How do you stop the pain of being lonely and single? (Page 4)

[Kaamraj]

"I can't find anyone that fits my standards." - Maybe who you are imagining is an idealized fantasy male who is one is a million. Good luck finding him, or in your case as you're shy, him finding you.

[RickVienna]

Oh sweety your are so young. Time will come and Mr. Right suddenly is in front of you. So no worries. But I can feel with you. I had only short relationships. There is one thing I can't change. My small penis. Most women don't like to have a relationship with such a small man...

[dray995]

- What are your standards and type for a guy?
- You don’t need to lower your standards for a guy, unless your expectations are too high but who is to say that they are?
- What values do you measure your own standards by?

[Asker]

honestly at this point, the bare minimum. a decent well educated guy that is kind and has sense of humour. but all i find is guys that are either too mean, or empty headed that don't care about anything but the superficial stuff.

[2021biguy]

Don't worry, you're not old. It's not easy in today's world though. Try to do things you like and don't get upset over it, just try to make friends at least.

[Danish87]

You are just 22, it's time when people start entering into relationship. So just relax and find one.

[kitty71]

Dont feel bad girl, you are young still to discover things. Ask that to a person who is 50 and in your exact same position, imagine that 50 yrd old person, is worse for that 50 your situation. Im in taht situation and im not getting any younger.

[Jack9949]

I understand what you’re going through because I was once there before. But at the end of the day all you can really do is learn to accept yourself

[JolenetheTractor]

Live your life, find a hobby make yourself into someone who people want to be around. If you value yourself other people will too

[TheFlak38]

lonely women are lonely by choice. if you're not happy with the millions of options you have then only you are to blame.

[Asker]

i HAD choices, 3 years ago, but i was 19 then and i had just graduated high school and i was still trying to find myself in the world. and most of the guys that tried to be with me were in their mid or late twenties and i felt so intimidated. but now since the coronavirus i really haven't been able to meet new people and even when i do i require time to really open up to someone, and most guys want the easiest and quickest relationships. i'm not like that i need to get to know people first and see how they think and how they act. is it that hard to ask for something real these days?

[TheFlak38]

Spare me the excuses. No other creature in this universe today has more options that the female human. The entire sexual marketplace is rigged in your favour. All you have to do is post on social media "I'm so lonely" the masses of thirsty, lonely, desperate men will turn the world upside down to help you. All you have to do is pick one. If you're not happy with your millions of options then that's on you.

[MadBoy]

Well I'm 25 and single all my life. So you're already better off on that. As for stopping the pain... I kinda just suppress it through video games, music, and youtube. Anything that keeps sound going into my head to keep the noise in my head quiet.

[Bean2thousand]

Love is a trick that nature plays on your mind so that you will propagate the species. Consider yourself not delusional.

[OG956]

I can calm u down. I'm 26 (gonna be 27 in January), I had 1 relationship, and even that I feel lonely, I don't want 2 have any other relationship (don't want 2 burn myself again). Only would like 2 find friends.

[Anonymous]

Had to check if this wasn't my question lol
Girl I have no idea how to make things better either but I'm 22 and feeling exactly the same as you if that can ease your mind a little

[red324]

Happiness is a state of mind. Find something you enjoy doing that makes you happy. Remember dating is a pain in the was and isn't worth being unhappy over.

[Andres77]

Don't lower your standards!!!
You'll meet your guy but if you're committed to someone else you settled for... big regret.

[Aether1]

I feel the same as you, I'm 28 and I've never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. A lot of days I feel sad.

Can we chat by PM?

[Ninjazzed]

You’re barely beginning your life, how do you figure that you’re too old?

[justamomentago]

being alone and feeling lonely are 2 separate things. enjoying life one way or another is a choice. one enjoys the sound of the sea, another can't stand it for more than 5 minutes. the sound within is neither wrong or right. it is up to you.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

You’re 22 and female; you’re either not lonely or you’re a liar.

[RingOfFire]

I find that heavy drinking can work wonders on this problem.

[Asker]

Oh god 😂😂

[RingOfFire]

😘

Remember that life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the journey, and when the time is right, you will find a traveling partner.