Is it true that the worst you treat a guy the better he treats you?

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Men don't like women who love them and that is a pure fact they just don't. Men say that they want a loving virtuous woman but they do not respond to that type of treatment coming from a woman in fact they are the total opposite and always seem to chase and go after the women who don't give a shit about them it seems as if the women who behave like men are the ones who are winning the women who don't return their texts, calls cheat on them with multiple men it seems as if they do not like faithful women they seem to only want the women that other men want it seems as if when a woman wants a loving relationship he does not want her but when a woman begins to treat the man like men treat women and they decide that they do not want a relationship with the man is when they seem to want her I don't understand.

But it seems as if the more options of men you have and the worst you treat a guy and the less concern and love that you show a guy, the more he loves you why is this?

oldasIfeel22 · Accepted Answer

Alright I take it you have been burned in the past. I’m sorry and as a recovering “nice guy” I know precisely how you feel. It’s frustrating and depressing. I get it.

Its human nature to get turned on by challenge. But self esteem and self respect will kick in at some point when we realize the person is just being a selfish pos.

I've met some horrible women but I won’t tolerate them long. I might have a very fleeting interest in a bitchy girl (if she’s attractive). Thinking maybe she’s just testing me. But if she really is just a cunt I will NOT stay attracted to that. Fuck no. Especially nowadays.

However I’ve seen women fall in love with assholes for weeks, months and even years at times. Not all women of course. But tbh in my experience this a worse problem on the female vs male side.

DrGrin · Accepted Answer

Every relationship has it's own energy level. Balance is the key. For example a pair who can sit in the same room playing games and reading, can be a great couple, just like a couple who can't live without each other and doing everything together.
If you starts to add more energy in the relationship than your partner, they will feel you are too much, so they will try to step back to balance the energy of your relationship, but when you are steping back and they feel this is too low, they will give more energy in it.
Many people make mistakes when they let the perner out from the relationship. I mean when your need for the other is too strong and you don't care about their feelings.

tatianamay · Accepted Answer

hun, you've just met a lot of bad men. I've had my fair share of bad men, a real guy, the one for you will treat you like the Queen you are provided you treat him like a King. Respect goes both ways. You've gotta kiss some frogs to find your Prince. I'm sure everything will work out when the right guy comes along. You'll be shocked to know that it's often the "nice" guy you'll end up marrying and not the "player." Love is like a golden light, not a red, fiery passionate one. Remember to BE IN LOVE and not FALL IN LOVE, cuz everything that falls breaks

ChiTown33 · Answer

Lady you're all kinds of confused when it comes to guys. I can kind of understand why though. You're describing a immature guy.
When someone likes you regardless of whether you feel the same way back or not a guy should always be cognizant of her feelings. Unfortunately some guys don't. Just like some women like to be desired by multiple guys. a lot of young guys get a charge out multiple women chasing them. And so they'll give her just enough approval to keep her chasing. Because they want her in that position.

Gosceewual · Answer

no actually we hate stuck up bitches, i know for a fact cos i blocked a girl who was showing me attitude the other day, but if she was a nice friendly girl who treated me friendly, id never block her... id probably fall in love with her,

so we opposite of like girls who treat us bad,,,, we hate them'

sounds like u jus had a bad experience with 1 guy who u was showing love to and he didn't care... that doesn't mean were all like that... and how do u know that guy was into u in the first place? if he never was into you to begin then ofcourse he won't procipcate ur love

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Not true at all. The confusion you're having is that you have low sexual desireability. And being sexually attractive trumps all other aspects. So a hot bitch is more desirable than an ugly fat sweet girl. But men really want a hot sweet girl. But just because men chase hotties doesn't mean they dont want some girl thats nice. You also are talking about the chase... men CHOOSE women by marrying them. Men mostly fuck hot bitches because they are hot but they aren't getting a ring any more than anyone else, because most men aren't committing to bitches just fucking.

perfectchaos · Answer

That is false. I just kicked a girl out of my life for disrespecting my naturally good nature. You get how you treat people. If they do say and try to follow do not date those. Those are people who have been abused a lot and tend to have relationship problems.

oldawg · Answer

I think that is a yes because I believe men like the thrill of the chase and when they have got what they want because the girls are all over them etc but if you do what your question says (I actually don't know how to put it into words) but here goes: it's like they haven't caught you yet and they will keep trying.

jasco · Answer

No, that's not true at all. Actually what your talking about is sexual attraction. A pretty large group of men are sexually attracted to a large group of women because their lonely and have nothing better to do. Men do respond to love and care. If you hit a man he gonna hit you back more than likely. Any man that is what you said is more than likely thinking he's incapable of finding someone else so why not stay with her regardless of her flaws. Women think the same way to in some cases.

NightHawk99 · Answer

Sweetheart... If this is what you believe about us... Then you're supposed to have a hard time with men. Because you're giving us a hard time with these stupid beliefs.

Real men want their woman to love and care about them, and have their backs through the worst to come. Treat a real man like shit, and he'll treat you like you don't exist. Simple as that.

Leavesbound · Answer

This belief explains why most women have treated me like crap. By the way, it doesn't work. A women starts treating me like crap and I move on.

blank_expression · Answer

Hahah, not me as the first hint of a game and I disappear forever. I find that I get more thrills out of leaving forever than being with the woman. Permanent time soak is the most powerful tool.

ohshee · Answer

I'm not sure about any other guy next to me I start walking the other way

Dchrls78104 · Answer

The only man who would be more attracted to a woman the worse she treats him, is a pathetic simp an a stupid sycophant.

shortster · Answer

Nope, the worse you treat me the less likely I will want to be around you.

Paul09 · Answer

Maybe if you were 12.. Who dafaq likes to be treated like sh*t?

JesseJayNeak · Answer

If women don't like men who treat them well, then there's a reason why they end up in abusive relationships

krin_m · Answer

Not true at all. I stay clear of rude and nasty women.

Dinklex3 · Answer

No, lol. You're just going after the wrong men.

Iron_Man · Answer

No people like that will leave you

dudeinohio · Answer

Not at all true. I will not be treated like crap.

WowwGirl · Answer

A little but no in general

loveslongnails · Answer

Only if you know how to do it right. LOL

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