Wow... your whole post makes me sad. But your "update" is freaking heartbreaking.
I am positive that being small is nothing you need to worry about when it comes to guys finding you attractive. I understand that this is something that you're genuinely self-conscious about. I don't mean to minimize your feelings about being small.
But, seriously, it is TOTALLY unnecessary for you to be worrying about this--even a little bit. Guys finding smaller girls less attractive, or unattractive is just not "a thing". It's not "a thing" anywhere among any group of men.
In the history of the world, no man has ever been less attracted to a woman because she was small. It has never happened. It WILL never happen. If it's ever happened to you... you are the first exception... and you can count on never running into another guy who feels that way.
I cannot even imagine any guy telling any other guy that he finds it unattractive if a woman is too small. It would just seem ridiculous. It just doesn't compute... for any guy. It's just not how men feel about small women.
As for whether or not you can sexually satisfy a boy? OF COURSE!!! Are you kidding? Being small if anything will be a "plus" when it comes to sex, never a minus.
This is so heartbreaking because it's SO unnecessary. No guys will find you less attractive because you're small. Please, please don't worry about this. It's not a worry it makes any sense to trouble yourself with. 🙂
Personally I am only 16 yo but I prefer women with smaller bodies, if it is just what I like, it is ok if they are tall, but there is definitely no need for them to try to gain weight. I think if a guy is going to judge you based off of your weight that is just bs. But I can understand dating someone off of your preferences, but I also wouldnât worry about it, because being small is actually attractive to me, and Ik some guys are attracted to bigger girls, so I just wouldnât worry about weight. Please tell me if anything I said is wrong :)
You look great. Trust me, there are many women who starve themselves to be your size. I'm not saying that's how one should look, I'm just saying there are unrealistic body expectations placed on women. You're perfectly beautiful and healthy. Some women want to be your size and other women like yourself... want to be "thicker" I guess we can never win! Be happy! =)
any guy worth dating isnât going to judge based on just your looks. Your body is going to change over time because youâre still really young and youâll find somebody eventually so donât even worry about it
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u It is difficult to judge from two pictures of you seated. What is your height, weight, and measurements?
18 and can't gain weight ! You are one of the few people who have the have the advantage of eating anything you want and still not gaining weight. !!
The "curvy type" you mentioned is just a matter of personal preference.
A boy should love you for who you are and no matter your height and weight every individual is unique in their own sense.
Just look at Hollywood celebrities or billionaires they have it all and still end up in a divorce ever so frequently.
Be confident in your body and yourself. it is a delicate very complex machine that is with you for literally your lifetime, so don't try to binge or try eating as much as you can to gain weight. respect this work of art from nature.
most guys really ain't fussy, most guys are desperate to get any sex at all.. we can't be fussy and picky like u girls... we have to settle for anything we get,, and u look pretty attractive anyway, it dont matter ur not curvy... u look pretty n have really nice soft looking skin n kinda hot body... our dicks know no boundaries
infact ur better thn most girls most guys would love to f you
I'm curious what third-world country you must be from if you're having trouble with guys. You're too young for me to think about you sexually, but I say, you should probably move to the US or Canada or something. Or if you're already there, move out of whatever state you're currently in. Assuming you're not a catfish/troll, that is. I myself date women based on personality. As long as their looks aren't mannish, they're okay enough for me.
Yeah. I can't tell what your height is but it just looks like you're petite. Do you know how many women would kill to have your figure? I think you look great hun. Enjoy not gaining weight while your metabolism allows it because I wish I couldn't gain weight. I'm a fat guy and if I have a pop there goes one pound added to the scale.
Your date in a way that goes just about every characteristic of your appearance, but there are plenty of good who would gladly date you and you meant with about sexually satisfying a man until you're in that time and place, where I'm sure you'll have no problem.
You're not too slim, that's a nice body for a 18yo. Big boobs are not mandatory but you have nice hips that really enhance your femininity. You could almost be my daughter so I won't speak for myself, but you're bound to have success with the boys, for sure.
I really don't think you will have any problems finding a guy i like smaller women , but i really need to tell you its not about the size of your body, its who you are within, that's who I want to know first. The person on the inside... for me the outside is just a bonus I can really see who you ate in your pictures ,, but I can feel who you are through your words ,, and I know you will do just fine
Lol are you kidding? I wish more women had your problem in my state. Where I live there's an obesity rating higher than America as a whole, lol. Not me though I'm 5'9 170. I do not understand why people accept being unhealthy.
I imagine, when your metabolism slows down, you will have to work to lose weight like most. metabolism slows down as you age, definitely noticeable by 20s for many people.
I prefer curvy women. But from your body, you still have all the curves and shapes that makes you, at minimum an 7/10, and that's coming from me, someone who always chooses a think girl over a skinny one. But you have potential and obviously gusto, so kudos to you Ms sexy!!
"Sexy" is about confidence, not looks. Trust me, you learn to love & accept your own body and as you exude that confidence guys will fall over themselves to be with you
My personal preference has always been for petite women, so that's a plus for you.
I can see that you have female curves. Don't worry about the out of proportion tits and asses in the media. Those women are characatures.
I have preferences but they come secondary to what connection and chemistry we have. So, yes. I would definitely date a small framed woman.
Iâm smaller than you and I always had guys trying to date me. If someone doesnât want to date you cause of your size itâs not worth it
Can't reay tell much about your size from the sitting pictures but I'm not very picky, as long as you're not anorexic or extremely overweight I would date
Plenty of men will.
My sister is 30 years old 5'1 and 86 lbs.
She's always been popular with men.
I've never heard of a guy rejecting a girl for being "too small" unless you're child size and even then I'm sure there would be plenty of guys who wouldn't as long as you are over 18
Please don't worry about whether or not boys will date you or not because of your body.
Whenever you can, definitely take the time to take good care of yourself, stay healthy, and always love yourself as a whole and not just your body. You are more than that, please understand.
I'm not too fussy when it comes to body types on women, so yeah, based off of the pictures.
In theory, it doesn't sound ideal, but I have a variety of tastes anyway, so whatever.
Not like someone with dwarfism but small/petite girls are cute. Skinny is okay as long as it isn't dangerous like if you're bulimic or have an eating disorder. Small and chubby, small and skinny, it's cute.
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