Guys do you like it when a girl you are with gets attention or looks when you're walking with her down the street?

Question

If so please elaborate. How does it make you feel? If not, how does it make you feel and why?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It’s expected. What’s the point of me getting jealous. Now this may be hypocritical to say this but I’ll say it anyways. I do think it girls or women are married or in a relationship they should dress with modesty. If a girl is wearing a top showing half her cleavage what is that gaining? I never understood the idea of being sexy so let’s wear less. I can understand girls doing that to attract more male attention if she’s single or wants an ego boost. But if a guy or a man is reassuring her and loving her she shouldn’t seek attention from other males. Just like a woman or a girl would not want a guy or a man to show off for other women. But for some reason girls will get mad that I say this. I’m sorry ladies, you can’t have it your way and then have your piece of the pie to. I’ve always learned to be courageous for women and help them. Yeah I’m not doing that if I sacrificed my life for a girl who I almost got hit by a car and I saved her life. Well... she better not spend the next day partying at a club and dancing with 10 guys. That’s what I don’t respect about girls today. It seems like everything is a dick fest and to show off as much as possible. Eventually age catches up.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it depends on the context, mostly I dont really mind it. What does bother me is when she goes beyond that to brag about attention she gets at work.

As an example, bragging that some guy came into the shop (she's a retail assistant) and was saying he wants to get her number and take her out for drinks. I think in that case it bothered me because she brags about it and because she just let him carry on and hasn't turned him down or told him she is taken. isn't the only case either she's had 2 or 3 other guys including staff make moves on her that she hasn't exactly declined.

She sees it as harmless fun but we all know how some guys minds work.

Sarahr123 · Accepted Answer

I ignore everyone on the street and don’t care if they’re looking at me or not yet my dressing was controlled from head to toe. Some men are so insecure they’ll dress you in a tent and tell you you’re hideous until you crack and lose confidence in yourself just because they’re insecure themselves. You need to realise what people are trying to do because there are nasty ass people who play some nasty games.

Kas19 · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend just doesn't like me being stared at or eye fucked. I don't like that either. But checking me out is totally cool.

Ernie883 · Answer

We secretly feel the best about everything including our selves if it's obvious that every male in building wants very much to be me or at least obtain what I got. Is what everyone wants is awesome. Will denied cause is weak as fuck to care what other men think. Many need pee or poop involved. Even more need child to force themselves on and obviously is not pleasurable at all in any way. So why carw of there opinion. We are petty weak assholes!

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

See attention is something that a girl get freely and nobody can stop that and they also feel good about it.

Gives them confidence and makes them feel prity if there is no touching or catcalling just admiring from far away I would just tease her with a compliment.

If the person is crossing there line would have to take matters in hand and would shield girlfriend bc she should not get bad eye {Nazar lag jati hain}.

RingOfFire · Answer

Makes me feel great. Not dating anyone now, but my ex got some serious attention every time we were in public.

Guys would check her out by the dozens any time they thought I didn't see them.

Sometimes if pissed her off, but she was used to it and just ignored it.

What guy doesn't like having arm candy?

Leavesbound · Answer

Well for one thing it makes me proud she's on my arm. Kind of like "nah nah nah nah nah look what I've got that you can't have!"

Anonymous · Answer

Makes me feel that it doesn't matter if I'm there or not she will get attention from other men

So if my partner is getting attention, she can get all the attention she wants to I am going back home. I'm not going to stay there and get humiliated.

Ifriqyan · Answer

Ew i wouldn't want to be with a man like that. Call it toxic or whatever you want, but it's hot when a man doesn't want other men to gawk at HIS WIFE.

Citizenkirk · Answer

If you are noticing the looks she is getting from other people more than you are noticing her, than maybe those other people are more deserving of her affections than you are.

Whatever2929292 · Answer

Ehhh... I don't really like it if they know I am with someone. But I am told I get checked out a lot myself so... I don't know if it is true

RealMarek · Answer

I’m indifferent to it as long as it doesn’t cross the line into rudeness toward my girlfriend. I don’t seek validation from what other men think, nor do I feel insecure about her loyalty to me.

slatyb · Answer

Love it. I want to be with the woman other men want.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t like it. It makes me consider the possibility of getting into trouble with strangers and I’m going to have to fight or something. If she was completely overlooked and ignored then we can walk without a care.

Anonymous · Answer

Some of the men are so desperate that they will look at anything, so don't take me in a wrong way but guys don't care if anyone stares at our partner because all guys think of only one thing that he must be lucky to have her, wish i could get a girlfriend like her or wish i could bang this one at least once :P

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Yes if she's dressed modest and is just beautiful. Yes if she's dressed sexy and is clearly with me. No if she's dressed sexy but not obviously with me. Like holding hand vs running around doing her own thing like mingling on her own at an event.

Browneye57 · Answer

Standard fare for any decent looking woman.  Please don't tell us you're really needy and desperate for attention and validation. PLEASE.

Josh4206 · Answer

Really don't have a negative or positive view of that. If she wanted me to get them to stop I would but really don't care.

Anonymous · Answer

They like that. This is the number one reason why guys want an eyecandy on their arms

Just_call_me_Levi · Answer

Depends if she likes it or not... I'll give them a disapproving look if she doesn't, but am happy for her if she does like it. But often don't notice it, nor care enough to pay attention to it.

Kabluie · Answer

Yep, confidence in appearance anywhere is a good thing. Look good, feel good.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Couldn't care less. Although I get bothered if it seems like she is bothered.

hello_kitty_man · Answer

Yes I like it because I know that she currently has my heart.

Pogi-Paddy · Answer

To me I take it as a complimentary gesture and if you have a secure and solid foundation then it is not a big deal.🌹

genericname85 · Answer

i mean that just seems to be a natural thing to happen xD i don't mind it.

andy530 · Answer

Yeah I do. It makes me feel good knowing others like what they see and that she’s with me 🤷‍♂️

Satish2607 · Answer

I love it when guys appreciatey wife visually. I meant the looking at her is a visual appreciation isn't it 🙂

Unbeatable · Answer

no and thats 1 reason i like smaller boobs/less attractive girls for a girlfriend

Shihab91 · Answer

no, i don't use my girl to boost my male ego, this is a disrespect

UncleJessieRabbit · Answer

I'm not with anyone right now, but if I was I'd feel pretty good... within reason.

rapfan107 · Answer

Yeah im like yeah look at that fine specimen!! And she's with me2😉

Fennec4xx · Answer

That would mean you are with guy who can't protect you. At least he can't give out the tough vibe.

I_love_you_3000 · Answer

My boyfriend would literally kill them

Anonymous · Answer

No, and i will always blame her for being beautiful. I'm not joking.

Djaay · Answer

This question works both ways.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends entirely on her reaction to it.

Am_and_Pm · Answer

Hell YES!!!

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Don't care about it.

Iron_Man · Answer

No I don’t

COMMODOREII · Answer

Hell yeah!!!

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Nah not really

Slim57 · Answer

Fuck no

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

I don't care

Anonymous · Answer

no,,

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