit. Not everyone is going to fall for sweet talks from a fuckboy. And no one forced your legs open. Only the latter will get you far with the police and not the former. This is why I tell women not to sleep before having commitment and WAIT some time before proceeding to have sex within the relationship. That way you'll minimize the odds of dealing with a fuckboy. The rest depends on your own judgment skills to with whom you're getting into bed with. The "rape by deception" is far more nuanced than you make it out to be. And thus should not be tossed around so easily. There is a reason why religious communities forbid pre-marital sex. To make sure this bullshit doesn't occur.
@TruthBringer well actually nah so basically he made us exclusive told me I couldn’t even talk to other guys. The list rlly goes on. Anyways he did tell me he only was seeking a relationship in the beginning before making us exclusive no friends with benefits or hookups. The list goes on. Anyways no I don’t think it’s rape at all. I was just wondering if u considered that a casual fling. And yea people have bad judgement all the time but I don’t anymore lol
@Asker in the end it all depends on the situation. What I say is from a general perspective. Specific experiences can always vary and need to be assessed accordingly. Not everything is out of naivety and not everything is because of "rape by deception". From what I've seen it's mostly the former.
@TruthBringer just because someone was naive doesn’t mean they’re still naive. But yea it doesn’t count as casual sex
@TruthBringer anyways Gucci. I only date Christians and most Christians (I’ve met at least) will still date me cuz they know not to judge someone based of their past. As long as A) ur sorry for it b) repented c) changed ur ways & d) apologize for not waiting till marriage to ur husband since that’s a decision which effects them. But yeah I check all those boxes. It’s amazing how good of a god we have (not everyone believes in god but) who died for our sins and already paid the price of it. So I’m happy w my Christians boys and my future Christian husband over those other dudes any day. Thanks for answering my questions I was curious about. Have a good one! :)
Asker "Were in a relationship with a lot of men"... right, "in a relationship* an hour after meeting them, in a stall in the men's restroom.
What’s considered a high body count to u? Lol when did I say i wanted to date u? You’re way too old for me anyways bud
It's not about me, hon. Read the responses by the other guys here.
Oh yea that’s fine but according to most my bc isn’t considered high so I’d still be dateable
Buy do you want to date those guys? That is the question.
Yea for sure if I like the person. Lol but u didn’t answer my question what do u consider a high body count?
It's irrelevant. We're not compatible.
Context matters, but generally 2+
More than 2?
Lol 2 isn’t a lot but ok
That depends on how you view it. Some people see it as just a number, where as I see it as the most intimate act possible for our lifetime.
So if someone had 2 sexual partners and changed their ways and is celibate you wouldn’t date her?
That's difficult to say. But It's unlikely.
As long as u uphold the standards u require that’s Gucci. I don’t like hypocrites lol
How old r u anyways?
I'm early 40's, but have discovered the fountain of youth. A lady I know tried just one thing and her boyfriend has accused her of having secret Botox sessions ha!Yes, all standards I expect are exactly the same ones I hold myself too.
Fair point. What’s considered a high body count to u?
3 and up
Lol sounds like u ain’t getting any 😼
does that make you feel better about yourself, putting me down? Enjoy it... cunt. I am sexually conservative, I actually turn down women if I think that me fucking them will prevent them from having fulfilling relationships in the future. I could just act like other men, use women for sex and break their hearts, would that make you respect me more? Think about the words you say and what you are encouraging, this kind of shit is what causes young men to make big mistakes, and women are the ones who suffer in the end.
the fact is that there are women out there who appreciate my stance on these things, and I'll save my love for them, thank you very much
Lol I just don’t think 3 is a lot. My bc is 2. And I consider a high one 5.
Lol I was insulting u? Where? Just stated u we’re getting much pssy: ur the one insulting by calling me a profane word but OK bud
No stand by what you said bitch. You said 'sounds like you aren't getting any pussy' that was your response. You didn't say "5 is the real number" no you did not. Fucking own the fact that you're a mean bitch who likes destroying men's self esteem and causing them to turn into the kind of man that you ladies love to complain about, the player. I could do it. I'm 6'2, good looking, I never talk to women, they talk to me, I could EASILY DO IT you want me to be that kind of guy? You want me to emotionally destroy a bunch of women so I can get my dick wet and feel better about myself? Because that is what you are driving me towards doing. FUCKING OWN WHAT YOU SAID
Lmaooo stfu I just said sounds like ur not getting a lot of pssy. Do whatever u want don’t blame ur actions of someone else. THAT would be on YOU. And YOU only. If that makes u have a low self esteem sorry bud. I don’t get a lot of dick and if someone told me that I wouldn’t be offended lol
in what world is 'sounds like you aren't gettin any' not an insult to a man especially? Stop being so dishonest. You threw the first stone here.
