Do guys even consider dating a 4'11" skinny non-white girl? I literally get ignored and rejected by each and every man I have crush on?

[Anonymous]

I've been single all my life, I just want one decent boyfriend.

[MasterOfReality]

No way!! I find that hard to believe. If you are telling the truth, (and I assume you are), maybe it’s the wrong guys you are approaching. I would think guys would be approaching you though.
OK, so you pointed out you are 4-11 and non-white, which indicates you are interested in dating white guys (I assume). Are these guys you crushing on 7’ tall with bald heads and swastika tattoos? Stay away from them. They are the only ones I would think wouldn’t be interested. I dated a 4-11 girl for a while and she was one of my favorite GFs of all time. Hang in there, I’m sure some good guy who is going to be into you is right around the corner!

[Bright_blue_eyes]

Yes! You're cute... I would totally date you. Odd that you get ignored. Sometimes guys ignore the Hot girl because she is "out of our league". I might suggest, flirting with the guys you like. Give them non-verbal permission to approach you. Smile. I promise, when a girl smiles at me, it's a huge turn on. Then I would suggest that most girls would love love love to be as thin & fit as you are. Take advantage of your good fortune.

[suisuiola]

It means you're not looking in the right places or going for people who suit you. Instead of always chasing, let someone chase you. If you're too busy constantly searching for someone, you'll probably missed out on someone who was interested in you.

[GhostMochi]

I think you look fine just the way you are! I think the guys you're running into are probably just douche bags who aren't worth it anyway. With due time you will find someone who loves you just the way you are. <3

[ChrisMaster69]

You look fine to me.

you really need to look at the type of guy you usually chase.

then stop chasing as much (if more than just crushing)

do you chat or flirt with them, give them any signal that you are interested?
the last thing a guy wants is a desperate signal but we can’t see if there is not obvious signal Thst girl is interested.

[TheorionMage]

Perhaps you need EXAMINE what about THOSE men draws upon you to 'crush' on them?
What fantasized 'need' do THEY seem to fulfill for you?
And... is that 'resource' not to be found elsewhere... in someone else?

Wanna 'catch mice' learn to make a noise like 'cheese'!
Fish are NOT drawn to an un-baited hook.
You're NOT 'merchandizing' your 'lovability' to a receptive audience.

[JUST1NC]

I am kinda in the same boat as you but I am a 6'0 skinny guy and I know a lot of people make fun of me for that and I think that's why I'm single but for you o don't know from the picture that you posted you seem like a very attractive woman so I guess the guys around you are idiots 🤷🏻

[Paul09]

Now you know what it feels like being a man lol. Are you going for the bad boys? Are you telling them you like them? And they say they are not intrested? Dating world sucks. It does take a toll on you. Anyways that said, I would date your type. You seem fit, I like that.

[Twalli]

You seem decently attractive. It's hard to tell if I would consider dating you without better lighting. I prefer small girls. So based on the physical characteristics that you gave, nothing is a turn off, and from what ai can see in the picture, you are marginally attractive

[The_Maphio]

THat small AND skinny looks almost unhealthy. Not trying to be rude, but that's what I get from that picture. One of the possible reasons why you get rejected, the other being you only tried your hand at men who like their girls taller.

[boggboss]

Its not the ideal body type I drift towards but if I was attracted to her I dont see why not what are u doing tho to increase your chances off finding a partner

[Asker]

If it was up to me, I'd try to be taller and healthier.

[boggboss]

Your hight ain't the issue lol I just tend to go for plumper women lol but there are plenty off guys that love skinny women

[Anonymous]

So you were able to date at 0? You've only been single a few years, me it's been 6, the way things are going probably won't be 7, but the point is relationships take time and Trust. I place both in God. The woman I'm getting to know does the same and love grows. You aren't doomed, but be patient in God.

[Levin]

Is that a skateboard?

You got the cute vibes going on?

You say what is wrong with you. But what is right with you? What have you got going for you?

[DarcRefractions]

What's your personality,
how do you dress
Do you make your self available
What are your interest
What do you like in guy
What are thing you can settle for?


Simple question as that.

[Lliam]

Short, slender girls are totally my preference. Race or ethnicity doesn't bother me at all.
You look lovely.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Yeah I think you're pretty. Can't see your face here obviously so I'm judging mostly just on what I can see, but I don't see being short as a turn off.

[AFellowWeeb]

''I literally get ignored and rejected by each and every man I have crush on?''
Note: ''every man I have crush on'' - Too high standards. Drop your standards on looks a bit, and a whole new world will open to you

[Leavesbound]

You look like you have a nice mane of hair. keep it down and that will get some guys attention.

[andreasderjuengere]

You would pass my own 'filters' if you weren't beyond my age limits.
If there's one - there will be more.

[Madhatter920]

Yeah. I actually prefer shorter girls and race isn't important to me as long as we have chemistry.

[Ripper_E]

Non-white girl? lol what are you?
It depends on whether or not I find her attractive and whether or not I like her.

[K-I-S-S]

Nah, i don't think i would ever consider it.

It would be an automatic "yes please, where do i sign".

[collie22]

going for somebody your crushing on probably makes it more difficult. try socializing with guys you meet doing stuff you like to do.

[Browneye57]

You have to be WORTHY. And it ain't about your size or color.