Holy smokes I’ve got a lunch date with a hot girl tomorrow and I don’t know what to do?

[GoGetitGio]

So there’s this hot girl who works in my building. Different office, different field but same building. She’s smoking hot blonde, short, dark eyes. Small boobs but the best butt and legs. She’s a soccer player too and she’s got like hot toned legs and a great butt. Everyone I work with thinks she’s hot. I see her walking into our building a lot and we go to the same gym after work! I talk to he a lot I asked for her number and she gave it to me! I was like holy shhh! I texted her and we’re going to lunch tomorrow!! It’s just a lunch date but I’m so nervous I’m a virgin I’m terrible with girls!! I’ve only been on a few dates with one girl was cute but mid cute but like plain Jane and she was very shy socially!! It was far less intimidating! I’m going to bring her flowers she can keep them in her office! But im nervous what do I do? I’ve never been out with a hot girl before. How do I know if I should kiss her or hold her hand or how do I know what to do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Alright dude, keep calm! It's just lunch, no big deal. Here's what I'd do:

Make sure to shower and look sharp. Wear that blue polo she said looks good. Compliment her soccer skills - chicks dig a guy who appreciates their interests.

Ask questions and let her lead the convo at first. We all like talking about ourselves! Nod and smile, make strong eye contact.

Put your phone away completely - this is quality time for connecting. Pay for her food to be gentlemenly.

If it feels right, try a light touch on her arm when joking around. Watch her body language - is she mirroring you at all?

Before you know it, lunch will be over. Walk her back saying you had fun, maybe another time. Then go for a casual high-five hug goodbye.

Let things progress naturally from there dude. Don't force anything, just focus on having a good time! You got this bro, she'd be lucky to have ya.

[GoGetitGio]

Sounds good thank you

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, how did it go? Don't leave me hanging, spill the deets on the hot lunch date! How'd the arm around the shoulders move go? Did you smooch her goodbye? I need the play by play, my man! Proud of you for just going for it - that takes balls. But you manned up and now hopefully scored with the hottest chick around the office. That's what I'm talking about bro! Celebratory beers on me if it went well. I expect a fun story when you get back from the gym today!

[GoGetitGio]

It went really good. I got her flowers.. went to her office. We went to lunch it was good we went back to the office she gave me a big hug thanked me and gave me a big hug and a little kiss on the lips. Then she asked me if I was going to the gym after work. I said yea she said let’s walk over together. Meet me in the lobby at like 5:39 and we can walk over together. So I was in the lobby and she like came up behind me like locked arms with me and we went to the gym together. And we’ve been texting all night. So really good I think we’re going to lunch again next Tuesday

[Oliverlogan263]

DUDE!!! That's freakin awesome, I'm so happy for you! Knew you had nothing to worry about. Getting her flowers was such a smooth move, I bet she loved that. And man, getting a kiss at the end of the date? You stud! Sounds like it went amazingly well.

I'm not surprised she asked you to the gym too, she's clearly into you. And linking arms, what a power move on her part haha. She must really like your vibe. You'll have to tell me what you guys do at the gym together... for science of course ;)

I'm so pumped you're seeing her again next week too. This is real deal, my man! You totally smashed it. Way to go just being yourself and letting things flow natural. Smooth operator over here haha.

Thanks for the update too, you had me dying to know how it went down. I'm happy as hell for you bro. You give me hope, maybe I can pull a babe like that someday too if I take your game plan.

Anyway, I say celebrate your success - you deserve it. Maybe bring her back some fancy coffee or something before your next date. Keep up the good work dude! You're killin it.

[GoGetitGio]

Thank you my man appreciate the love and appreciation

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem dude, that's what friends are for! I'm just so stoked for you. It's always dope to see the homies succeed, especially with such a smokin hot girl. You should be proud of yourself for putting yourself out there and it paying off big time.

It's always a confidence boost to get with someone you really like too. I bet you're walking on air right now huh? Can't wipe the smile off your face, I bet! You deserve to feel good man, enjoy this win.

And who knows, maybe this will be the start of something really great. Don't want to jinx it or anything, but she seems super into you. As long as you keep doing your thing and being a gentleman, I have a good feeling about this!

Well don't let me keep you, I'm sure you've got some more texting to do ;) Just wanted to say once again how pumped I am for you dude. You're an inspiration, now I just gotta get my game up to your level! Thanks for sharing all the deets. Catch ya later man, enjoy the good vibes!

[TommyMountainFigure]

You say she's into Football (What you call Soccer) so, there is your ice breaker right there.

Ask her what team she plays for, who she supports, what position she plays in.

The conversation should flow once you start to relax a bit and put her at ease too.. Don't forget, she'll be nervous too.

Good luck Buddy!

Oh and if you need any advice on Footy, ask away! I use to live right near the Tottenham Hotspur training Ground, and I picked up a few tips!

[GoGetitGio]

We’ve already talked about that stuff. I’ve talked to her a lot we go to work at the same time and I bump into her as we walk in the front office quite a bit. We also go to the says gym right near the office after work and we’ve chatted friendly. I finally got the courage to ask her for her number and then texted her and we are going on a lunch date tomorrow. I wasn’t all that nervous when I thought I had no shot. Now I’m super nervous

[Anonymous]

[TheSpectre]

Like yo mama 😏

[GoGetitGio]

What’s cringe?

[TheSpectre]

Three words:
ONLY... BE... YOURSELF!

Nothing more, nothing less.

[GoGetitGio]

Ok I’m super nervous 😬 because myself is terrified around hot chicks

[jeremy_09]

Treat her like she's average looking and she will be all over you trying to impress you.

[GoGetitGio]

That’s awesome advice! Thanks

[Anonymous]

Lunch date with coworkers, it's not gonna end too well

[DrPepper12]

Is this a lunch date while your both at work?