Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 y1. You fault men for expecting sex but you have an entitlement mentality with expensive meals that you think should be bought for you. If you think dating is about getting as much as you can from a guy before you give him sex, then you should expect to be treated like a prostitute because that is what you have made yourself.
2. Whether you are a really good person is for other people to decide, not you.
3. I doubt that men are going into a rage over your entitlement mentality. Perhaps they criticize you but I suspect that you are exaggerating this problem.
4. No, knowing all that I know about you now, I would not be interested in a date with you even if I was a younger man.
5. Please convey my condolences to your next victim.46 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 y@far2gud4u Sometimes, I refer to my next date as the "next contestant." Just a little humor to try to brighten every day.
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@far2gud4u smh, nice one.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYou are 33 years old and you asked this immature question? You EXPECT a man to pay for you yet they cannot EXPECT anything from you? You put yourself in these situations, maybe if you are serious about a guy pay for your half or go somewhere cheaper. Everyone would love to eat the best food all the time but that isn't how life works unless you are a multi millionaire. I am sorry but your behaviour sounds extremely rude and whats more is your attitude like the world owes you something just because you live in it? Some people work hard from nothing, eat what they can afford until they get to a point where they can spend what they like on food and go to expensive places because they have paid their dues and worked hard to get there, you are sounding way too entitled... If you go into dates with this attitude problem then men will expect something in payment of the meal as the company of their date has not been enough.
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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. So you're 33 years old and still a parasite... Shame on you.
It's pathetic women like you that makes guys so resentful and disrespectful towards us.25 Reply- +1 y
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You're gorgeous - absolutely stunning in that photo. If this post was to get compliments, good for you... you deserve them all. If the post was about expecting a man to pay for your date, I have no problem with that. It's a tradition that you're welcome to adopt if it works for you. No man should expect sex from a woman - your time and presence are enough to buy a nice meal and enjoy it with you.
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Lmfao what a simp
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@TruthBringer I will make a Youtube video about this topic, because at first I was joking but I cannot believe men are really outraged over buying a woman food.
Did you know that many years ago when I was damn near homeless, if people didn't invite me out to eat, I would have starved? Now I make it my duty to be kind to others and even offer to pay when I go out to eat. It's food, so relax.
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@msc545 WTF would you want anything from someone in exchange for food, plus men are naturally suppose to take care of females anyway. I am so glad that when I was truly in need that was many years ago when men were not so immoral and sex hungry. I got my first passport from a stranger who saw that I was in need but if it were today, based on what these younger women tell me, I would have had to fk for it.
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@Newhead We aren't "outraged" about buying a woman food. So don't twist our words, missy. We are "outraged" that there are women who are indeed this entitled to another man's resources. A man who isn't committed to them and who they expect not to return the favor in any way. You're misleading men into thinking t hey are with you on a date, but you're just using them for a Foodicall.
I have always paid on (first) dates. Only for the girls who are showing genuine interest in dating and getting to know me. Women who only use men for free dinners are a disgrace and their parents failed at raising them.
If you're willing to use men for free dinners, hey we aren't stopping you. We are just both sad and amused that simps will actually fall for it. You're only fueling the mans rights movements more - +1 y
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+1 yu want us to give a way free food but not expect sex in return?
then why would we give away in the first place? what would we get from doing that? were not a charity... that would be throwing money down the drain for nothing... we buy u food for hopes to get in ur pants... its a start and its a way we work up to it... im sorry but thats the only way were ever gonna buy u free food... if u want us to stop expecting that and expect us to have nothing in return... then dont have any free food at all, simple11 Reply- +1 y
its either 1or the other... free food, or no expecting of sex
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+1 y"Maybe men need to stop expecting sex in return for women's existence and then they will see how ridiculous this outrage over free food has been." Oh the entitlement is over the roof. Nobody told you to go out and have sex, but if they pay your dinner and what do you get to give them in return? Your presence?
Let me guess: You told them you're out on a date with them. And thus they expect to try and get to know you in order to work towards seeing compatibility and towards something intimate. That's the entire point of dates afterall.
But all in all you're sitting here complaining men get mad when you USE them as a foodiecall.413 Reply- +1 y
Oh sweetheart, I'm old enough to figure out that you're one of those who thinks the world should bend over backwards and give you everything you want, all because you happen to have a vagina. That's not how the world works. You probably got a list of requirements for men, but don't even know what you bring to the table yourself. You're a disgrace for using men for their money and actually feel entitled doing so in the process. Shame on you.
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You are hun. Make sure you don't complain about getting pumped and dumped by someone who does manage to get you in bed, since you're making a habit of using men as ATMs.
