Does a girl/woman really love her boyfriend if she has a crush and flirts with another dude?

[Anonymous]

What do you think?

[btbc92]

Would you call it love that anybody flirtd and plays manipulative games anyway? Does sex means a person loves you? Only you can anseer that, bit obviously the answer is no. Love doesn't do that. I don't understand how anybody thinks this js okay or normal. Giving people the attention of basic need of respect for others is one thing. Flirting around with otghr people is narcissistic and toxic.

Heck, I don't even flirt with anyone and neither would I want to be flirted with. Its juys manipulative. If you do not like what she is doing you are entitled to speak up about it. And if she thinks that you don't have to right to tell her, you are free to not be there as her boyfriend. You don't tolerate stuff like that. You make up your mind what is and not acceptable in your relationships with people. That's what it means to be an adult, to learn to make up your own mind and to make your own adult choices. Don't settle for less.

[Tututwerl09]

It doesn't really matter. The real question you should be asking is will she leave her boyfriend for you. The answer is mostly no

[Asker]

for me? what are you even talking about lol.

[Tututwerl09]

Do you not understand English? She may love her boyfriend yes but the real question is will she leave.

[kkirk4442]

it depends on what her crush means to her, and how much, and what kind of flirting she does. A woman can love a man, but have unconscious emotional drives, that tend to make her act in ways that are problematic, just as a man can. Just when someone loves someone, and does not, is a very difficult thing to say.

[ItsTheNephilim]

If she loves a guy and does stuff like that with other guys, I don't know what kind of 'love' is that. I believe that love doesn't let else come in between and take your mind away from your partner this way.

[Anonymous]

No, that's why i never date.
Girls aren't worth it.

[dudeinohio]

Nope

[jahaims]

Nope.