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Then I hold a bunch of pads next to my crotch and take pic with staff. Then I sign, "With Love" on it with a little envelope and include picture of me and the staff together.
How hard is it? You take a picture on your phone of the tampons you use, you tell him, go to this store it will be in this aisle... Simple. Why do people make things so difficult in life.
How come your husband not be able to buy the correct period product for you? My father has bought mine before and he always managed to buy the proper ones when I told him what brand and color of packaging it is. You can always keep a picture of your preferred pads that he can refer to. It's no big deal. At worst in the beginning it will be hard for him to know which one to buy but with time they have it in their memory and don't struggle anymore.Also, good for you that you went to buy your own pads in 24 hours, not all women have that ability and saying that we are not 'real ladies' was extremely insensitive on your part.
@DC_Underground it's not really about him learning. I'd rather be independent and take care of myself like it's not my partner's job to be taking care of me
@CubsterShura I don't really care if I'm insensitive. Everyone should learn how to take care of themselves.
A woman who just gave birth and not in the condition to buy pads on her own is not capable of taking care of herself? You're kidding, right?
Part of being of partner is taking care or helping your spouse. It’s fine to be independent but a caring relationship is a joint effort. I mean heck I have heard the greatest athletes in sports say things like “IfI am tired as hell, I need to count on my teammates to help me out”. If I had a girlfriend or wife and she was sick and she preferred a certain medicine I would get. Even if it was 2am I would still go out, it’s my obligation as boyfriend or husband to help. It’s different when someone is completely dependent on their spouse. For example - guys today shouldn’t have the mindset of men in the 1970s where he expects his wife to cook for him every night for 40+ years. It’s a joint effort, that’s why I learned to cook Italian food, Chinese food, Indian food and etc. It’s to help out the future girl I get married to.
@CubsterShura I was able to take care of myself after birth
@DC_Underground I'm married to a man in the military so it's not like I can depend on him. There is no other choice than being independent
Ok but that doesn’t mean literally 24/7, it’s fine to get help. It’s your spouse not a friend where you feel awkward asking. It’s your life you can think that way, I’m different I don’t mind doing that for a girl I’m with.
@DC_Underground Totally agree with you take a pic of the product and mail to him problem solved
Not a valid excuse
@kitty71 I think the real problem would be solved by doing a pick up order and making him pick it up. The women gets the right product, man doesn't get embarrassed or overwhelmed trying to find what she needs. I'm not saying my husband wouldn't do this for me because he definitely would do anything I ask but I'm personally responsible enough for buying what I need so I'd never be in this situation anyways
@Apple1996 You were able to take care of yourself, good for you. That is not something to be arrogant about, that is something to be grateful for.And why would a man be uncomfortable buying pads? It's literally no big deal at all, chill. It's just buying a freaking pad, we're not saying men have to put it on us and what not.And just because you can manage something on your own doesn't mean that there is anything bad about having a helping hand. Do you and your husband cook your meals separately? Do you do wash your dishes separately? Do you make your half of the bed and leave his side for him to take care of? Do you do your laundry separately? Do you make your money and spend on yourselves separately?Sure literally every woman can get her own period products and I get most of mine too, but family is there to make things easier and more comfortable!
@CubsterShura we don't share chores like that. Were very traditional. I do all the cooking/cleaning/taking care of the kids and he works. We don't really spend money on ourselves just mostly spend money on the kids. My husband doesn't just go to the store by himself that is obviously my job so it would pretty weird if I made him go buy me things like tampons. It would be like if he asked me for money when I don't work. I guess for people with non traditional gender roles it's normal but for us that doesn't work.
You don't earn your own money but think buying your own tampon makes you 'independent'?Yikes.
@CubsterShura making money doesn't define someone as independent. And not sure if you know this but in the military if you're married you make double money. Literally my husband makes money by having me as a wife. Plus I'm extremely independent with my children. I've only ever left my son for one day while I was giving birth to his brother. Other than that nobody else has ever watched my children besides me. I'd rather be independent with watching my children then ditching them with daycare so I could work and be "independent"making money. There is many more ways in life to show independence other then working.
Well buying your pads on your own isn't necessarily something that proves any independence either. What makes you independent is being capable of sustaining yourself on your own, and that's all there is to it. Saying that a woman is not independent if a male family member bought her pads is a pretty messed up mindset.Your husband isn't an infant that you can't trust him with buying you this.Now look, no one cares who buys you pads and if you're the one who does the grocery shopping so that's why he just never happens to buy you pads, that is totally ok and again no one cares. What's bothersome is the mindset that you can't trust your husband like he is some kind of infant and coming with narratives like if a woman has to need a man to buy her pads at times she's not an independent woman taking care of herself... Yikes big yikes.
@CubsterShura it is literally being dependent if you expect your man to go buy you shit that you should have been prepared with in the first place. Not sure how you're not seeing that
Having someone that you can depend on doesn't necessarily mean that you are not self-sufficient or independent on your own.It's this simple: yes I can buy my own pads and I can manage without having a man to buy for me, however I have men in my life that I can rely on and sometimes they do and there's nothing wrong with it, in fact why would I make myself do the hard work and just get out to buy pads when I know dad will be back in a few hours and he could just buy some for me on the way?You're acting like a man buying a woman pads is like some kinda abomination to woman independence, or if a woman has a man buying her pads sometimes it means she is some Primadonna who cannot take care of herself.
Yeah completely same thing 🤣, but I do agree not a big deal it just a cotton or synthetic cotton paper 🤣🤣
U have kids?
@yofuknutz Of course not. I'm way too young for that.
