Would u date a girl with such a small body?

Question

I'm 18yo n I can barely gain weight

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

Wow... your whole post makes me sad. But your "update" is freaking heartbreaking.

I am positive that being small is nothing you need to worry about when it comes to guys finding you attractive. I understand that this is something that you're genuinely self-conscious about. I don't mean to minimize your feelings about being small.

But, seriously, it is TOTALLY unnecessary for you to be worrying about this--even a little bit. Guys finding smaller girls less attractive, or unattractive is just not "a thing". It's not "a thing" anywhere among any group of men.

In the history of the world, no man has ever been less attracted to a woman because she was small. It has never happened. It WILL never happen. If it's ever happened to you... you are the first exception... and you can count on never running into another guy who feels that way.

I cannot even imagine any guy telling any other guy that he finds it unattractive if a woman is too small. It would just seem ridiculous. It just doesn't compute... for any guy. It's just not how men feel about small women.

As for whether or not you can sexually satisfy a boy? OF COURSE!!! Are you kidding? Being small if anything will be a "plus" when it comes to sex, never a minus.

This is so heartbreaking because it's SO unnecessary. No guys will find you less attractive because you're small. Please, please don't worry about this. It's not a worry it makes any sense to trouble yourself with. 🙂

FlySwimmer · Accepted Answer

Personally I am only 16 yo but I prefer women with smaller bodies, if it is just what I like, it is ok if they are tall, but there is definitely no need for them to try to gain weight. I think if a guy is going to judge you based off of your weight that is just bs. But I can understand dating someone off of your preferences, but I also wouldn’t worry about it, because being small is actually attractive to me, and Ik some guys are attracted to bigger girls, so I just wouldn’t worry about weight. Please tell me if anything I said is wrong :)

This_is_my_username · Accepted Answer

You look great. Trust me, there are many women who starve themselves to be your size. I'm not saying that's how one should look, I'm just saying there are unrealistic body expectations placed on women. You're perfectly beautiful and healthy. Some women want to be your size and other women like yourself... want to be "thicker" I guess we can never win! Be happy! =)

kingkathyy · Accepted Answer

any guy worth dating isn’t going to judge based on just your looks. Your body is going to change over time because you’re still really young and you’ll find somebody eventually so don’t even worry about it

OlderAndWiser · Answer

It is difficult to judge from two pictures of you seated. What is your height, weight, and measurements?

Julius_123 · Answer

18 and can't gain weight ! You are one of the few people who have the have the advantage of eating anything you want and still not gaining weight. !!
The "curvy type" you mentioned is just a matter of personal preference.
A boy should love you for who you are and no matter your height and weight every individual is unique in their own sense.
Just look at Hollywood celebrities or billionaires they have it all and still end up in a divorce ever so frequently.
Be confident in your body and yourself. it is a delicate very complex machine that is with you for literally your lifetime, so don't try to binge or try eating as much as you can to gain weight. respect this work of art from nature.

MCheetah · Answer

I'm curious what third-world country you must be from if you're having trouble with guys. You're too young for me to think about you sexually, but I say, you should probably move to the US or Canada or something. Or if you're already there, move out of whatever state you're currently in. Assuming you're not a catfish/troll, that is. I myself date women based on personality. As long as their looks aren't mannish, they're okay enough for me.

Gosceewual · Answer

most guys really ain't fussy, most guys are desperate to get any sex at all.. we can't be fussy and picky like u girls... we have to settle for anything we get,, and u look pretty attractive anyway, it dont matter ur not curvy... u look pretty n have really nice soft looking skin n kinda hot body... our dicks know no boundaries

infact ur better thn most girls most guys would love to f you

Ditto626 · Answer

Yeah. I can't tell what your height is but it just looks like you're petite. Do you know how many women would kill to have your figure? I think you look great hun. Enjoy not gaining weight while your metabolism allows it because I wish I couldn't gain weight. I'm a fat guy and if I have a pop there goes one pound added to the scale.

AydenHazor · Answer

Your date in a way that goes just about every characteristic of your appearance, but there are plenty of good who would gladly date you and you meant with about sexually satisfying a man until you're in that time and place, where I'm sure you'll have no problem.

