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I lost my temper at her. Should I apologize? (Page 2)
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Well apologize and get help but also talk about it. Her saying she is so hot every one wants her is not appropriate in that situation but your paranoia is also not appropriate so you two need to talk this out and create some guidlines for both of you to feel comfortable.
Be man enough to apologise and deal with your own insecurity instead of pushing it onto her. Either get over it or leave the relationship before she’s had enough and leaves you because something tells me she won’t deal with that kind of shit from anyone. Do you really want to be the abusive person?
Question yourself honestly as to why you feel so insecure. Are you not feeling like you’re getting enough attention etc? People who are secure in their relationships aren’t threatened by other people unless one or (usually both) has bigger issues (because if it’s just one person with issues the relationship won’t last as it’s too unbalanced).
And if so and you don’t see it being fixed then you need to leave for your own sanity and self respect.
You can't just 'lose your temper', it's not right. Apologize and try to see a psychologist or something, but you have to understand that your girl is going to have friends, you can't stop her from doing that. The problem is not her, it's you. You are the one who is jealous and insecure about her and what she can do with them. Talk about it, she might not understand your point of view. But really, work on yourself. They are her friends.
Sounds like a mismatch of personalities, coz she wants the ego boost of parading herself around for other men, whereas you probably want a "ride or die" partner who only has eyes for you. Tbh I wouldn't trust her in this situation either. Arrogance about one's sexual effect on the opposite gender is the first and biggest red flag on the road to cheating.
She's given you no evidence of cheating, yet you still mistrust her. YOU are the insecure one with issues, dude. If you want to hold on to this girl, you best not ONLY apologize, but you should seek help WHILE you're seeing her. Your jealousy will kill the relationship.
This is a power struggle, plain and simple. Her insistence on having guy "friends" is her keeping her options open if/when she dumps you. She is making a point to assert her "independence". This tells me she is not serious about the relationship for long-term.
You have two choices. 1). Suck it up and let her have "guy friends". 50/50 she sees you as a weakling for backing down.
2) Dump her ass and tell her exactly why.
It is possible to be friends with the opposite gender without being sexually attracted to them. I am only sexually attracted to one of my female friends. I am not saying it's the same with her male friends, but some of them may just be friends. As for cheating, don't expect her to be cheating unless you have strong evidence to suggest it. On the off chance all her male friends are attracted to her, shouldn't you be glad she is still choosing you
It sounds to me like you don't trust her. Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Whether you leave her or not, i think it would still be wise to seek professional help regarding your jealousy.
Wtf? This isn’t even a case related to jealousy. Its just trust issues
@White_Boy_506 he should still seek professional help. And trust issues & jealousy go hand in hand.
Sorry man, but not allowing her to have friends is just plain wrong. You have some serious trust, jealousy and control issues and should definitely get some counseling even if she stays with you. You'll both be happier for it.
She sounds like a bitch.
Despite knowing the fact that guys wants to hookup with her she makes it sound like it's a special privilege "I'M SO HOT everyone wants me".
She will dump you soon for another man because of her attitude.
bro ur toxic. Let her have guy friends and u can't just assume thing. If she’s gonna cheat on u, then let it be. Not letting her have guy friends won’t prevent her from cheating on u. Maybe its even better if u let her, cause hat way u will see if she's loyal or not.
I think men and women can't "just be friends" as one side or another will ALWAYS have feelings.
If you don't like that she has male friends and won't stop hanging out with them.
Break up with her.
You'll need mental therapy if you break up?
Grow up bro
You need to apologise and seek out professional help. You obviously have insecurities of your own that you need to work on instead of kicking off at her. She is allowed male friends
Dude just leave her
She kinda sounds like a narcissist (although, I think this might be a strong judgement on someone I don't know)
But she doesn't seem like a good partner
These are your insecurities and shouldn't affect her friendships. You can't control another person, you either trust her or let her go.
You might need professional help, why does it bother you so much... I mean she chose to date you when she has other “options” if you think of her friends as competition (which they shouldn’t be)
Always apologize for losing your temper, regardless of the reason. Mature people don't let their anger control them.
If you have those issues and you've explained as much and she can't adapt or at least factor them in, then it's time to go. Personally I would have left after her "I'm so hot" retort.
You need therapy as soon as possible. She's entitled to have her own friendships, even if they're guys, and if she hasn't behaved in a wrong way you have no right to accuse her of cheating.
It's pretty unwise to accuse someone of cheating.
Some just doesn't want to realize that.
Wow. She gaslit you. “Everyone wants me” suuuurrre. You’re better off without her. As a matter of fact, start dating someone else and then see how she reacts then insist that you can’t help that women all want you.