My boyfriend doesn't last longer than 10 seconds in bed, and it's starting to be a huge problem, what can I do?

[Anonymous]

We've been together for nearly 3 months, so it's still fairly new. We only get to see each other on weekends due to working all week, and very long hours. Of course we both want sexy time when we're together, but the problem is he always lasts 10 seconds, if not less in bed, and it'd starting to become a huge problem. He gets so angry about it, and I always tell him its fine, it happens, but it happens every single time. What can I do? Shall I mention it? Especially when I have a high sex drive, its very frustrating. How can I bring it up in conversation, espeically when he get angry about it? I just need advice.

[nachosaresexy]

Like... literally 10 seconds?

Easiest thing would be if he jerks off before hanging out with you.

Beyond that, hopefully as you both get more experience together, homeboy will be able to control himself a little better, and pace himself better. As get gets more comfortable with you, that part will hopefully become easier.

Or you could jerk him off during foreplay, give him a little time to recover, and then have sex. Does that make sense?

[andy530]

I would recommend trying the start stop method if you haven’t already or have him cum once during foreplay and then he can cum a second time during actual sex. If it continues to be an issue he should talk to his dr and likely a sex therapist

[princeofromance]

You need to talk to a third party about this problem in the bedroom. They are neutral, and will be able to give you advice from both his and your perspective.

[tallcuck]

You can replace him :)

[Sam_The_Savage]

Chang the boyfriend.