The_Maphio · Answer

You're not too slim, that's a nice body for a 18yo. Big boobs are not mandatory but you have nice hips that really enhance your femininity. You could almost be my daughter so I won't speak for myself, but you're bound to have success with the boys, for sure.

ohshee · Answer

I really don't think you will have any problems finding a guy i like smaller women , but i really need to tell you its not about the size of your body, its who you are within, that's who I want to know first. The person on the inside... for me the outside is just a bonus I can really see who you ate in your pictures ,, but I can feel who you are through your words ,, and I know you will do just fine

Mossberg500 · Answer

Lol are you kidding? I wish more women had your problem in my state. Where I live there's an obesity rating higher than America as a whole, lol. Not me though I'm 5'9 170. I do not understand why people accept being unhealthy.

I imagine, when your metabolism slows down, you will have to work to lose weight like most. metabolism slows down as you age, definitely noticeable by 20s for many people.

shalt · Answer

I prefer curvy women. But from your body, you still have all the curves and shapes that makes you, at minimum an 7/10, and that's coming from me, someone who always chooses a think girl over a skinny one. But you have potential and obviously gusto, so kudos to you Ms sexy!!

Lliam · Answer

My personal preference has always been for petite women, so that's a plus for you.
I can see that you have female curves. Don't worry about the out of proportion tits and asses in the media. Those women are characatures.

TheCunningLinguist · Answer

I have preferences but they come secondary to what connection and chemistry we have. So, yes. I would definitely date a small framed woman.

DJB72 · Answer

"Sexy" is about confidence, not looks. Trust me, you learn to love & accept your own body and as you exude that confidence guys will fall over themselves to be with you

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

I’m smaller than you and I always had guys trying to date me. If someone doesn’t want to date you cause of your size it’s not worth it

Joshua0213 · Answer

Can't reay tell much about your size from the sitting pictures but I'm not very picky, as long as you're not anorexic or extremely overweight I would date

Dinklex3 · Answer

Plenty of men will. My sister is 30 years old 5'1 and 86 lbs. She's always been popular with men.

HawkPerception · Answer

Looks very attractive to me. I love petite bodies and I believe most men do. You will have absolutely no problem having guys attracted to you in terms of body. Face is another story.

Leavesbound · Answer

I've never heard of a guy rejecting a girl for being "too small" unless you're child size and even then I'm sure there would be plenty of guys who wouldn't as long as you are over 18

gmanji · Answer

Please don't worry about whether or not boys will date you or not because of your body.

Whenever you can, definitely take the time to take good care of yourself, stay healthy, and always love yourself as a whole and not just your body. You are more than that, please understand.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I'm not too fussy when it comes to body types on women, so yeah, based off of the pictures. In theory, it doesn't sound ideal, but I have a variety of tastes anyway, so whatever.

Shaggy_KW · Answer

Not like someone with dwarfism but small/petite girls are cute. Skinny is okay as long as it isn't dangerous like if you're bulimic or have an eating disorder. Small and chubby, small and skinny, it's cute.

genericname85 · Answer

i'm sure you can sexually satisfy "a" boy. not saying you're bad by any means. you seem in a quite good and attractive shape... but having said that: preferences are different and i bet not "every" boy is into what you have to offer.

nawtee_me · Answer

sexually satisfying a guy in bed has nothing to do with a small body or a larger one. It has to do with your desire sexually for your pleasure and his. If you are not getting the pleasure you need from the sex you won't give the pleasure he needs from the sex either. You look like a beautiful girl to me and I would certainly have sex with you

lucifer4622 · Answer

well you look fit and healthy... i see no problem here  if you think you're not good enough , you're very very wrong young lady.

RealMarek · Answer

I would have dated you when I was your age. Your waist is narrower than your hips. You are lean but have some curves. You have a feminine figure... nothing to worry about!

