I don't know the book so can't answer specifically about that book.
I'll say that most of those types of books are not really aimed at the average guy. They are aimed at pickups and active daters. Whereas the average guy just wants a girl.
Most of those books act like "success" with women means the more women you get the more "successful" you are. Some answers to this question are doing the same thing. If that's your goal, then it probably really is success.
But for most guys, who just want a girl, then why take advice from a guy who can't or won't hang onto a girl? Getting one girl, and sticking with her, is more of a success than getting lots of girls. Getting lots of women is a failure if your goal is to just get a girl you like. Hanging onto a girl, and living with her, and marrying her, and most importantly staying with her, says a lot. It means you are doing something right.
Most of those books work for guys who only need a little shove and a little confidence. They won't work for guys who need advice the most. Because the ones who need help the most won't be able to do what most dating advice says. It's completely worthless for them.
The only way to really judge a book is to read it and see what it does for you. If it helps you get what you want, then it's a good book. But it's entirely individual.
Here at GaG used to actually be a good site for the average guy or girl. But it's gotten away from that. Instead of a place where guys and girls can listen to normal average guys and girls and find out what's going through their head, it's turned into Girls VS Guys instead of Girls Ask Guys.
The site still has something to offer if people can filter all the BS and actually listen to what normal girls and guys have to say. Nobody is going to figure it out by viewing the other as the enemy. They aren't going to figure it out by thinking the other is lying. They won't figure it out by thinking the other doesn't know their own mind and doesn't really know what they want.
This site is the BEST place I know of to learn. But you have to filter the BS and actually listen.
Although I am not looking to date, I've noticed that being on my purpose attracts women a lot. Obviously you will need to discover your purpose first, and that can take time. It gets to the point that your purpose is more important than any woman, and you naturally have zero outcome dependency. Something else that happens when you're on your purpose is you are excited too.
Recently I was talking to a girl and she asked me about my weekend. I was so excited about what I'd been doing and all she was concerned about was whether she excited me as much... pretty funny really.
You will also notice women making sexual remarks because they are not afraid you will be desperate and thirsty too...
Reading a book is probably not the way to go. Even If it were possible how much better? Do you think you could become a better boxer or baseball player. The only way to get better at it is to get out there and do it. Watch real interactions and learn from someone who is good at it in person. Your going to find out real quick it has to do with confidence how you carry yourself paying attention to how they respond. You have to be able to make them laugh and feel comfortable around you
Whatever you read, you need to make sure above ANYTHING else that what you're doing is PRACTICING with REAL women in the FIELD. Get a LOT of reps in. SUPER critical. Make it your goal to literally start conversations with and get blown out by 10 attractive women every day for the rest of the month.
I havenāt read his stuff because all the guys who are the real deal say that heās full of shit.
If you believe for a second that reading a book will improve your dating experience you are easily scammed. The only thing that will help you is to become tall and good-looking, or wealthy.
The subtitle is promising.
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