How many times have you been rejected when it comes to dating? (Page 2)

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I personally have been rejected probably over 900 times in my lifetime. When you put up those types of numbers rejection becomes "Feedback." and something that helps you not hinders you. Are you putting in the reps? Or are you calling it Quits after a few rejections because it stings or hurts too bad? My philosophy on rejection is simple. I would rather be rejected and understood then ambiguous in my actions. Meaning, Don't half ass it.

Ousaf1 · Answer

You are right but it sucks that you make a connection with someone and at the end it was all for nothing you might have learned something but the connection that you tried to build up just went up in flames.

Kcram · Answer

I don't know why but I've been rejected by women all my life when I was a kid I had lots of zits and I was overweight and I got teased a lot by the girls and every time I try to ask him about they just act like I was just just ugly if they never seen so I did a lot of lot of damage to my confidence and I really never gain that back but I've been rejected by women all my life and I've got used to it I've gotten over it I'm 60 years old and it still hurts I wish I could have found somebody out there

Levin · Answer

I mean, I don't know, 100s of times probably.

It's not something I'm bothered about because I'm usually unconsciously rejecting the girl, anyway. Deep down we know what is right for us. And it's usually not our passing dick fancy. Most of the girls weren't actually good enough for me.

You're right, it's a good feedback mechanism.

WowwGirl · Answer

I LOVE the Chase!  My answer would sound like a jerk so, I respectfully decline to answer your question sir.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Honestly 🤔 don't think ever

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Shit, Coach, at least give me a beer as I go into the filing cabinet.

anonbrunette99 · Answer

I never shoot my shot but if you consider liking someone back then them losing interest or finding someone else as rejection then I’ve probably been rejected 7 times from what I can remember...

Adam1978 · Answer

I don't keep count, that would just be a depressing value. Best to not count bad things, it will just ruin any chances you might have. Just learn and move on.

HawkPerception · Answer

I've only ever asked a girl out 3 times. Rejected by 2 of them. 3rd was my ex I was with for a little under 3 years. Let's just say every time I ask a girl out and they say no, my confidence goes down a notch.

GnatSocks · Answer

In person? 50? Something like that. Over apps (where we connected and chatted and I got around to asking for a date)? 15? 30? I don't know. I'm guessing.

JBlade · Answer

4 but that was before graduating from college. Shifted my focus to more important things like my career. Don't know if I'll date in the future, currently it's way too much work for very little reward.

Midnight_Kiss · Answer

Twice but in fairness I've only been the first to make a move twice, there probably won't be a third, it's up to whoever I'm destined to be with to do the leg work now.

Not_Average · Answer

“I personally have been rejected probably over 900 times.” Lmfao maybe you’re doing something wrong my man. I don’t look at connections with women as reps. If we vibe and I’m interested enough, I’ll make a move. Usually it’s reciprocated if the connection has already been established.

jasco · Answer

I say about 8 to 10 times, not that many times sense i stop asking out women

Jjpayne · Answer

Have not been approached in public or reached out to on a dating site so I'd call that a lot over time...

pigoat · Answer

Ladies should just count their rejections on how many times they rejected a man Otherwise it could between fron one to none on average  Keep this question interesting ladies

Zzmaex · Answer

I’ve never asked anyone out before, but I’ve had to reject some boys before who like to moan and speak like chipmunks. 😐

ChiTown33 · Answer

50. You're right coach. And i know it's a small number in comparison to your 900. But i'm less bothered by the amount than the 0 for 50. I figure if i can't get a " yes" in 50 then i'm not going to get one.
And frankly seeing what's out there now i just don't think (most) women are worth the effort. Women know where i am. They can approach me. They can endeavor to change my mind. Either way i'll be just fine.😁

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I have been rejected 4 times. These incidents happened at age 9, age 10, age 13, and age 15.

I was half-rejected at age 26. (She wanted to have sex with me but not a relationship.)

And then I was semi-ghosted at age 32.

Myk13 · Answer

I couldn’t agree with you more.
It would be a wild guess as to what my rejection number is. My number is probably somewhere around yours. It never crossed my mind to keep track of something so silly. Some days it seems higher and some days I feel like I’ve never been “rejected”.

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