Lauren-green · Answer

Don't worry, in a couple of years your metabolism will slow down and you will put on weight faster than you want to lol

teamvic · Answer

I think its fine, every guy has a different taste, and for some reason a lot of girls think guys are a lot more picky than they really are

JamieLoves · Answer

Yes... What are you talking about? What’s wrong with it? Hers a little secret , I can’t see your chest, but if that’s your issue. I and many guys prefer small or flat chested girls.
Smile 😊 ... Now be all that you can be!

JUST1NC · Answer

I think of it this way if they judge you on your weight they are not right for you anyway, this is coming from a guy who is also very skinny

Anonymous · Answer

You don't need to gain weight at all you're absolutely gorgeous. Just embrace the fact that you're petit. You're many guys' type so don't try to be anything else. Just be you and have fun!!

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Small is sexy, and petite is pretty! 😄 You have a really nice figure, I prefer shorter girls generally anyways

Anonymous · Answer

Let’s be real, you’re thin and probably attractive; so you’ve got nothing physically blocking your way to sexually satisfying anyone. A guy won’t care if you’re a little on the small side as long as you don’t starfish in bed.

Miristheiss · Answer

That figure looks 100% healthy and normal.  I don't see what the problem is... there isn't one.  Don't make life harder than it has to be.

Massageman · Answer

5'5" and 110 pounds sound like a good start to me. Have a couple of protein milkshakes and do some "core work" and "hip/glute" exercises.

RHK36 · Answer

There's no problem with your body, try not to stress too much over it. If there's a guy that has issues with it then that fool has issues.

Anonymous · Answer

you can "barely gain weight"? honestly you don't look THAT skinny where it's hard for you to gain weight. could be skinnier.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. You don't even look small and based on your measurements, you aren't. There are plenty of men (myself included) that find your build perfect as opposed to "thick" women.

Surely · Answer

You are what you are! As long as you are healthy don’t worry about what other people think. And yes. If I were your age I would date you.

DWornock · Answer

The girl in the photos looks fine to me. If you look like that, why would you want to gain weight? Do you want to be a big girl?

Anonymous · Answer

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magiusX26 · Answer

plenty of us guys find your body type very attractive so your good to go.

Eeeyore18 · Answer

I prefer small/petite girls rather than curvy and bigger women. You tinies just turn me on 😘😍😋🤤

es20490446e · Answer

Carrying you in the palm of my hand, quite convenient.

Maspolomas · Answer

Yes I would definitely date a small girl my girlfriend now is 4’11 a yes you can sexually satisfy a boy or man

Alonewolf003 · Answer

of course you can sexuallt satisfy a boy, you are a lady it is in your blood. and you are really good by the way.

niceguy0505 · Answer

yeah, its perfectly fine. Obviously as a guy, I like boobs and all but yeah, I still get attracted towards different body types. I have had crush both on skinny girls and curvy girls.

zagor · Answer

Not a problem at all. Though I don't think I'd date someone with such a small age.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't think she had a choice. She's probably just small because of her genetics.

Lilbrown · Answer

This must be a rhetorical question! Fun size is the best size...

Anonymous · Answer

Hey, why are u so negative? I like your body a lot:)

mortal1989 · Answer

Yes If my love it's true and we made for each other

bananathunder · Answer

can't see the booty but the front looks fine in my opinion

Paul09 · Answer

As long as your healthy and fit, I would definitely.

Havill4nd · Answer

There's more to people than the shape of their bodies.

Lottifan · Answer

Your figure looks good but it would probably be easier to judge if you do a couple of photos standing. Just have confidence in yourself. You can definitely sexually satisfy a boy.

K-I-S-S · Answer

Looking cute.  Have you tried bouldering? A form of climbing. It helps to build your strenght, posture, confidence, figure and is tons of fun.

Anonymous · Answer

girl u have an amazing body... and don go for a person who only wants to date u for ur body unless you want a friends with benefits kind or relationship.

Holly_04 · Answer

Coming from a bisexual person's pov, you're fucking gorgeous, even if you can't put weight on

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

O cf course you can and sure I would. Why do you think cause your small you couldn't satisfy a guy

sixtyeightplusone · Answer

oh YES! That is my favorite body type. Don't get fat, no one loves a fat girl.

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