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You call me rude, while you're literally USING men for free dinners while leading them on. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black
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If this site had a sound attachment for loud applause and loud whistling, by God I would use it in your post, TruthBringer.
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@Interstate Thanks mate, it's pathetic women like this one who are the reason why so many men give up on dating and get so bitter about women. With her mentality, I honestly can't blame them. For her own sake, I hope this is nothing but a troll post. If not, then what goes around will eventually come around.
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"so you and so wrong"
a comment always used by old folks who never matured out of their childhood. especially when they get owned by folks younger than them who happened to know more about life then they do.
"You are very rude"
a common phrase said by those who got owned in their own argument and ran out of shit to say in return - +1 y
@CasaNorba I know right, I love how the unintelligent and ego bruised always tell on themselves
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What you said implies to me to a " T ". I'm tired of their drama and games. I quit dating eight years ago, and I have a low opinion of Women.
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This last post of mine is in response to TruthBringer's last post to me.
+1 yI don't know why men don't buy you food but according to the photo you are a beautiful woman. I don't think the reason why I buy you food is not beauty. Their relationship with you is decisive in this. If he's not close to you he doesn't want to buy food
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I don't know
2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. You are beautiful but it's never a good thing to expect but be thankful when they do pay or ask would you pay?
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Oh, for Pete's sake.
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Or go to the food bank.
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@Jamie05rhs Notice how they always find a way to blame men?
Your post reaps of entitlement! Sure you are visually attractive but I would not want to spend time sharing a meal with you. You seem to lack substance. Since a date is an interview, I would conclude prior to asking we would not be compatible. Why waste time dating you only to unmask superficiality? I hope I am wrong.
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I am not a gold digger but I would never marry someone who doesn't feed me. I am lucky enough to have dated men who made sure I had food in the house and would sometimes bring my favorite food home whether it be cake from my favorite bakery or meal from a restaurant I like. What kinda man wants a girl he likes to starve?
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@Newhead... There are guys that are sugar daddies. There are those that will pay for everything without receiving nothing in exchange. Some feel buying her stuff means she will care. I say HOGWASH!
A REAL man seeking a REAL companion! His search is expanded to include women with that common interest. She will add to his existence not become a dependant.
He does not have to bride her with food, purses and clothing. The initial conversation would determine if he believe in your compatibility. A dinner date is just an extended interview. Did your employer hire you without multiple interactions?
Again, I think you lack understanding. Your looks and vagina will never create value for a REAL MAN OF SUBSTANCE
If that is you in the picture, I think you are attractive. Women always love food lol small sacrifice to keep them happy.
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+1 yYou are one of the most selfish, greedy and shallow people I have ever encountered. Using looks to EXPECT free food? No. I'm done with THIS post. Here in the U. S, if you tried that sh-- here... you would be made sorry REALLY FAST.
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+1 yDefinitely would pay for your dinner just to have something pretty to look at.
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+1 yId buy you some good jerk chicken with rice from the food carts plus coconut water..
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Yaay, I love jerk chicken and coconut water. I want fried festival instead rice though. I also love the jelly from the coconut.
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@Newhead wouldn't know where to get that I just know the food trucks
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cool.
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+1 yThe girl in the Avatar image is very attractive and lots of guys would invite her to dinner.
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+1 yLooking at your picture, you deserve to be treated as a Princess with no strings attached.
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+1 yIf you're going on a date because you want free food, you aren't going on a date; you just want free food. Date yourself, then, and get your own food.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yExplain this "outrage over free food".
Being pretty is not enough to justify me buying someone else food, therefore you can't possibly be "pretty enough" for free food. Them being pretty does not benefit me in any way. However, I MAY buy them food for other reasons.
If we assume that I WILL buy free food for anyone I am attracted to, you will be going hungry, unfortunately (based on your picture).33 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 yI appreciate it.
Opinion Owner+1 yNasty-looking woman.
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+1 yI would tell you "I will buy you dinner after sex".
20 Reply 5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. It doesn't matter what you look like - your looks don't entitle you to free food. Get a job and buy your own.
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lmao nice 1
+1 yYou are pretty but I don’t believe I should buy you dinner just because you’re pretty lol
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I didn’t say I wouldn’t buy you dinner. I just wouldn’t do it ONLY because you’re pretty.
Also , I’m not Christian but I like the concept of being compassionate and helpful. I mean Jesus can turn water to wine so he seems pretty awesome, I’m jealous lol - +1 y
Quite possibly one of the most Sacrilegious comments I have ever read.
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yA Caribbean person asking for free shit. That's a surprise.
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+1 yWhether you are pretty or not is completely irrelevant.
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Says me.
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This is why I prefer REAL prostitutes
10 ReplyMe, I'm going to stop you
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