Do guys even consider dating a 4'11" skinny non-white girl? I literally get ignored and rejected by each and every man I have crush on?

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I've been single all my life, I just want one decent boyfriend.

MasterOfReality · Accepted Answer

No way!! I find that hard to believe. If you are telling the truth, (and I assume you are), maybe it’s the wrong guys you are approaching. I would think guys would be approaching you though.
OK, so you pointed out you are 4-11 and non-white, which indicates you are interested in dating white guys (I assume). Are these guys you crushing on 7’ tall with bald heads and swastika tattoos? Stay away from them. They are the only ones I would think wouldn’t be interested. I dated a 4-11 girl for a while and she was one of my favorite GFs of all time. Hang in there, I’m sure some good guy who is going to be into you is right around the corner!

Bright_blue_eyes · Accepted Answer

Yes! You're cute... I would totally date you. Odd that you get ignored. Sometimes guys ignore the Hot girl because she is "out of our league". I might suggest, flirting with the guys you like. Give them non-verbal permission to approach you. Smile. I promise, when a girl smiles at me, it's a huge turn on. Then I would suggest that most girls would love love love to be as thin & fit as you are. Take advantage of your good fortune.

suisuiola · Accepted Answer

It means you're not looking in the right places or going for people who suit you. Instead of always chasing, let someone chase you. If you're too busy constantly searching for someone, you'll probably missed out on someone who was interested in you.

GhostMochi · Accepted Answer

I think you look fine just the way you are! I think the guys you're running into are probably just douche bags who aren't worth it anyway. With due time you will find someone who loves you just the way you are. <3

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

You look fine to me.

you really need to look at the type of guy you usually chase.

then stop chasing as much (if more than just crushing)

do you chat or flirt with them, give them any signal that you are interested?
the last thing a guy wants is a desperate signal but we can’t see if there is not obvious signal Thst girl is interested.

TheorionMage · Answer

Perhaps you need EXAMINE what about THOSE men draws upon you to 'crush' on them?
What fantasized 'need' do THEY seem to fulfill for you?
And... is that 'resource' not to be found elsewhere... in someone else?

Wanna 'catch mice' learn to make a noise like 'cheese'!
Fish are NOT drawn to an un-baited hook.
You're NOT 'merchandizing' your 'lovability' to a receptive audience.

JUST1NC · Answer

I am kinda in the same boat as you but I am a 6'0 skinny guy and I know a lot of people make fun of me for that and I think that's why I'm single but for you o don't know from the picture that you posted you seem like a very attractive woman so I guess the guys around you are idiots 🤷🏻

Paul09 · Answer

Now you know what it feels like being a man lol. Are you going for the bad boys? Are you telling them you like them? And they say they are not intrested? Dating world sucks. It does take a toll on you. Anyways that said, I would date your type. You seem fit, I like that.

Twalli · Answer

You seem decently attractive. It's hard to tell if I would consider dating you without better lighting. I prefer small girls. So based on the physical characteristics that you gave, nothing is a turn off, and from what ai can see in the picture, you are marginally attractive

The_Maphio · Answer

THat small AND skinny looks almost unhealthy. Not trying to be rude, but that's what I get from that picture. One of the possible reasons why you get rejected, the other being you only tried your hand at men who like their girls taller.

boggboss · Answer

Its not the ideal body type I drift towards but if I was attracted to her I dont see why not what are u doing tho to increase your chances off finding a partner

Anonymous · Answer

So you were able to date at 0? You've only been single a few years, me it's been 6, the way things are going probably won't be 7, but the point is relationships take time and Trust. I place both in God. The woman I'm getting to know does the same and love grows. You aren't doomed, but be patient in God.

Levin · Answer

Is that a skateboard? You got the cute vibes going on? You say what is wrong with you. But what is right with you? What have you got going for you?

DarcRefractions · Answer

What's your personality,  how do you dress Do you make your self available What are your interest What do you like in guy What are thing you can settle for? Simple question as that.

