Not necessarily. I don’t think anyone should push to have sex on the first date but I don’t think it’s going to hurt things if both parties really like each other. I’m actually talking to someone right now & things got sexual on the first date but we’re still good.
Technically no, it is how it is handled after. Sex is just sex, and sometimes it is good for testing compatibility in the bedroom. If you can still be honest, care about the person after, and not build the relationship off of just sex, you're fine.
The sex can remove the stress of the anticipation between us and help to build a bond quickly if you vibe with each other on a personal level, buyers remorse is more prevalent with the wait because you build up your perception of each other based on false imagery and the need to impress.
Depends, if someone who isn't serious about a relationship they may take advantage of the other person's emotions and ghost them after sex or sex might not be good enough or they only care about having fun themselves and not the other person too.
Of course the sex isn't going to be great, it takes time, repetition and a little fine tuning to figure out what you each want from the other. You only get the thrill of a new body you're exploring to wash over those with a ONS or friends with benefits.
Not necessarily, it depends on the situation and the people involved.
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If I haven’t already sensed that he was just on the prowl for sex, and hinted with sexual advances on the first date, he wouldn’t be someone I’d take seriously in the relationship department.. at that point I placed him in a certain category and I become detached, somewhat heartless, in the sense that if he ended up falling for me later on if we continued to date, I wouldn’t feel bad rejecting him...
Not really. I've learned that there's usually a 5 month window where baggage is allowed or not cared about whether sex happens the first night or many dates later.
If I like them that much, I won’t sleep with them on a first date. If I did, I wouldn’t see them again.
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Yes and no. I met a person I liked before and wanted a serious relationship. I thought she wanted something serious after she wanted sex but it didn't work out. I eventually met someone, got sexually involved and now married for 8 years. Sometimes you meet someone that have the qualities you're looking for.
If you have taken the time to get to know each other before having an official date, I don't think first date sex would kill the potential for a relationship.
If he tryna fuck, I’m down. Why beat around the bush when we can both beat meats.
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Hello? Who doesn't have sex on the first date? I think I didn't have sex one the first date maybe 2x... but nailed them both second date.
Who has time to waste to get to know each other? Thier is over 50% chance you aren't gonna make it more then 6 months anyway... most are divorced within a few years.
Fuck for the best, while you fuck for the worst...
I mean pray for the best, but be prepare for the worst.
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I had sex with my husband on the first date and we've been together ever since. It's important to show him how you feel right away.
Not necessarily. I don’t think anyone should push to have sex on the first date but I don’t think it’s going to hurt things if both parties really like each other. I’m actually talking to someone right now & things got sexual on the first date but we’re still good.
Technically no, it is how it is handled after. Sex is just sex, and sometimes it is good for testing compatibility in the bedroom. If you can still be honest, care about the person after, and not build the relationship off of just sex, you're fine.
The sex can remove the stress of the anticipation between us and help to build a bond quickly if you vibe with each other on a personal level, buyers remorse is more prevalent with the wait because you build up your perception of each other based on false imagery and the need to impress.
I am waiting till marriage so if a guy want on the 1st date... see ya later!
Depends, if someone who isn't serious about a relationship they may take advantage of the other person's emotions and ghost them after sex or sex might not be good enough or they only care about having fun themselves and not the other person too.
Of course the sex isn't going to be great, it takes time, repetition and a little fine tuning to figure out what you each want from the other. You only get the thrill of a new body you're exploring to wash over those with a ONS or friends with benefits.
Sex on a first date is not a relationship killer. In fact, why should it be a relationship killer?
Not necessarily, it depends on the situation and the people involved.
If I haven’t already sensed that he was just on the prowl for sex, and hinted with sexual advances on the first date, he wouldn’t be someone I’d take seriously in the relationship department.. at that point I placed him in a certain category and I become detached, somewhat heartless, in the sense that if he ended up falling for me later on if we continued to date, I wouldn’t feel bad rejecting him...
No. If I stop pursuing the girl after first date sex, it was because I was only interested in sex with her.
I have never lost attraction to a girl I was genuinely interested in just because she had sex with me sooner rather than later.
Heck, one of my best relationships, which lasted 2 years, started as a random drunken hookup.
How can it be? There isn’t a relationship yet to kill
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Unless it’s a casual relationship I don’t see one forming
Not really. I've learned that there's usually a 5 month window where baggage is allowed or not cared about whether sex happens the first night or many dates later.
If I like them that much, I won’t sleep with them on a first date. If I did, I wouldn’t see them again.
Yes and no. I met a person I liked before and wanted a serious relationship. I thought she wanted something serious after she wanted sex but it didn't work out. I eventually met someone, got sexually involved and now married for 8 years. Sometimes you meet someone that have the qualities you're looking for.
If you have taken the time to get to know each other before having an official date, I don't think first date sex would kill the potential for a relationship.
If he tryna fuck, I’m down. Why beat around the bush when we can both beat meats.
Hello? Who doesn't have sex on the first date? I think I didn't have sex one the first date maybe 2x... but nailed them both second date.
Who has time to waste to get to know each other? Thier is over 50% chance you aren't gonna make it more then 6 months anyway... most are divorced within a few years.
Fuck for the best, while you fuck for the worst...
I mean pray for the best, but be prepare for the worst.
Well if you have sex on the first date it depends on her preformance, to know if it is worth going on a second date
You can build a house without laying a foundation yes, but don't expect it to last when the storm comes.