I won't have sex til im “in love” which is different from just loving them. We have to be committed and in love. I used to be all for waiting til marriage til i hit mid twenties so I don't know about that now. But the goal at the time was to see eachother naked sometime before we marry to see if we like what we see. I get that we may not like how eachother “feels” when it comes to the sex itself, but at least seeing what we’re getting ourselves into was that main thing that would determine how far we go. I say that because, if i dont like how the dick looks, I’m not gonna wanna fck it or suck it. And im not referring to the size but just the overall feel of like the skintone of the shaft, if he's circumsized or not, how big his balls, if the tip is too pink or not, and stuff like that. Belly also plays a roll cause i dont wanna feel suffocated if he has a beer belly or something, and so on. And like if he doesn't like how my boobs or vagina looks, then he has the right to not wanna marry it. I know it all sounds shallow but we have to be with eachother for a long time (if not forever) so its only fair that you marry someone you find both mentally and physically attractive (especially naked)
How is it more convenient?
I think it sounds awful.
I fall for a person. How they think, speak, what they say, how they smell, etc etc.
What they look like naked isn’t part of the initial attraction, and doesn’t feature in the early dating phase either.
No. You already know a person's body type when you see them, and if you like their posture and overall charisma that's really all that you need, most birthmarks or flaws that you can't see will be acceptable to you if they don't make a big deal out of it. Basically we intuitively know right away what the person is like physically as we interact with them face to face, which is enough, I mean if you actually see everything about the person you like right away you're more likely to lose interest, cuz what's more to see, you know? Mystery keeps you thirsty for someone in my opinion.
All that would do is make most people even MORE shallow and MORE unrealistic about what they expect in a partner. Tinder has done far too much damage in that area already.
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Not really no.
when in a relationship or married you really don’t see each other naked in a sexual setting as much as you do dressed.
I dated a girl, who when she was a teen had her breast and stomach scalded with hot water, it left her needing skin grafts and the usual scaring and marking from hot water on her breast and stomach.
She. Was however really pretty, great body as she did triathlon.
However, this seeing someone naked before you got in to a relationship, would be so shallow and a guy would miss out on an amazing girl.
At times the deal clincher that has made me want a relationship has been something minor, such as a little giggle at making a mess eating a cake or something else trivial.
this idea would instantly turn us in to a body orientated society faster than any social media could do.
on top of all that, I need the emotional connection as well, this means they could be as sexy as fuck, but without that link, it’s not happening.
i will never date a guy who insist on seeing me naked before dating me. why? because it also means that he's a shallow person and will be cheating once I gain weight after childbirth or grow wrinkles by age 40.
Your first priority should be finding a strong mental connection, not checking out hot how round her ass is. You clearly have the wrong priorities in mind.
It´s not easy to talk about but I´ve watched quite a lot of porn in my youth and that changed me in many ways.
I fear that I´d see her naked too soon I wouldn´t take her seriously but instead objectify her when ever I see her by never looking at her outfit but always have her nude in my mind.
So my answer is a clear NO.
Convenient? Yes, some relationships fall off after one of the partners find out some secret about their partner's naked body.
Yeah I think you know what I'm talking about.
The thing is how would this work in the first place, perhaps the answer to this might change if it's convenient or not (?)
Either way, I think it's convenient, yep.
No, body shape is ok important, so he should not be hiding in baggy clothes, but else naked bodies are normally not that special looking. I've never been negatively surprised about a man's naked body if I liked how he looked with clothes.
The way I feel about someone emotionally strongly influences how I see them physically.
To a degree, yes. As much as people say otherwise, attraction includes a physical component.
I met my hubby at a trail-running event, he was wearing a clingy T shirt and compression shorts. I knew what I was getting. :-D
No clothes doesn't hide that much so you should be able to determine that with the clothes on. Besides who wants to strip in front of strangers and be judged as a cattle.
Maybe for guys.
It’s easier for girls to get a picture in her mind of what I guy looks like under his clothes once we’ve seen the outlines a few times
No, I'd much rather let my imagination run wild building up the anticipation :) I see the female form in a casual setting then my mind runs rampant; it's VERY motivational:)
Should be Unconditional. Sexy no Matter What. xx
I'm sure I'd like it, but it's not likely to be a deciding factor.
Well, maybe if she had a penis or something. Nothing personal, it's just that I already have one.
Hard to keep my interest regardless of it.
But it'd certainly save my efforts if I'm thinking of seducing them for good..
Should wait until both have reached a comfort level to want it.
Unless you live in a nudist colony where people are nude 24/7, I don't see the point.
No because I don't chose the person I'm with based on what they look like naked.
It's a bit weird if that's what you base things on but look up Naked Attraction.
So lets make dating even harder you say. Well overpopulation problem does need a solution 🤔
That's not fair if this is the sole determining factor when it comes to dating them or not.
No it wouldn't be as exciting then and I'd feel awkward around them having seen them exposed
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