Ur 36-45 u should be more emotionally mature at what people tell u even if it was meant as an insult.
you clearly don't know much about men. To be a man with sexual self restraint is basically to be called a faggot loser all your life. You don't get it.
im mid 20s this account is fake
Alright well tbh I agree people shouldn’t be promiscuous b4 marriage as I’m a Christian. But lol were all sinners. Good for u for being sexually conservative it isn’t popular. But do what u want lol idc it’s ur body, ur choice. If girls only want to fuck w no commitment and u want the same then it’s whatever. But anyways just don’t be hypocritical by not dating a person w a body count of 3 and u have a body count of 3. I mean u can be a hypocrite there’s plenty of them but haha hypocrites r trash to me
I think that if someone slipped up in their life and has a big body count because of things they went through. And they turned theyre life around I wouldn’t reject them. Each to their own 🤷♀️
oh now you're all flowers and christian. Yeah we all sin, but that is not an excuse to sin. You are part of the problem if you are going to shame sexually conservative men, you realize that right? Do you think I'm a hypocrite? You said "I don't get any" implying I have a low body count, now you are calling me a hypocrite, implying I have a high body count? You're a mess. You don't know what you are, what you want, or what you want in the world. Talk less, listen more, that's my advice to you. Maybe you learned something from this little interaction, but I doubt it.
for what it's worth, I have a body count of one, and I swore the next time I have sex it will be with the woman I intend to spend the rest of my life with. A christian should respect that, but you would rather fuck over my self esteem. Good job.
Lmao I said don’t be a hypocrite since u said I was making u wanna fuck and use girls. Lmao I didn’t say u were one 🙄 can u not read. Don’t get it twisted
“ But anyways just don’t be hypocritical ” if I was saying ur hypocrital I would’ve said stop being a hypocrite. I had no clue. What ur bc was
I think you should know by now that I'm not going to do that, but most men are doing that, BECAUSE of the kind of comments you made. Just want you to understand that you are encouraging the very thing you claim to be against. YOU are the one who is twisted. And you STILL haven't apologized.
Lmao ofc never said it was a excuse to. I’ve already repented for my sins
I'm not letting you get away with these dumb semantic arguments. "Don't be hypocritical" and "stop being a hyocrite" can be interpreted in exactly the same way in the vast overwhelming majority of situations, and I think you know that. I'm done with you. Goodbye. Try not to keep fking up
So u wouldn’t date a girl w a body count of 2? & why?
you haven't repented for shit. You are what I call a "fake ass christian". You don't understand or preach what you claim to believe in. You're a joke.
Lol I was trllong u if u start fucking and using girls like u said u were thinking about I said that’s fine just don’t be hypocrital about it. That’s all.
I never said I wouldn't date a girl with a body count of 2, I said 3 is high, and if you read my original comment, you'll see my opinion on girls with high body count. I would consider it but I'd be very cautious, and rightly so.
Yeah I have and im now celibate, but I can still comment that someone’s not getting any just like I’m not getting any
Alright well sorry for saying ur not getting any
"I was just trolling" classic excuse for being CRUEL AND MEAN. Until you can take responsibility for your words and admit that you were mean, you were cruel, and contributing towards the very thing you claim to hate, I will no longer respond. I am waiting for an "I'm sorry, that was not nice of me" BE AN ADULT
I'm still sensing some attitude here, even over the keyboard, as in you don't really understand why what you said was wrong, you are almost still trolling me in a sense. Yeah I'm psychic. I'm wasting my time here, goodbye.
Not trolling. That was a typo. I said “I was just trying to say if u do use and fuck girls just don’t be a hypocrite” I ain’t no troll haha
Sorry that wasn’t nice of me
I mean you literally said you were trolling in a previous comment "Lol I was trllong u..."so you kind of confuse me, but I guess you are trying to apologize genuinely now, so I'm sorry for calling you a cunt and a bitch, it just cuts very deep, you don't know what my life has been like and what sacrifices I have made to do right by myself and by the women I encounter.
Well that’s rare thing to see people w self control. It’s an accomplishment tbh. Anyways U should anonymize urself lol I kinda wanna follow u on here. I’m tryna make gag friends.
Unanonymize * lmao
How about you unanonymize yourself and I'll follow you :P I don't want everyone to know what a sensitive guy I am, it will just invite more trolling
I’m @distants lol
Oh ok don’t follow me den :(
already with the passive aggression XD jeeze I hope your boyfriend is as good at putting women in their place as I am, otherwise he's gunna be in for quite the rollercoaster ride ahahhaI just sent it
What’s considered a high body count?
What do u consider a high body count? Also that’s fine just make sure ur not a hypocrite by being a man whore
Most females get to pick and choose who with and when they have sex, therefore it is expected that they have some standards and self regulation. You can’t have a prestigious club if you let anyone who shows up into the party.This doesn’t apply to men the same way... most males have to bust our asses jumping through female hoops and bullshit games to get sex, therefore a male who does it well somehow gains more value to women. It shows he is worthy for some fucked up reason.For example, an average guy who has dated models and is known for having beautiful women is more intriguing to other females than a hot guy who no female seems to want to be around.You guys make the rules, we just play your game.
We Stan non-hypocrites