Lliam · Answer

Short, slender girls are totally my preference. Race or ethnicity doesn't bother me at all. You look lovely.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Yeah I think you're pretty. Can't see your face here obviously so I'm judging mostly just on what I can see, but I don't see being short as a turn off.

AFellowWeeb · Answer

''I literally get ignored and rejected by each and every man I have crush on?''
Note: ''every man I have crush on'' - Too high standards. Drop your standards on looks a bit, and a whole new world will open to you

Leavesbound · Answer

You look like you have a nice mane of hair. keep it down and that will get some guys attention.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

You would pass my own 'filters' if you weren't beyond my age limits. If there's one - there will be more.

Madhatter920 · Answer

Yeah. I actually prefer shorter girls and race isn't important to me as long as we have chemistry.

Ripper_E · Answer

Non-white girl? lol what are you? It depends on whether or not I find her attractive and whether or not I like her.

K-I-S-S · Answer

Nah, i don't think i would ever consider it.  It would be an automatic "yes please, where do i sign".

collie22 · Answer

going for somebody your crushing on probably makes it more difficult. try socializing with guys you meet doing stuff you like to do.

Browneye57 · Answer

You have to be WORTHY. And it ain't about your size or color.

Andres77 · Answer

Dated you before... it was fun, we were just not compatible long term.

Ironic_Method · Answer

I like short and petite. It doesn't seem to be your looks that is the issue.

RCLJT · Answer

Skin color doesn’t matter and I’m 5’7, I don’t see the problem. My sister is vertically challenged as well.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

you're fucking hot. Are you missing an eyeball or just have a shitty personality. Only two things i can think of.

JamieLoves · Answer

What flavor, non white are you? If you’re not black, I wouldn’t have a problem. Next would come your personality.

Hanrej · Answer

You must be attracted to very tall men then. I can imagine some would prefer Girls close to their own height or they would start feeling their back.

Anonymous · Answer

You are beautiful, dont worry someday you will find what you are looking for.

Anonymous · Answer

Men don't want to be seen as pedophiles, and that would be the first thing to come out of women's mouths about any man who dates you.

blondfrog · Answer

It must be your personality then. Your body looks fine to me can't see your face though.

Anonymous · Answer

4'11 is too short, but the other stuff don't bother me. Just heighten yourself a little bit and I'm sure the guys will be all over you 😊

Pogi-Paddy-2 · Answer

You are stunningly beautiful and a guy would be a fool not to date you.🐼

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

You’re kind of asking for too much. The truth hurts, we all know

Joshua0213 · Answer

You're looking for the wrong guys i guess cause definitely would dare someone like that

legalboxers · Answer

my ex was 4'11. I date short girls since Im short myself..

Paulychicago10 · Answer

Heck yeah. Your body is my perfection when it comes to physical attributes

DAVEANDERSON1 · Answer

Guys don't know what they are missing out on, you look lovely.

Texasguy99 · Answer

I’d date a skinny short girl. You seem attractive to me. Sorry others don’t see that.

Anonymous · Answer

i know a lot of indian guys who would love you long times

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Just be more assertive, ask out a guy you like.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

You sort of look white to me?

genericname85 · Answer

sure. if she's attractive to me, i will date her.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

Fron what I see you are fabulous looking.

crmoore · Answer

Yeah, sounds great, to me.

COMMODOREII · Answer

You look fine to me. I would date you

joeldalton · Answer

You're fun-sized. Perfect for me.

Nahid1707 · Answer

Hopefully one day you find love

7771999 · Answer

You'll find someone. Don't stress it

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Look cute don't know why

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

There's no way you get rejected

Anonymous · Answer

My pleasure if you are lesbo

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, that is my type.

NikolaiIvanov · Answer

I wouldn't.

Anonymous · Answer

Non-white no.

Do guys even consider dating a 4'11" skinny non-white girl? I literally get ignored and rejected by each and every man I have crush on?

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