I figured, IUD at your age is VERY young unless U already have kids. Make sure that U get a full STD panel a few times a year, STD+IUD= PID, not fun at all. If possible just don't do it. Be safe, I started at your age so I remember the pitfalls. In the meantime, hear is some easy listening music from "mind hunters "https://youtu.be/0H6re3PCP3E
What is wrong about a man buying pads to their woman? It is a woman natural thing. What is the harm? But then women do have to buy the condoms for you lousy man?
Uhhh you heavily misinterpreted what I said.
Please feel free she gave us the proper interpretation
@yofuknutz I think she is trying to say that it's weird/pathetic that guys are catergorized into two types for this. Which I agree on with
But needs more specific clarification
For clarification: What on earth does it even mean to be the 'type' to buy pads? Like you mean to tell me that it requires a certain type of man to fucking go to the grocery store and pick up some pads or something? Grow the fuck up, my goodness!
Take it out*
I would help remove the tampon and would you let me watch you insert the new tampon?
Yes if you're my man.
That would be fun actually.
It would turn me on actually. I would want to go down during that time too. Orgasms help with cramps.
Keeping it 100% real.
Oh you're a freak! I like that.. But, ya i have tried these things before. And ya cramps got better.
I love period sex. Its very amazing
I do not know a guy who does not like period sex. I had 1 boyfriend first time we had sex was on my period and a very heavy day. All was GOOD& FUN
Heavy period sex is great actually. I love sex
Uh huh! It's the feel of itFor the pleasure, for the pain. You better sit down somewhere, I'll have you addicted to the thrill of it..
Pleasure for sure. Love period sex day one until it is done.
awe what :(( thas sad
He sounds like a real gentleman. Lol.
Lol isn't that women don't want men to do? Damn you people confuse the hell out of guys.Do many people have beaten down the throat of men they don't need such chivalry.Also if its cold why would you not bring your own jacket or cover yourself as much as required, you want your man to be cold 🤣🤣👍 I am just joking Ok it is funny
He is just trying to treat you equally and not as a fragils being 😊
@Aakash_Hangargi women want the better end of the stick, they only say they want ''equality'' bc they wanna fuck randoms and not being labeled as easy or a slut
Some of the comments are irrelevant. I think whether it's a man or woman, I don't respect one who has sex with random people, because if they don't respect themselves, I don't see the point of respecting them.
@Aakash_Hangargi I do dress as warm as I could, but sometimes I might still be cold, since I don't tolerate cold well. My boyfriend doesn't tolerate warmth, and he actually likes the cold 😶
Can you ask him one day to buy some? I'm curious
He might consider it if I gsve him the money.
I wouldn’t mind, when a guy cares he won’t mind.
What kind of men have u been dating
@StilleWillem don't want to talk about it. I just can't imagine a guy buying anything/ doing anything for me unless there's money involved
Just like any other stuff, we may forget about pads too until we get it
The thing on some question women asked here should j break up with a guy if he doesn't brush on certain days sonething like that and it was related to hygine I understand she is worried about his hygine that is Good but breakup? Lol and same /some women want/demand period sex and want men to be OK with it.So just like that it should be considered as careless in maintaining hygine right double standards and hypocracy hmm.Anyways I agree with you people can forget, but it's an necessary item can't afforded to be forgotten.I had thought that it would get contaminated or expired if stocked..
And thank you for the info..
Even i had seen that teeth brushing thing. Break up is too much.And lol i don't think they got an expiry date🤔It's something that can't be forgotten. But i don't think the Asker meant only if your girlfriend is on her periods and she needs it urgently. What if you're going to the store and she says she need it for next week like any other stuff?She's basically trying to stock up
You are right, I was not against men purchasing them no lol that's something every guy can do for any girl even a stranger not a big deal to fuss about some women just don't want to talk or are comfortable to speak of it.I am sure if boys are educated during teens itself about such natural things and in a way the the explainer is not himself is grossing out boys would be to grow up as considerate men.Well there will be always few exceptions.And women should stop getting grossed out first then can expect men to see at as normal first they have to accept that it's normal
Those few exceptions should not be having a good girlfriend
Well sure, but that cannot be the only factor right? Haha
I would like to say that you make conversations interesting 👍🌺
It's not the only factor. But i won't stay with such a guy. See it's not just a pad that he is refusing to get. I don't see any big deal in buying a pad. If he has problems in buying a small stuff as a pad, how can i be assured that if ever i stain his bedsheets during my periods, he won't become a godzilla and attack me? Or if i ever fall sick with something embarrassing, he won't go out to buy the medicine for that?Periods is when i need a boyfriend the most and if my boyfriend is unsupportive during that time, then i don't see any reason in keeping such a person aroundAnd thanks😊
I am sure, if he is educated properly by his girlfriend reasonable men do understand not a big deal it's just the conditioning.Well people go so far for love, a buying a pad is literally nothing 😂..
But i am sure there're some such guys
They're simps dude and they do it in hope of getting their nudesBuying pads/tampons doesn't assure sex/BJ
I guess most men are now known as simps because the meaning of a man is only found in books or Old movies.
They choose to be what they're known as
@Hangry22 what if they don't know any different. Beleive me, I'm not sure how old are you but you will meet so many males who are old enough to be called a man but would act like a child or irresponsible kid who needs a mommy.
Maybe one his friends took itI don't know why a stranger would do this
I thought the question said are u the type to not buy, so my changed answer nis yes, my boyfriend would do that lol
Hoes know how to get railed, so you should be able to lift ur fat ass and go get them