He asked for my number but has a girlfriend. What shall I do?

[Anonymous]

A guy asked me for my number so I gave it to him - he called me and we just talked then I asked him what his IG was but he said he doesn’t really use it and same goes for other social media platforms bc he’s “busy with work”. However, he told me his full name so I proceeded to search him on fb and I see that he’s in a relationship? We’ve been messaging and flirting over text and he even called me just to say goodnight and I didn’t know whether to bring it up to him during the call or not.

He said he’ll call again tomorrow but I don't know what to do? Shall I call him out on it? Or should I just ignore him?

[pantsuhunter]

Defo ask about it, I don't know what you've seen. If it's just the relationship status then they might have forgotten to change it etc but either way they can't cope their way out of that question

[Asker]

I saw the girl post pics of them on a date just the day before (which was the day he first called me) so I don’t think they’ve forgotten about the relationship status

[pantsuhunter]

Then you can only ask ig, you'll regret it if you don't. Also I kind of overthink things when it comes to how a girl would react so maybe it's the same for you so if it's any help as a guy I would not fault you for asking about the girl on my Facebook page or if I was in a relationship etc because he hasn't asked you out there's no reason you shouldn't ask

[Asker]

So I asked him and he said that he just asked for my number to get to know me as friends? Yet before this, he was flirting with me talking about taking me out and how pretty I am?

[pantsuhunter]

Ye pretty sus