Should a guy tell a girl he likes her if she's in a relationship? (Page 2)
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No because it will come off as desperate especially if she isn't showing signs of high interest. Attract other women. Work on your purpose, stay fit and women will always chase you. Women only look for guys other women find attractive hence the 90/10 rule of dating
It depends what you are looking for. If she is happy in her relationship, there is nothing to be gained from it ( Unless you simply need to get it off your chest)
if you're doing it the hope that she will leave her partner for you, you will probably end up disappointed. Especially if she has been with him for a long time.
Gonna come off weak and only lowers attraction anyway. I would think wow that's pathetic as fuk.
Too much movies dude, love is overated. Disneyland, time to wake up to real world.
Its only "cute" when powerfull guy does it cus he finally "opened up to her" when weak guy does it he only comes off even more weaker and thus falls even more down in value.
ABSOLUTELY.. Why would you possibly not? So she's in a relationship.. BIG DEAL , they come and go. Make your feelings known , make it Black / White clear , and progressively why you are a much better choice.
If she doesn't like it? So what ! Nothing ventured , sometimes you need to go and collect what you want to be yours.
I mean why not? Lol. Maybe her man ain’t shit and she’s staying with him cause she’s scared. You tell her how you feel, and what she decides to do with that is her choice.
Hell no hed give me cheater vibes.. if he's trying to get with a girl whose in a relationship.. once he does he will be trying to get with another woman those type of men aren't ever pleased with what they have.. same vise versa
I'd say yes. You never ask, you never know. She might be unhappy in her current relationship and feels the same way about you. If she is not interested then she just says no. No big deal.
Yes, sounds like a good idea
Or she might be the cheating type and trick you into thinking she's unhappy when she would actually never leave her boyfriend.
This is true for men also so be careful.
No. I can tell you from experience that it doesn't end well.
No. Hell no. If you were smart then you would just make yourself scarce.
I did this once when I was 21 and it was a huge mistake. Albeit I met her before she got into a relationship it was still very stupid. It actually hardened her disgust for me.
Even if she likes you back and she’s leaves him for you, can you really trust someone like that?
Why to tell her? She will not mind it because she already has a partner and will see you as a someone very disrespectful who dont know to respect their limits. In addition to changing the concept that she already has of you, she will stay away from you.
Depends on scenario have you been crushing on chick forever and feel. like she might marry wrong man. Then maybe but if we are being honest if a girl has a man but she conversing with you enough that you like her unless you have known her awhile that is red flag in relationship. Unless y'all work together. However I would not flat out say that unless you ready to fight boyfriend you can compliment her and I she is really feeling you she will get hint.
I mean I suppose he could if he feels he needs to get it off his chest. But there's little reason to. I mean she's not going to dump him for you and if she dumps him for you what does that say about her loyalty? The only way it would be worthwhile is if things didn't work out with him. And later she sought you out. But there's a lot of if in there lol. And in the meantime it might make your current friendship with her uncomfortable.
It never hurts. The worst thing she can say is that she’s in a relationship. The positive is if her relationship ends and she has feelings for you she might consider a relationship with you instead.
He knows she’s in a relationship. Learn to read.
She can break up with her current boyfriend or even cheat, so its fine
@MrCuriouss don’t use woman logic; your a man. Have more self respect than that.
@DeltaCharlieEcho I can read just fine. I was speaking in general terms. No need to be like that.
It most certainly can hurt. It will put her in a stressful situation because what if the person who likes her is her friend. So he tells her and now she has to decide whether to honor her current relationship by telling him and ending the friendship or deceiving her current boyfriend to hold onto her friendship.
If you like a person who's already taken, you'll respect them by respecting their relationship and not putting that baggage on them.
maybe she don't like her current relationship and try something different
Absolutely , it can do ZERO harm , who knows if she's happy? Let her know , and hand out the business card , make it crystal clear. I like you , like you a lot.
She has an easy out " Sorry , Im in a relationship " ..
Answer " Hmm , thats sad for me , but I want it.. on the record ! Hope I see you around "
Zero harm done
Guess it all depends on your situation tbh I don't really know your relationship with this person or her so I don't really know how she'd react. But I'd probably just wait till she's out the relationship cause if she's happy with that person chances are she's just gonna reject you anyway. So then at that point there really is no reason to tell her as much as you might want to.
If you respect her you'll respect her relationship and keep it to yourself. I think it would be selfish.
What's the point in that selfish act? Unless you're saying " if it doesn't work out with him, I'm interested", which is INCREDIBLY weak anyway, why do it? If you really "like her", you should be glad she's in a relationship she's enjoying. If she's obviously miserable and troubled, or can't seem to leave the relationship and you know this, it's a different story.
Good q. I hate crushes on girls already with someone - but most are bored to tears and just stuck with someone out of habit, so, if you do click - why not?
(It would be nice of her to make up her mind, or even date both, quickly, rather that create drama just for the sake of having some drama in her life)
And what good is that going to do?
You're either going to make the existing rapport awkward. Or you'll end up with a woman who fucks anyone and is less than loyal.
Rather not.. nothing good will come out of it other than hurt or trouble. Just wait when the relationship will be over. If the relationship won’t be over, just know that she is happy and that you should support her happiness.
If she is in a good relationship there wouldn't be much point, and If she's in a bad relationship then her antenna would be SO attuned to anyone showing interest in her that she would already know.
Bottom line is. Nope