Too much work to get them to express themselves without playing all sorts of passive-aggressive games. Not as confident sexually. They can get jealous over extroverted partners who get a lot of attention because they tend to have lower self-esteem.
It may be hard to get a date with a shy girl. I'm a shy girl but secretly an extrovert on the inside. When guys Im interested in talk to me, i just freeze up and keep conversations as short as possible. I have turned off many guys that way
2 shy people would never work out so that's when you shouldn't ever date a shy person is when you are shy yourself. Who's going to find the courage to ask the other person out?
The only one I can think of is if you are extremely extroverted and outgoing, even then it is unreasonable to turn someone down solely on the fact that they are socially uncomfortable.
Perhaps they will be less adventurous or exciting. Perhaps they will be less able to challenge and contend with you in the relationship resulting in slower or less personal development on your behalf. Perhaps they will be less willing to integrate themselves into your social circles causing you to withdraw, and or they themselves may be less well connected and therefore have less to offer socially.
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I think the disadvantage of dating a shy girl is you never know what safe and what's not, is she too shy to be kissed, to talk about stuff, to open up, the right time to be intimate
Well, I’m not shy, but I am introverted, and people seem to confuse the two. I’m sure a lot of people would like to date me because I don’t blurt out the first thing that comes to my head.
It takes a very long time to get them to open up, so if you're not a patient person its not a great Idea. But once they do open up its like a floodgate of pure dorkiness and its awesome. Besides, shy people are freakier in bed don't ya know.
anyone who doesn't want to make a commitment to someone and doesn't want to wait for a shy person to open up, should simply not expect their relationships to last that long.
In my experience, communication was always a chore. Even when I asked her things, she wouldn't give me straight answers, and so I had to get really good at reading between the lines.
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Too much work to get them to express themselves without playing all sorts of passive-aggressive games. Not as confident sexually. They can get jealous over extroverted partners who get a lot of attention because they tend to have lower self-esteem.
They're just often not as fun , comfortable and exciting as others & they need a lot of help not being so shy
It may be hard to get a date with a shy girl. I'm a shy girl but secretly an extrovert on the inside. When guys Im interested in talk to me, i just freeze up and keep conversations as short as possible. I have turned off many guys that way
2 shy people would never work out so that's when you shouldn't ever date a shy person is when you are shy yourself. Who's going to find the courage to ask the other person out?
The only one I can think of is if you are extremely extroverted and outgoing, even then it is unreasonable to turn someone down solely on the fact that they are socially uncomfortable.
Perhaps they will be less adventurous or exciting.
Perhaps they will be less able to challenge and contend with you in the relationship resulting in slower or less personal development on your behalf.
Perhaps they will be less willing to integrate themselves into your social circles causing you to withdraw, and or they themselves may be less well connected and therefore have less to offer socially.
I think the disadvantage of dating a shy girl is you never know what safe and what's not, is she too shy to be kissed, to talk about stuff, to open up, the right time to be intimate
If she is way too shy like she barely talks or opens up, I can't see how we will be able to form a deep bond.
She makes you feel uncomfortable and unwelcoming like you are bugging her while a friendly person is more open and engaging making you feel welcomed.
Well, I’m not shy, but I am introverted, and people seem to confuse the two. I’m sure a lot of people would like to date me because I don’t blurt out the first thing that comes to my head.
It takes a very long time to get them to open up, so if you're not a patient person its not a great Idea. But once they do open up its like a floodgate of pure dorkiness and its awesome. Besides, shy people are freakier in bed don't ya know.
I don't like it because I wind up having to carry the entire conversation.
anyone who doesn't want to make a commitment to someone and doesn't want to wait for a shy person to open up, should simply not expect their relationships to last that long.
Only downside is if you want to live a life in a constant spotlight, at parties, at family meetups, etc etc.
Then she is not a right girl for you.
I actually prefer shy girls, they seem nicer and more thoughful.
I don't see any. The problem with shy girl is to get the initial contact. If your actually dating your past the issues with having a shy girl.
If I were single, I would date a girl by her personality, not by her being shy or not.
They are usually good people. They don't stab you in the back, they are honest and can be trusted. Generally speaking.
I think shy women are actually more approachable because their exhibiting a behavior that could be interpreted as vulnerable.
In my experience, communication was always a chore. Even when I asked her things, she wouldn't give me straight answers, and so I had to get really good at reading between the lines.
Lack of communication skills, self esteem, maturity etc.