How can I get over this fear or rejection?

[Anonymous]

When dating, at first, I am very alluring. When I find a guy and I express interest in him, he usually express interest back.

With a few guys that I dated, a few of them rejected me because they lost interest in me. They dated me and zipped out too early to get to know me—which is fine, but the rejection (s) hurt. I found this guy and I think he likes me back.

Over the past few weeks, I have questioned: when is he going to lose interest in me? I’m just afraid that he will decide I’m not as interesting as he may have thought. I guess I’m just really insecure. I know this is a shitty mindset to have. How can I help correct this thinking?

[boggboss]

U accept rejection as a part off the dating process lol as it is

[scott04sa22]

I have the same problem. All we can do is just move on from it.

[Anonymous]

Learn from every experience and work on improving your flaws that might hinder your interactions with other people. Don't take every dating opportunity too personally. Rather, take it as an opportunity to introspect on yourself and experience self-growth and pruning. Use these men as mirrors meant to reflect your shortcomings to yourself, so you can feel "worthy" of the "one" when you meet him.