Guys, do you like shy girls? Quiet or loud which would you rather date?

[Wemix]

Let's say you click with 2 attractive girls with similar hobbies as you, but one was the shy and quiet type while the other is loud and quirky. Which would you rather actually date?

Shy and quiet

Loud and quirky

[Novacane]

I would say somewhere in the middle just because both are complete outliers to one another. Shy and quiet is good because you won't have someone nagging on you but eventually will come off as a pushover and will not contribute with anything because they are timid and that can get old. Loud and quirky is good because they are more vocal and are able to say what they feel but eventually they won't stop talking and people like their peace, nobody wants someone who always causing problems because they can't stay quiet. So somewhere in the middle is good.

[HawkPerception]

It's taken me a while to realize that I prefer and have a better time with more confident and talkative girls. I'm an introverted guy in the sense I don't prefer to go out and socialize on the regular because I don't resonate with most people. And when I do I prefer small groups or one on ones because it's more intimate conversations. When I do meet up with up with people in those scenarios, I'm very talkative and prefer when they're able to speak their mind easily and confidently rather than me trying to get them out of their comfort zone and talk for a while. I used to be super shy, but that does go away with age and experience.

[ohshee]

For sure shy and quiet and that's just a little volume voice I think I don't mean that I want her not to say anything I just like peace and quiet very calm soothing I don't like loud I don't like it and she brought to me and I think that person would be just ten times more romantic to

[Lionman95]

I´d go for shy and quiet because that´s more like what I am but that shouldn´t mean that I would never date a load and quirky woman. For me is just the case that I´m rather inexperienced with dating and it sounds more reasonable to start with a girl that has a similar character.

[libsaretards]

I said loud and quirky, but only to a certain point. I do not want a domineering b**** who is constantly disrespectful and whiney, but I do want a woman who is very confident and speaks her mind. I am a very reserved and stick to my shell kind of guy so it helps to have a woman who challenges me to come out of my shell every once in a while.

[kinggeorge007]

I will look into more things than shy-silent/loud-quirky. I mean there's nothing wrong with being silent or loud. One isn't a deal-breaker. If I clicked them both I will check more into them and pick one based one other qualities. There're always other qualities they have differentiate them.

[Browneye57]

Just date a guy that likes YOU just the way YOU are. Cuz you're not changing any, I'm here to tell you.
If you want to study this topic further, read about extroversion verses introversion, under the topic of MBTI - or meyers briggs type indicator.

[loveslongnails]

I dislike seeing quiet always paired with "shy". Shy is another word for "afraid". When you're shy and you're a child, it's common and something you hopefully grow out of. When you're shy and you're an adult, it means you're insecure and haven't grown out of it, and lack confidence.

My personal choice is a girl who is confident and smart, which means she knows when to be loud and when to be quiet too.

[EmbraceThePain]

Oh, I actually do not know. I'd have to experience being with them to see what is meant by your descriptions, because despite saying loud and shy, everyone manifests these things differently based on a lot of stuff like environment, personality, etc.

[hughmathews]

both are fine, but if i HAVE to choose, id like a girl whos more confident in herself. but there is nothing wrong with shy, quiet girls, i like them just about as much!

[Turrorrr]

i like the shy girl who has opened to me and we are like best friends and in a relationship at the same time.

[MCheetah]

Shy, introverted girls whoa re insecure. I don't like loud, obnoxious, arrogant people, male or female.